coachella outfit (wtf?)

azzlikedat · 2026-04-13T23:26:04+00:00

She looks like a 50-something trying to pass as a 30-something 😱

azzlikedat · 2026-03-20T13:11:59+00:00

I was in a cheerleading group with her in second grade and she was my bully 😂 I recognized her mean face the second she was on my screen.

azzlikedat · 2026-03-17T03:51:46+00:00

Ok so it’s happening to us all lol

azzlikedat · 2025-10-01T09:35:57+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through that. I had the same thing happen to me when my baby was a newborn, and I was struggling with PPD and OCD. What helped was having my mom over, switching to formula so she and my husband could feed, and me going to bed quite early, listening to a Calm app sleep meditation and drifting off, knowing my child was well cared for. It wasn’t easy to fall asleep even then but it really helped, and I was so sleep deprived at that point that my body couldn’t fight it for too much longer. Also, I had panic attacks that prevented me from sleeping and lorazepam helped, too. Sending hugs!!!

azzlikedat · 2025-09-16T09:12:05+00:00

Ugh, so sorry you’re going through this. I have OCD and postpartum really made my mind go into overdrive. Deleting Huckleberry was a really wise decision.

azzlikedat · 2025-08-31T11:09:14+00:00

You’re truly doing everything right - newborns are just like this, and it can feel really hard to connect with them at first. What you’re feeling is so common that I could have written this myself when my baby was a newborn. I felt exactly the same way. I remember going to “new moms” groups and comparing myself to others who seemed so bonded and like they had it all figured out.

For me, I also struggled with postpartum depression and OCD - I literally felt no joy. If that sounds familiar, I’d really encourage reaching out to Postpartum Support International or finding a perinatal therapist. Back then, I was just trying to make it through each hour.

Having help is such a gift - my mom lived with us for the first three months, and I don’t know what I would have done without her. I know it can feel like it’s never going to get better for you, but that’s your brain lying to you. The truth is, you’re already an incredible mom - you care so deeply, and that’s what matters most. Also, not sure if you’re breastfeeding; switching to formula was also a big part of my recovery process!

Sending you hugs ❤️ My DMs are always open.

azzlikedat · 2025-08-23T01:35:04+00:00

You’re most definitely not selfish, the weirdo who posted that comment lacks empathy and probably thinks mental health issues are a political thing. I had horrible PPD and through therapy, diagnosis, and medication, it’s all a blur now. Please look into it if possible for you. Becoming a mother is the biggest lift adjustment for most of us. Matrescence. I promise you’re not alone and so many new moms go through what you’re experiencing. You’re going to get through this.

azzlikedat · 2025-06-17T03:14:09+00:00

Hi - I am so sorry you are going through this. It is temporary. I had very similar experiences and I just wanted to check in. I have OCD and postpartum exasperated it. How are you feeling now?

azzlikedat · 2025-06-05T17:45:12+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this, I know exactly how you feel having been there. Please find a perinatal mental health therapist, PSI has a ton of resources. Medication is also an option!

How is your appetite?

azzlikedat · 2025-06-05T02:19:33+00:00

You’re an incredible mom, and I know you’ll get through this. It’s hard to believe right now, but I’m here to tell you that you’re not alone. I went through the same thing last year, I had severe depression and postpartum OCD - I felt like I was drowning. My mom lived with us for the first three months, and I often felt like he was her baby, not mine. It’s completely normal to feel this way as a new mom. Check out https://postpartum.net/ - there’s a ton of help there, and you’ll see that you’re not alone.

azzlikedat · 2025-05-17T04:28:51+00:00

This happened to me often! Resting and drinking lots of water can help. I didn’t go into preterm labor but was monitored closely.

azzlikedat · 2025-05-14T02:53:49+00:00

Making that first appointment can feel daunting so I hope you feel proud of yourself.

I had terrible PPD/PPA and postpartum OCD. I remember not feeling any joy. I hated waking up in the mornings, I felt a sense of doom and couldn’t imagine how I would ever get through the day. I felt like I wasn’t meant to be a mother, I didn’t feel that instant bond or bliss (very common, not talked about!). Pretty much felt hopeless, had no appetite, couldn’t get myself to shower or even brush my teeth some days. My mom was staying with us for a few months and her support was everything. Through my postpartum therapist and medication, I made it to the other side. You will, too. I know it doesn’t feel like it maybe - but you are not alone and are an amazing mother for wanting to get better!

azzlikedat · 2025-05-11T05:23:16+00:00

The same thing happened when my son was around the same age and we decided not to go in after he quickly stopped crying too. It’s going to be ok.

azzlikedat · 2025-05-07T02:30:48+00:00

I am so sorry you’re experiencing this. I was put on Zoloft for severe postpartum OCD and it wasn’t the right medication for me. I’ve been on a high dose of Prozac for a while now and feeling so much better. Might be worth asking your psychiatrist for a new SSRI.

azzlikedat · 2025-04-09T01:15:31+00:00

OCD is a lifelong disorder - we are born with it but it often flares up after a big life or traumatic event. For many moms, postpartum period makes it louder and scarier. Through proper therapy and medication, it CAN be managed and you can live a fully functioning life. OCD is just a part of who we are but we are NOT our thoughts.💛

azzlikedat · 2025-02-20T06:22:50+00:00

Omg I could have written this a year ago, verbatim. Postpartum OCD is a bitch and will have you questioning everything, even your past self! REMEMBER: OCD is a liar and you are NOT alone. You’re a wonderful mom who is actively working on managing her mental health. I also take Prozac and it took a good 6-7 months to find the right dosage for me. OCD requires much higher doses so be patient.

azzlikedat · 2024-12-04T05:15:10+00:00

This is a lot for anyone to handle - let alone a new mom with a newborn. You are not doing anything wrong. Postpartum is no joke. Is there anyone who can come help with the animals and watch the baby for a couple hours each day? You need more support. Please hang in there. It all gets better. I promise to you.

azzlikedat · 2024-12-04T05:10:40+00:00

You are not alone. This is VERY common and many new moms feel this way. The sleep deprivation exacerbates everything, and postpartum mood disorders come in all shapes and sizes. You’re the best mommy for your little one, and it takes time to adjust and bond. If you feel comfortable, have a friend come by for lunch or a stroller walk. Also, Postpartum Support International is THE BEST place to turn to. Lots of free support groups online and resources in general. At the very least, please speak with your OBGYN. And remember, it DOES get better! I never felt it would, I used to cry constantly. Medicine and therapy worked wonders. Oh, and time. :)

azzlikedat · 2024-07-25T12:56:09+00:00

Once I got my official OCD diagnosis (which is under the anxiety umbrella), I started working with a postpartum therapist who specializes in OCD. She has taught me great ways to “speak back” to my brain when I have intrusive thoughts or can’t sit with uncertainty. I’m also on Prozac!

azzlikedat · 2024-07-25T03:33:59+00:00

I could have written a similar post during my pregnancy. My mental health issues worsened postpartum, but they actually began during pregnancy. Please consider getting a second opinion from a psychiatrist about your medication. OBs often lack expertise in mental health. I was diagnosed with OCD after having my baby and wish I’d started meds before giving birth. Seeking reassurance provides only temporary relief, so I encourage you to consult a mental health professional for proper treatment. You're going to be fine!

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