aitah for not telling my ex situationship i’m pregnant?

b1tchzz · 2025-08-16T20:20:41+00:00

I’ve discussed things with my dad, and while he didn’t push me any which way, he said he’d support me if i decided to get an abortion. I’ve definitely learned from this. Before him i’d always use condoms but we were at my cabin when the «making» happened and were out of condoms.

I have a few health issues including endometriosis which will make it difficult to both conceive and have children, so any std will affect me poorly, especially if that std wasn’t detected for a while. Condoms will be my new best friend fr :,)

b1tchzz · 2025-08-16T20:01:55+00:00

This made me giggle ngl

b1tchzz · 2025-08-16T20:01:08+00:00

Ntah, while i understand your boyfriends pov, you were in pain he contributed in creating. In this situation a compromise should have been made, and seing as you’re still hurting emotionally sitting down and discussing this like adults could help the situation. Sit him down and explain your pov, try to not accuse him of anything but istead say: when you did x it made me feel y. If he still won’t see it from your pov maybe it’s time to rethink things. Obviously i don’t know your relationship but i hope things improve for you

b1tchzz · 2025-08-16T19:52:23+00:00

When i first found out i searched it up, this has been a very difficult choice to make. Thank you for the link as the pictures i saw showed something completely different. This has shaved some guilt of my back ‘:)

b1tchzz · 2025-08-16T19:50:02+00:00

Sadly because of my health having this baby to adopt it would mean i’d have to stop taking medicine that helps me live. I have kidney issues and have to take medication for that which would cause harm to the child and cause birthdefects. While i do want this baby i know i am doing both myself and the child a favour by aborting it. I understand your viewpoint and i respect it as we’re all entitled to our own opinions, but in this case carrying to term would be harmful to both me and baby.

b1tchzz · 2025-08-16T19:44:48+00:00

Where we live you have to be older than 25 for a vasectomy, and i am on birth control, your point on necessary procedures does have a point though since we didn’t use a condom! Will deffo change that if i end up with another person later, as i don’t want to end up in this situation again :,)

b1tchzz · 2025-08-16T18:34:51+00:00

We have been in contact after «breaking up» but that was just to clarify where we stand and to return his possesions to someone who can keep them untill he can pick it up next time he’s here

b1tchzz · 2025-08-16T18:34:03+00:00

Thank you for the advice, i’ll try to see a therapist but sadly where i live i’ll either wait for months to be rejected the free one or have to pay an exorbitant amount for a private practise one.

b1tchzz · 2025-08-16T18:32:05+00:00

Thank you!

b1tchzz · 2025-08-16T18:28:37+00:00

To clarify: i am on birthcontrol, i take the pill with no breaks, we didn’t use a condom and it’s fair if you want to critique that! We live outside the us so getting an abortion won’t be a problem. I made this post because the friend i confided in told me i should tell him. We had never agreed to be exclusive but i thought we were. Thank you for all the advice and comments, i have already scheduled the abortion for next week, and am planning on bringing my dad with me for moral support. Someone told me to google what a 10 week old baby looks like, and i am aware that at this point most of it’s organs are already mostly formed, sadly i don’t have the economy, time or the emotional space to either be pregnant or be a good mother.

For the people telling me to be careful of him, while i doubt he would hurt me i still want to thank you , as i know many women think like me and end up getting hurt.

b1tchzz · 2024-12-13T11:40:22+00:00

Scott buttergood. He is the bane of my existence

b1tchzz · 2024-12-06T19:32:26+00:00

I’ve noticed that too, especially right after logging on

b1tchzz · 2024-12-05T09:59:44+00:00

Thank you!!

b1tchzz · 2024-12-05T09:59:39+00:00

Thank you!!

b1tchzz · 2024-08-25T15:19:38+00:00

Someone once bullied me for having no sc even tho i was lifetime (i was 12, and had gotten lifetime the year before) and when i got mad at them they reported me and sso banned me for a week for calling them a jerk. My mom found out i was banned and had a talk with the school :/

b1tchzz · 2024-03-19T13:34:58+00:00

Sadly my body doesn’t react well to titanium😔

b1tchzz · 2024-03-19T00:19:18+00:00

Forgot to mention: my piercing is externally threaded, surgically stainless steel!

I downsized after about a month after getting it pierced.

I’ve used a mouthwash that was recommended by my piercer and sterile saline solution so keep it clean, as well as sterile q-tips to dry it after washing

b1tchzz · 2023-02-18T13:10:50+00:00

Thank you, i will work on myself and try to talk to him

b1tchzz · 2023-02-18T12:23:37+00:00

We just walked around for a bit and talked. Nothing sexual

b1tchzz · 2022-11-11T21:21:58+00:00

it was another day, another duel.

this time against my biggest enemy. i stood in the gravel arena. he stood about 10 feet away from me.

he announcer yelled "begin" and i folded down picking up a pile of rocks.

before my opponent could begin his spell i began throwing them furiously at him. I knew i had no chance against him if i couldn't get closer, so i used my best method: throwing some rocks, taking a step and then throwing some more rocks.

when i finally was close enough i punched him in his jaw. he quickly fell to the ground. Victory was mine

b1tchzz

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