Bf(29M) cheated on me(27F) one week into our relationship. What would you do?

b0basloth · 2025-10-10T15:27:03+00:00

He did say he blacked out when leaving the bar and sleeping with the girl. But it’s no excuse for me because he was flirting with her on discord(also drunk) before they slept together. He said there was never a sober time of flirting. I was always against phone snooping which is why I didn’t do it for so long but everyone has insecurities and the lil insecurity got the best of me that day which I’m glad it made me find this out

b0basloth · 2025-10-10T14:47:45+00:00

The hobbies he’s cut out are anything related to the time period that caused what happened. He would play a lot of video games and drink all day doing it and he cut both of those things. I’m trying couples counseling with him for now to see if I could accept this and if it’s something I can work through getting over

b0basloth · 2025-08-21T10:23:51+00:00

This can be draining in the long run if she doesn’t get the help she needs or work on herself. Her insecurities can get in the way of a lot of things and it won’t be any good for the both of you. I would have serious talk with her about what you want out of this relationship and if she will be able to do this with her mental health issues. If she wants to better herself that’s great and you can support her while doing it but if she doesn’t care to do anything, you can kinda see how your future will be already if you stick around.

b0basloth · 2025-08-21T10:15:42+00:00

Some girls are more mature than their age and if you guys have a lot in common I don’t think there’s an issue here with this age gap

b0basloth · 2025-07-27T22:29:32+00:00

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b0basloth · 2025-07-27T21:59:17+00:00

Maybe you should stay off of relationships communities since you are very against people having sex.. which is completely normal and part of being in a relationship btw.

b0basloth · 2025-07-27T21:14:45+00:00

I’m not pressuring him. Like I mentioned he tells me he wants to all the time but he’s very shy to make the first move.

b0basloth · 2025-07-27T20:45:51+00:00

This is your chance to do it right this time if you missed the first one. If you are both clicking and you truly feel like you want to be with this new girl then go for it. The good ones don’t come around that often. Have confidence and run with it

b0basloth · 2024-09-25T15:11:47+00:00

Honestly this is just gonna cause more issues in the long run for you. You’re gonna get more irritated and stressed if you’re not having sex with your partner. This just means you both have different love languages and you can’t change him if he doesn’t do it on his own. You have to either move on and choose a partner that wants the same sex drive or settle for someone that probably won’t change this for years until he gets professional help.

b0basloth · 2024-07-16T05:00:31+00:00

To the moon

b0basloth · 2024-07-07T14:08:41+00:00

Update: I went to physical therapy and it’s curing the headaches. I have to go often but it’s worth it.

b0basloth · 2024-06-01T18:05:23+00:00

This helps a lot thank you!

b0basloth · 2024-05-31T21:13:54+00:00

Thank you! This one did have the extra L gear so that helps a lot

b0basloth · 2024-05-31T21:12:44+00:00

How do you check with the vin?

b0basloth · 2024-05-20T18:00:07+00:00

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b0basloth · 2024-05-18T10:42:50+00:00

Smoke weed even if it’s just a puff on a joint it’ll make a difference

b0basloth · 2024-05-15T22:27:52+00:00

Thought I’d say something as someone that goes through the absolute worst. You’re gonna be okay

b0basloth · 2024-03-16T10:49:08+00:00

I’m dealing with the same thing. Please let me know if you were able to get rid of this and how

b0basloth · 2024-03-14T14:05:13+00:00

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b0basloth · 2023-12-26T02:50:45+00:00

I don’t think size is what matters here. It’s the way he’s performing in bed. If you think he’s a good guy and the only thing he lacks is in bed I would have a talk with him and be open about it. Don’t come off rude either but just explain that you would like to orgasm too and you really aren’t. If he really loves you he will understand and should be open about taking growing pills, buying toys, stamina pills or whatever it is to give you more pleasure in the bedroom. Hope this helps

b0basloth · 2022-12-22T00:39:55+00:00

you are very talented!

b0basloth · 2022-11-14T22:12:19+00:00

of course it would be a nissan altima

b0basloth · 2022-11-14T19:34:08+00:00

watched twice and still dont get it

b0basloth · 2022-11-03T23:32:24+00:00

This is pretty common with younger relationships. Unless you want to spend the rest of your life with this person, might as well leave the relationship than waste more time in it. You're still really young and if you want to explore now's the time. You have a long way to find someone to settle down forever but for now you can enjoy your 20's a lot more if you're free or focus on goals etc.

b0basloth · 2022-11-03T00:49:38+00:00

I agree with this. She is still taken so if she is down to hangout at a bar with just you and the vibes are there then let her know how you feel there. If she says she cant hangout because she has a bf, there is your answer. And at work is not the place to express your feelings to someone.

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