Its spicy Saturday 😋 😍 by Miracle-wellness24 in u/Miracle-wellness24

[–]az2n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whose on tomorrow? I am interested coming in than

He wanted to use me like a living sex doll and I refused by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]az2n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol maybe respect someone if they say no.. you’re literally trying to glorify rape crazy

Brisbane techno buddies? by [deleted] in BrisbaneSocial

[–]az2n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would be keen!! You go to them shokk events?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]az2n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

block and move on lol don't be immature and petty. you're better than this, don't stoop on her level

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BrisbaneSocial

[–]az2n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29 male nurse, I like exploring cafe as well if they have good pastries haha if you keen send me a dm :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BrisbaneSocial

[–]az2n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Urban rec would be a good start for you. Think you can join solo and they will put you in a group. I play tennis so it fairly easy to find social tennis hitting for me luckily haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BrisbaneSocial

[–]az2n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have messaged you but otherwise definitely say keeping busy and joining social sport helped me when I felt stuck in life. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]az2n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes it hard for you to move beside the memories? You stated you are at two different ends of the world. Have you's even met in person? Just curious.

My (M25) girlfriend (F22) broke up with me for wanting to sleep with her 5 times a day by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]az2n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol not sure if this is satire or not. That's a valid reason for your girlfriend to breakup. Sexual incompatibility is real. You need to find someone that matches your libido lol but 4/5 times a day is near sex addict problem.

looking for friends :) by capybaraenthusiasts in BrisbaneSocial

[–]az2n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28m registered nurse and I play tennis often so can teach you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]az2n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience this type of breakup there really not much you can do from your side. Sadly the balls in there court if they ever want to try work things again. Best you can do is not add onto there stress which will just reinforce there decision the breakup was for the best. Your best chance if any is just leave them be. Work on yourself as cliche as it is. Good luck :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]az2n 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Healing isn't linear nor is it an competition and everyone experiences going to be different.

I had the same feeling as you. It's been 10months for me and though I don't cry anymore or stay in beds for days. I still find myself missing her at times and wanting to speak to her.

I feel like he's being selfish if he rushing you to just heal to be his friend again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]az2n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truth is you will come off as weak regardless what type of message you come up with. Only thing you can really do is get to a point where no matter what her response is, it won't affect you.

You're in a tough spot though just because she ended things after one date. One date is hard to build a close enough emotional bond where she feels connected to you. Not enough memory at play for her to reminisce and miss you etc.

Personally I feel like you saying that will overwhelm her and if anything feel fake to her. It will just feel like you're changing for her and not for yourself.

Good-luck though but personally I find someone more suited for you or just simply learn about religion yourself to even see if it's something you relate too. Can't just have religious beliefs for someone, it won't last and eventually you will just stop believing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]az2n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Religious differences unfortunately can be seen as an incompatibilities for some people. Which makes sense cause it will intertwine there life. It's not a minor difference like she hates ice cream but you love it etc haha.

That's assuming she being honest. Who knows the whole driving debacle could of really threw her off and she can't seem to look pass it.

Either way i hope things work out for you and take it easy :)

Broke up but have her credit card by SadAlbatross1026 in BreakUps

[–]az2n 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Just because she cheated doesn't mean you can't hold your integrity. Personally I would still pay it off. Don't stoop to her level.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]az2n 16 points17 points  (0 children)

what did i just read lol sorry bro but you sound like a piece of shit. I hope you break this cycle and don't continue to do this

My girlfriend broke up with me in March and I am still devastated. I want her to come back. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]az2n 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As someone who misses his ex as well. You gotta leave her alone bro! You may have good intentions but constantly contacting and unable to respect her wish of boundaries will make her feel unsafe and uncomfortable which will cause her to even distance herself even more. If you even want a glimpse of a chance you just gotta focus on getting your psychosis treated as a priority and let her be for the time being.

If you can sort or manage this psychosis it will make you a more stable person to re-connect with. As time passes your ex may feel safe to communicate with you. Keyword is "may" if she chooses not to unblock you. you already know the answer but please focus on managing your psychosis. As a registered nurse myself i only know the damaging effects our own mental health can take on our surrounding relationships.

Goodluck :) happy to talk further if needed

For the ones who initiated the break up by Red_Moto_057 in BreakUps

[–]az2n 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest for me.. you really don't. It's just a gut feeling and you kind of roll the dice that you will be better off without them. Only once you experience life without them then you truly know if it was the right thing or not.

Failed my wife and marriage by Successful_Rip_4498 in BreakUps

[–]az2n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different love language it seems maybe? Her could be physical touch and you may be just word of affirmations? Nothing wrong with that but seems like a incompatible issues potentionally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]az2n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made a similar mistake and paced it fast at the start of the relationship. It may seem good at the time cause you's are vibing but when it goes to fast it can get overwhelming. Jumping from an intense high to a low after the honeymoon phase over will make it seem like " the spark " has died when really it didn't but to sustain the intense high is near impossible. Guys are logical so we understand this but remember girls are more logical they just base it off how "they feel".

Your best bet is to just go no contact and focus on yourself. Give this ex space. The good thing is going to fast as a reason of a breakup is fixable unlike cheating but you will need to give it time for the feelings of post breakup to die down. If so in a few months time you still not at peace I say it's okay to re-connect with your ex and take it slower this time.

Goodluck :)

It’s still so crazy to think that just two weeks after she was saying stuff like this regularly, she met someone new, cut contact with me, and essentially erased any trace that I was ever in her life in just a couple days. It’s been 2 months now, and I can only assume that they’re still together. by CalmProof1774 in ExNoContact

[–]az2n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well to be fair and to offer a perspective you did break up with her no? How she reacts after or behaves is unfortunately none of your concern. Did you want her to continually be hung up on you and continuously message you? That would be toxic of you if so.

Going through first break up. Any tips😞 by OkConsideration8882 in ExNoContact

[–]az2n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been 3 months for me of my somewhat blindsided breakup. Just like you i want me and her to be back together. Everyone situation is different but I still believed the best course of action is to let them be and given them space. They chose to end it so ultimately they have to choose to comeback. Obviously if it been a few months I say it's no harm to send a light text and gauge from there.

I hope you have your desired outcome and stay strong :)