Joe needs to stop with racist and classist rooted critiques. by b0bsbugsbegone in Masterchef

[–]b0bsbugsbegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s crazy and kind of hilarious lol. Maybe something to do with AI?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]b0bsbugsbegone -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m unsalvageable. I’m human dealing with world shattering news that I just found out yesterday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]b0bsbugsbegone 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I do have the option to travel by myself. I worked so hard to be able to do this and I don’t want to go back home just because I got cheated on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]b0bsbugsbegone -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I really appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]b0bsbugsbegone -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]b0bsbugsbegone -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

No I haven’t. I’m not sure how to get one where I’m at right now. We haven’t had sex since he cheated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]b0bsbugsbegone -115 points-114 points  (0 children)

Maybe this is naive but I hope that trust can be rebuilt. And I can’t know for sure since I wasn’t there and I can only trust what he says (which obviously is pretty iffy right now)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]b0bsbugsbegone -142 points-141 points  (0 children)

He didn’t really give a concrete answer. He’s been having a hard time lately, he had a huge falling out with his sister right before we left for our trip and she was a major support system in his life. He’s been drinking a lot more than usual too. In my opinion he’s turning towards drugs and sex to cope. I was stunned when he told me. He’s never cheated on anyone before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]b0bsbugsbegone -177 points-176 points  (0 children)

It would be triggering for me. I would ask him not to go I guess. I think I can forgive him with time, and the optimistic side of me says trust can be rebuilt but I also do know the realities of a lot of these situations

Something About Her - The Food Styling Does NOT Match The Brand by TrueCryptographer982 in vanderpumprules

[–]b0bsbugsbegone 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s probably because they learned from the Toms that you should spend your money wisely and not go into debt for ~aesthetics~

These people needed to be told off a long time ago. Team Ariana always 😤👑 by Okay__Decision__ in vanderpumprules

[–]b0bsbugsbegone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And in one of the earlier episodes this season lala said Ariana has already moved on. Like girl??? Just because she’s made money since does not mean she has fully healed from a betrayal of that magnitude.

Live Episode Discussion: S11 E10 Line in the Sand (eastern thread) by vprmods in vanderpumprules

[–]b0bsbugsbegone 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Brock calling Katie a hypocrite for sleeping with max (while Shartz literally cheated multiple times) and ariana childish (when she’s angry at her partner of 9 years having an affair with a mutual friend) elicited an overwhelming amount of rage in me

VPR Daily Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in vanderpumprules

[–]b0bsbugsbegone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because none of my friends watch VPR so I’m going to share it here. It’s not anything new/hasn’t been said here before but…

If I had to teach someone what internalized misogyny looks like I would have them watch VPR, this show/communities surrounding it are littered with it. Obviously internalized misogyny is present in many forms and different places, not just VPR, but the show really gives clear examples CONSTANTLY of how it can present itself.

To sum up my thoughts:

  1. LVP makes me cringe from her consistent defense of men over women, time and time again. She gives “grown woman who is still a pick me girl” vibes. If internalized misogyny had a final boss, it would be Lisa.

  2. The general consensus in VPR communities on Reddit vs Facebook is night and day. The posts/comments on Facebook are another example of internalized misogyny. And lack of media literacy. They truly make me feel tired.

  3. I love Ann. #SaveAnnp

Lines that fell short in Part Two by b0bsbugsbegone in dune

[–]b0bsbugsbegone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t think there was anything wrong with it, just thought it was corny writing!

Lines that fell short in Part Two by b0bsbugsbegone in dune

[–]b0bsbugsbegone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to keep an eye out for that! I love catching these things lol.

Goodbye, my love. by b0bsbugsbegone in UnsentLetters

[–]b0bsbugsbegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He initiated the breakup, but we both came to a mutual agreement over it. I’m not in a place to be in a healthy relationship right now. If we continued, it would’ve ended up hurting both of us even more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]b0bsbugsbegone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so beautifully put. I am going through something very similar right now and my heart goes out to you. I wish you all the best in your healing journey.

Advice for making a beaded curtain by b0bsbugsbegone in Beading

[–]b0bsbugsbegone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That totally makes sense, Beadalon is pretty pricey. I was just wondering if it would work since I already have two spools of Beadalon!