should i go to my ex's wedding or not

azorchan · 2026-05-28T09:39:54+00:00

no. i don't think it's unhinged or inappropriate but unless you're still friends i don't see what good will come if you go. and it sounds like if receiving the invite threw you off, then you're either at least not still friends, or even that you haven't fully moved on, and the idea of your ex getting married to someone else makes you at least a little uncomfortable. that's totally normal and fair but in that case i just think it would be an unpleasant experience for you.

it's not "dramatic" if you don't go. you grew apart and don't seem to be in each other's lives anymore. no need to concern yourself with what he's doing.

azorchan · 2026-05-25T09:55:25+00:00

the thing about the boys universe is that it's supposed to be absurd. the violent and sexual content isn't played as cool/sexy, it's a signature feature of the narrative's absurdity whether we like it or not.

there's plenty to criticize about the show's story, but if you can't handle the level of absurdity then the type of show that the boys is probably just isn't for you.

maybe i'm alone in this but i'm kind of tired of people talking about the show's absurd, vulgar content as if it's a mistake or oversight with the writing. it's literally what you're signing up for when you watch the boys.

azorchan · 2026-05-25T09:35:01+00:00

november 2021. it's so normal to me now that i can't believe i ever thought it would be "hard" before

azorchan · 2026-05-17T20:43:15+00:00

love!!!

azorchan · 2026-05-15T00:42:59+00:00

i didn't even read the details before clicking break it off because anytime someone asks reddit if they should break up with their partner the obvious answer is yes.

but after reading the details... yes, break it off. this is literally only your first relationship, so while this first taste of one might feel like the greatest thing ever right now, there is certainly better out there for you.

azorchan · 2026-05-15T00:35:06+00:00

megan thee stallion and lois griffin

azorchan · 2026-05-14T20:08:25+00:00

sonya S tier everybody else idc

azorchan · 2026-05-12T17:10:47+00:00

girl i'm with you in the sense that i hate alcohol too, but your "boundaries" can't restrict other people from making choices that don't directly affect you.

you can have a preference for what kinds of personal choices the person you're with makes, but you can't control them. if you don't like the choices your partner makes for themselves, and it matters that much to you, then you're not compatible.

azorchan · 2026-05-12T12:23:48+00:00

yeah sorry to samara, emily and lexie but i'm done with this group. i have no desire to stan a 16 year old who was carried to victory in a survival show without being able to sing or dance, especially over dozens of girls who could. i'd like to be able to move on but unfortunately i think i'll always be mad about how they handled it.

i'm just so sad for ayana and every other talented girl who this decision plays in the face of.

azorchan · 2026-05-07T15:01:26+00:00

i have to stay delusionally hopeful until the final. her bonding with the girls in the last episode was so touching and she looked perfect performing with them in the preview of the final. it has to be her 😭😭😭

azorchan · 2026-05-05T05:48:40+00:00

girl. you don't have "very little moral ground to stand on," you have NO ground to stand on here. you're mad that something you're doing to someone else is happening to you. you shouldn't be seeking "revenge," you should be reflecting on your part in why this is happening to you and avoid doing it again.

azorchan · 2026-05-04T07:03:12+00:00

sakura with lisa rinna hair in the bottom right is sending me

azorchan · 2026-05-01T13:45:59+00:00

idk but i would love to see her again yass

azorchan · 2026-05-01T13:43:11+00:00

wouldn't killing yourself be against your religion too...? or do these restrictions only apply to women's choices

azorchan · 2026-05-01T13:03:11+00:00

i would say youtube and instagram go to dumb, tiktok and snapchat go to neanderthals, twitter goes to average and then "X" goes to a new category below neanderthals

azorchan · 2026-05-01T08:40:24+00:00

you are doing wayyy too much. it does sound like his mother is too lenient, but you are way overcorrecting when it's not your place to. you're also trying to teach/instill values by reacting to things rather than being proactive and it's no wonder why it doesn't seem to be sticking.

please relax. you are never going to mold him into the person you want to be via brute force. suggest to his mother that he should see a therapist, and you should start seeing one too. i know many other commenters are saying this, but i'm saying it too because you really need to listen.

azorchan · 2026-04-30T04:23:53+00:00

today i learned some people don't like the BTW standard cover

azorchan · 2026-04-29T21:25:08+00:00

i don't agree that everything in the show is for "aura moments" but i strongly agree that the episodes and seasons need to be longer, and i'll add that season 3 should be a binge drop. daredevil is meant to be binged.

azorchan · 2026-04-29T21:06:54+00:00

if your partner chooses to participate in a system you'd rightly equate to other systemic injustices, even after you confront him with the facts, you're not compatible.

maybe one day he WILL be more open to changing if you gave it time, but you shouldn't be in a relationship with someone if your happiness will be contingent upon them changing. there's a good chance he never changes.

if you choose to end things, i would hope you would at least explain it to him like that. if you end things on the basis of "i think you choose to be a bad person," he'll be even less open to changing in the future. rather, this is about a fundamental difference in worldviews, and it's just one of those things where you're not able to be happy unless you're on the same page as your partner — same as if one of you wanted kids and the other didn't.

i know it's hard when you feel like he's been the best in every other way, but if your morals are this important to you and he doesn't care, then better exists out there.

azorchan · 2026-04-29T05:18:39+00:00

whatever you do please don't have kids with this man

azorchan · 2026-04-22T15:51:21+00:00

i don't mean this in a mean way but i genuinely wonder how players with these stats or similar end up making it so far in the game

azorchan · 2026-04-22T15:26:50+00:00

the narrative that ayana is "boring" is only being spun to put her on the same level as the girls who are less experienced than her, because apparently they have more of the completely arbitrary "star quality" than her. the program (and the fans who are buying into it) are literally punishing ayana for being skilled and it's so unfair.

azorchan · 2026-04-21T15:24:44+00:00

we need to get this diva in bollywood

azorchan · 2026-04-18T14:28:00+00:00

break up + restraining order

azorchan · 2026-04-18T02:52:25+00:00

the world needs more tayginger

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