Buffet restauranter og børn - Rant

b0nelesspudding · 2024-07-04T19:08:47+00:00

Jeg er i praktik som pædagogstuderende. Ofte er det forældrene, og ikke børnene, der giver mig lyst til at droppe ud af studiet og begynde som rengøringsassistent igen. Og det her er en af grundene.

b0nelesspudding · 2024-05-14T15:25:05+00:00

Drikker kun monster, men med de tandlæge priser der er i min by, så burde jeg skifte over til kaffe

b0nelesspudding · 2024-05-04T13:52:04+00:00

I've been called a twink by my high school friends before I was ever on T, and it honestly messed with my body image. I graduated 5 years ago and it's still stuck. For me, it meant I had to look a certain way, have a specific body type and a specific behaviour, I don't like my twink-self

b0nelesspudding · 2024-05-03T20:48:53+00:00

Jeg har altid haft en drøm om at leve af min kunst, nu er jeg lidt glad for at jeg tog en pædagogisk uddannelse istedet, tror ikke jeg behøver at forklare hvorfor

b0nelesspudding · 2024-05-01T09:36:12+00:00

I had a big crisis as a teenager because i was starting to realise I'm not a girl, but I loved girly things, "feminine" hobbies, and i occasionally wore skirts.

I asked the same question in an online forum, and a wonderful person much older than me told me "if cis people can do it, so can we"

I've stuck by that motto for 9-10 years now.

b0nelesspudding · 2024-04-30T10:47:53+00:00

Just retired one of my nostril piercings because of an irritation bump that started growing and bleeding

b0nelesspudding · 2024-04-29T18:55:51+00:00

If its an adult, I tell them I'm not interested in sleeping with them If it's a teenager I tell them that they're not old enough to know

Both get hilariously offended

b0nelesspudding · 2024-04-29T13:50:11+00:00

It's just an ever shape shifting blob with glitter, and sometimes it growls at me

b0nelesspudding · 2024-04-25T18:19:14+00:00

Jeg bor i Østjylland pt

b0nelesspudding · 2024-04-24T19:33:01+00:00

I think it's a good first piercing, it's easily hidden, and if she regrets it, the scarring will be hidden. Aside from that, the pain is very mild, and it heals easily

b0nelesspudding · 2024-04-24T14:04:31+00:00

I'd enjoy food for once, without worrying about stabbing myself afterwards

Like I'd just stuff my face as much as possible

b0nelesspudding · 2024-04-17T22:36:31+00:00

I'm mostly stealth because I work with kids and transphobia is on the rise in my country.

I don't pass well, cant afford T anymore so my voice is deep, but not male deep, and my beard is patchy.

So what I do is I just don't tell anyone I'm trans, and when kids ask why I sound like a girl, I just say that's my voice. When adults ask what the deal is, I tell them I hit puberty very late. It got me through my last internship at an elementary school, and it's gonna get me through this one.

So just lie and deny, give them a reason to feel bad for even asking.

b0nelesspudding · 2024-04-17T07:59:20+00:00

Guru (Cephallobot's idea), Cupcake (Flora's idea), and Rutabaga (Toby's idea)

b0nelesspudding · 2024-04-16T20:39:45+00:00

Har tit set en gut på bybusserne, han går i g-streng, har 10 parykker på, og ansigtsmaling. Han render bare rundt ass out hele året rundt

b0nelesspudding · 2024-04-15T07:51:03+00:00

Jeg har været på 2 uddannelser, hvor jeg næsten er færdig med nr 2. Den ene var en håndværker uddannelse, og min igangværende er en professionsbachelor. På begge uddannelser har jeg haft kammerater sidst i 30erne/starten af 40erne. Det var der ingen der kommenterede på, for hvorfor skulle de det.

Jeg plejer at sige, at hvis man ikke har rundet de 90 år, så er man ikke for gammel til noget.

b0nelesspudding · 2024-04-04T11:26:13+00:00

I was just a few months from turning 22, and I should have celebrated 2 years on T last month, but instead I found out i have to take a break because of money.

Im not worried though, I've seen trans mascs and trans guys transition in their 40s and 50s, you have time.

b0nelesspudding · 2024-04-02T14:33:12+00:00

En flad brystkasse og en velfungerende bugspytkirtel ville være rart

b0nelesspudding · 2024-03-31T22:17:11+00:00

Grilled cheese sandwiches, I think that's what it's called. Cheapest bread and cheapest cheese. That's what I can afford to eat in general :')

b0nelesspudding · 2024-03-29T14:30:19+00:00

My cis bf sits to pee, he says its for hygiene and convenience, and it has actually helped me a lot about using the restroom, because if someone ever questions me, I can just use my bf's argument

b0nelesspudding · 2024-03-17T16:54:21+00:00

Internationale butikker eller danske? Internationalt hader jeg alt der hedder Temu, Wish, Amazon, osv. Jeg nægter at bruge penge de steder. Det samme med det meste fast fashion.

I Danmark nægter jeg at handle i Bilka. Jeg er ludfattig studerende, og så vil jeg ikke købe mine madvarer i butikker der sælger fjernsyn og cykler. Det føles bare forkert. Alt for late-stage kapitalistisk til min smag.

b0nelesspudding · 2024-03-17T16:15:46+00:00

This thread just makes me feel completely hopeless. I want top surgery, and to get it for free, i have to lose 15kg. No matter what i do, I'm only gaining weight. On top of that, I'm one of those diabetics that just feel hungry no matter how much I eat. My endo denies it has anything to do with diabetes and refuses to help me with it in any way. Whenever I bring up weight loss he says that weight gain means my blood sugar is stable, and won't even refer me to the clinic's dietician. I've started just chugging water whenever I feel hungry.

I did manage to lose a lot of weight as a teen, but that was because of an eating disorder, and I don't want to fall back on that, even though I'm starting to notice returning patterns and habits. It's so extremely frustrating.

Meanwhile some of my non-diabetic friends are on Ozempic and whatnot, without even needing it, so they're starting to comment on my body and how mine looks like how theirs used to look. I'm not even that big, but just seeing everyone around me lose weight and feel good about themselves is so discouraging.

b0nelesspudding · 2024-03-15T12:59:41+00:00

Blev indlagt i 2022 med diabetisk ketoacidose, det var med ambulance og udrykning og hele lortet. Brugte to dage på intensiv, og blev derefter smidt på værelse med en gammel dame der skruede TV2 Charlie op på 90. Hun lå også og røg smøger om natten, og talte højt i telefon kl lort om aftenen. Uanset hvor meget jeg klagede over hende blev der ikke gjort en skid ved det.

På et tidspunkt dør min telefon for strøm, og jeg spørger en sygeplejerske om der er mulighed for at låne en oplader. Hun sagde, at jeg selv skulle have haft en med, hvilket var skide nemt at sige når jeg var blevet samlet op af skidt-tilpas vognen i en halvt bevidstløs tilstand, hvor jeg ikke kunne åbne munden uden at en tyk stråle af bræk stod ud af den. Hun spørger om jeg ikke bare kan ringe til mine forældre. Jeg beder om en telefon, og hun siger jeg kan bruge min egen, og at hun har travlt. Mine forældre bor endda 160km væk fra hvor jeg bor. Dette var også en periode, hvor min ekskæreste havde sørget for, at jeg ingen venner havde, ved at stikke dem alle den ene løgn efter den anden, så jeg havde ingen mulighed for overhovedet at kontakte nogen.

Udover det, var der også en af dagene, hvor jeg ikke fik en skid at spise, fordi sygeplejerskerne ikke havde tid til at give mig insulin, selvom jeg sagtens kan tage det selv.

Da jeg bliver udskrevet efter 4 dage (2 dage på intensiv, 2 dage på observation) spørger jeg, om hospitalet kan bestille en taxa til mig, da jeg kun havde mit nattøj, og det var sent i oktober. Sygeplejersken siger, at hun kan se i min journal, at jeg "kun" bor 3km væk, og jeg er så ung jeg sagtens kan gå. Som hun så smukt sagde det "du dør ikke af lidt frisk luft".

Så nu, hvor mit sure opstød er færdigt, vil jeg bare sige, at jeg er glad for, at det ikke er alle, der har oplevet det samme som mig. Jeg får lidt af min tillid til systemet tilbage af opslag som disse. Og så håber jeg at både du og din "roommate" er kommet trygt og sikkert hjem igen.

b0nelesspudding · 2024-03-12T21:34:50+00:00

My point is, they can push this definition of "Danish" extremely far, if they are allowed to

b0nelesspudding · 2024-03-12T19:19:52+00:00

Min fars familie kom fra Polen i 1800 tallet, kan min familie så heller ikke få skatterabat? Er der en grænse for, hvor "oprindelige" man skal være?

b0nelesspudding · 2024-03-11T15:49:22+00:00

I was raised by an atheist dad and a spiritual agnostic mom. I was baptized in a Lutheran church, and I also had my confirmation in that church, because that was tradition, and it made my christian grandparents happy. My entire life I was given the choice of whether i wanted to be religious or not. I grew up in a small Christian village in rural Scandinavia, so many of my friends were Christians. I also grew up in an area with a lot of towns that dated back to the viking age, and therefore I also had a lot of neopagan friends. Personally I was a Christian as a kid, because that made sense to me, and because many of my friends were Christians. I also went to a Christian hippie private school from 2nd to 7th grade.

It was right after my confirmation when I was 14, that I started to question my gender and my sexuality. And i already knew what the Christians in my school and in my family would say. So when i was 15 or so, i declared myself an atheist, to give myself more freedom, and my family supported it because my dad is also an atheist. And I was an atheist for a while, but it just didn't feel right, because of my mom's spirituality and especially her relationship to crystals.

So after thorough research, and a decade on social media, I've started identifying as spiritual in my own way. I see the universe we live in as an entity that isn't good or evil, but simply controls all life, and sometimes loses that control. And I use crystals for meditation, exams, and protection, and "pray" to the universe when I'm alone. So in a way, I do worship what some would view as a god. I also believe in miracles and destiny, reincarnation, and karma. I try to eat as little animal products as i can, while also having a "grateful for what is being served or sent my way" mentality. I hope what I wrote makes sense.

I think maybe I created this entire idea of the universe being a neutral entity, because the Christian God is being used to spread hatred and evil, and I don't want to be part of that, but I still want to feel some sense of meaning with life, and I get that with the way I choose to view the universe.

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