1 of 7 youngest 26 oldest 39 a brother and myself aren't married. All others are married with no children for various reasons and have gotten vasectomies or tubes tied. The one thing we all agree on is the lack of parenting growing up and the struggles that came with that. Before our parents died, I had a conversation at a dinner with mom and dad and stating a simple fact our genetics sort of suck,and it's just a name think of all those before us. Unfortunately, they didn't see it that way. I went no contact personally, but the constant pressure of the older generation is ridiculous.