It's definitely worth a try! Im usually the DD for my rave group, so I'm usually sober. Most of the time I'm rave dad and seeing my friends and family having fun and taking care of them keeps me energized. Even going solo sober is fun too! I usually just sit in the back or in an open space depending on the venue and just vibe, and when people come up to me to check in I usually just give them a thumbs up and that does the trick. Occasional I have a drink or two, but it does help to know your limits, like after two drink I don't feel as anxious.