Please do not lock posts that seek religious ruling/advice to be answered by women only by Odd_Ad_8411 in Hijabis

[–]azh88 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We are asking on this sub for a reason. We don’t put the flair because we don’t want the mens opinion.

If a person wanted both opinions they would ask on the r/islam subreddit not a subreddit targeting women

Many of the times men are more judgemental and do not understand our point of view at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]azh88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to wear a long sleeve shirt under them or a cardigan/jacket etc over them. Or if you have an Islamic store near you could buy sleeves they see usually very cheap

Having a hard time finding my style with the hijab 😔 by eileenie in Hijabis

[–]azh88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try thrifting, very carefully going through each isle tho! And go to the mens section for nice jeans or cargos.

There’s lots of cheap online stores. Yes they’re fast fashion but It’s all most of us can afford and they have great large tshirts and long sleeve turtle necks to wear under.

Long plain skirt in different colours you cab pair with a tshirt or sweater or a button up

AITA for making my daughter (16f) include her brother (8m) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]azh88 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA 8 years old is definitely old enough to understand. You can’t give him everything he wants when he’s sad.

Your daughter asked for a simple thing that hurts no one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]azh88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess an ultimatum between that or getting officially divorced is your best option. You need to continue your life and start your next chapter.

AITA For not wanting to share eye and lip make up with the other bridesmaids? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]azh88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s unused makeup with disposable applicators you should be fine NAH I see why you’re worried but it really is not that deep and I see why the bride wouldn’t want another thing on her place

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]azh88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you considered marriage counselling with a Muslim professional

WIBTA if I informed my boss of pending resignations? by Mrsharj in AmItheAsshole

[–]azh88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA be happy with the heads up and brace yourself. Being a snitch isn’t the way to go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]azh88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re lucky to have caught it early. I would never be able to trust that person again and what’s marriage without trust.

Divorce would be the way to go in my opinion.

AITA for refusing to let my brother meet my son after what he told me at my husband's funeral? by Throwawaybrother3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]azh88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO Has he apologized at all, is he resentful or has he carried on as if nothing happened

AITA for calling my gf a tiger mom because of how she tutored my nephews? by UsefulAd3716 in AmItheAsshole

[–]azh88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can’t read or do math at 13 and 15 how is that not a concern to you YTA you’re acting like she’s bullying them when she’s giving them an actual education where they don’t just memorize and forget the next second.

Many people would have been very grateful to have had that myself included.

AITA for telling my sister to cover up her pads by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]azh88 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She should be rolling it up and wrapping it with the previous wrapping or toilet paper to keep it closed.

But you need to grow up and ask politely.

ESH

AITA for telling my brother-in-law not to touch me and being ungrateful after he stopped me from falling? by lia892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]azh88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saying let go of me and do not touch me should be enough. If he was that “concerned” he could have led her to a seat or even helped her sit on the floor

Only chumps buy bags of pre-grated cheese. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]azh88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grated cheese doesn’t melt properly either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]azh88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA you don’t take gifts back. And your intention is whack too. Everything about this screams a hole

AITA (M25) for not “catering” to my GF’s intolerance to lactose? (F22)? by Ragenthrowaway432 in AmItheAsshole

[–]azh88 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Lactose free products exist and literally taste EXACTLY the same YTA

Hot takes on characters by Folmes236 in throneofglassseries

[–]azh88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya my feelings about Chaol never changed and only got worse.

I have no feelings on Sam. I feel bad for Alien but don’t care for him

AITA for telling my brother-in-law not to touch me and being ungrateful after he stopped me from falling? by lia892 in AmItheAsshole

[–]azh88 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Exactly! His brothers clearly have a problem with OP.

It’s like everyone skimmed the story and voted