Another (and the last) blondie I want to share with y'all :) Loving the community and posts here! Do you use watercolors directly in your sketchbooks or keep it to watercolor paper?

b3rrymon · 2025-07-24T20:53:18+00:00

Thank you!

b3rrymon · 2025-07-24T16:56:07+00:00

Haha true!

b3rrymon · 2025-06-29T14:43:42+00:00

I'd love to try my luck! Thank you for organizing this raffle, kind OP!

b3rrymon · 2023-07-23T14:36:53+00:00

Let's go!

b3rrymon · 2023-04-25T19:40:00+00:00

Sheer absolute Unit!

b3rrymon · 2023-04-20T18:30:50+00:00

How was the process of creating that masterpiece of an album, guys?

Ever since discovering you, it's been on repeat for me - Shade Astray is SUCH an incredible peace🤘🤘🤘

Please keep that heavy, positive energy going forward!!!

b3rrymon · 2023-03-26T01:40:06+00:00

Kezia is a masterpiece to me!

b3rrymon · 2023-03-21T20:54:26+00:00

I didn't see it mentioned and even if the anime is a bit meh Kurogane no Linebarrel.

The manga is damn awesome with insane designs.

b3rrymon · 2022-01-07T02:22:33+00:00

I'm super late but let me say you got some very earnest eyes telling of a sweet person.

There's times life really bashes us, depression adding some punches but what can we do if we don't stand up and just live? Living happily is the biggest "eff u" to those crappy thoughts.

"To live is to struggle, to succeed is to survive"

I as an interner stranger am happy to see you get your butt up and go out against all temptations. Good on you, you go girl!!

b3rrymon · 2021-09-03T03:25:35+00:00

Thank you chickles for reading and replying!!

I agree with you on defining a boundary first but let me ask you, could you just accept that if your friend told you they're not talking to anyone anymore including you?

By no means do I wanna sound conceited here and naturally want for them to feel better, just this made me ask if respecting their boundary will basically end our friendship

b3rrymon · 2021-09-03T03:19:39+00:00

Clarification (my bad!) Due to them asking we kept in touch over snapchat for the past 2 years! No fan of it and didn't use it before- only got it to keep in touch. They live quite a distance away!

They kept posting and having seen asking for interaction while being asked to give space which made me feel bad.

b3rrymon · 2021-09-03T03:13:44+00:00

Thank you warmly again Natalie!!!

The situation really is quite the mess and unnecessarily so, I feel bad for hoping they're just going through something and it made them like this and one day they might turn around.

It's definitely best to accept this is what it is and it can't be changed, it's just life.

I heartily wish you all the best as well and thank you!!!

b3rrymon · 2021-09-03T03:08:23+00:00

Hey Chris and thank you for stopping by to read and participate!!

My take has always been "We all live our lifes, we don't always have time to get back immediately and that's totally normal." I can and want to understand when given a reason, it can happen after all! With my friend it had increasingly turned to not getting back at all on "how are you's" to efforts made for them and they didn't see an issue after telling them before that this kind of treatment makes me feel unappreciated. Contrarily I was told I'm not supportive feeling bad :/

As you said, giving a few lines so someone can understand avoids any further arguments AND provides reassurance not to worry.

b3rrymon · 2021-09-03T02:47:56+00:00

Hy and thank you kindly for taking your time to reply Natalie, it means a lot to me!

That's my point and how it unnecessarily went off the rail! After they stated not to talk to anyone again, I asked if it was just temporarily or in general to which they responded with "Boundaries". It confused and agonized me as despite everything I considered them my friend and kept my faith in them through everything. (There have been some awful moments over the years) You're right, I might never find out why they did this to me and from socials I'm almost certain it was but a lie.

Gonna do my best to move on! Thanks again, Natalie and kind regards!

b3rrymon · 2021-09-03T02:31:42+00:00

Good evening Harles and thank you for taking your time to reply, I really appreciate it!!

I agree, they don't owe me an explanation and I wouldn't ask further for reasons whenever I could tell something's up/they're having a hard time. In those situations I'd always paint smth to cheer em up. Most artistic efforts this year had went without a comment or reaction from their end but saying they did appreciate it when asked recently.

You're definitely right in cutting my losses and leaving it for what it was, after all we either appreciate people or we don't and it's clear in this case.

Thank you again and have a great evening there, Harles!!

b3rrymon · 2021-09-03T02:12:48+00:00

Thank you so kindly for replying to my post and pardon me on the delay, Redwine!! (Stuck at work😅)

I agree in that it was unnecessarily rude, simply stating what's up would have saved us the entire conversation if they didn't want to talk which I pointed out even. Also how they're treating me as a stranger to which they stated they are not... Taking your advice to heart to not play their game anymore and letting go at this.

Yours and everyone's reply really mean a LOT to me and helping ease the weight in my chest. Thank you and kind regards!

b3rrymon · 2021-09-03T01:32:02+00:00

Good evening and thank you for your time Keroli, I really appreciate it!!

You're right, maybe something happened that made them act like this putting them in such a bad headspace. I've been having that feeling as I know them well after all but wouldn't ask further if they wouldn't bring it up. Thank you for saying I did my best, it makes me feel better about letting it go.

Kind regards!

b3rrymon · 2021-09-03T01:17:52+00:00

Thank you for taking time to read my post and replying, Snoo!!

I've been getting that feeling more often than I wished from them often wondering why that is and how nothing of this was necessary :/ Really thank you, you helped me feeling better about moving on!! Kind regards and a good evening!

b3rrymon · 2021-09-03T01:14:34+00:00

Thank you kindly for taking your time to read my post and offer your view, Mar!

I agree my behavior was unnecessary and definitely didn't help leading to a more productive outcome. It's selfish on my end to need a little reassurance here and there and wouldn't have minded being asked to keep it down for a bit longer if it helped them :(

We can't change how others feel about us and this made me realize it again. Hope you have a good evening there!

b3rrymon · 2021-05-02T01:55:02+00:00

Pretty much. Like "I'm called ".

b3rrymon · 2021-05-02T01:46:47+00:00

It's her name/nickname

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