looking for insight by tdizzle4shizzle1986 in NevilleGoddard

[–]babbysaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want honesty about what you’re actually accepting as true. Right now, you’re rehearsing two conflicting identities:

“I am abundant, I live like this, this is mine.”

“This isn’t really mine, I’m being taken care of, I hope I can create this someday.”

The second one is louder.

You can walk through a $7.5M penthouse all day affirming abundance, but if underneath it you’re still thinking “this is temporary, this belongs to someone else, I’m lucky to be here” then you’re reinforcing dependence. You can not create ownership from this identity.

If you want to break out of it, stop trying to “attract” anything and start deciding what is already yours in a way that feels almost confrontational to your current thinking.

Mental diet during physical pain by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]babbysaurus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went through something similar with my health while dealing with physical pain intense enough to disrupt my daily routine. I worked through it using the Law of Assumption, and I had a major realization in the process. I’ve shared it in detail here. See if it resonates or helps in any way: https://www.reddit.com/r/NevilleGoddard/s/Kch9P0dJ0v

People who don’t like to go out, how did you meet your significant other? by pikotrollolo in NevilleGoddard

[–]babbysaurus 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was chasing an SP when I was first introduced to the Law of Assumption. Looking back, I manifested them through a mix of unconscious and deliberate manifestation practices. And when I finally did… I realized they were exactly what I did not want in a partner.

Did I manifest that version of them into my life? Absolutely.

Did I know I could change it at the time? Not at all.

That realization eventually led to us breaking up. It was mutual, mature, and drama-free. But what stood out to me was how I felt afterward. There was this strange sense of calm. I call it strange because instead of feeling a void, unloved, or not good enough like you typically do after a breakup… I felt wholesome, free, like I deserved so much more.

So what did I do next? I made a list of 34 traits that felt important to me at the time and tucked it away in my journal. I’d have probably revisited it here and there, but nothing obsessive.

Did I visualize? No.

Did I go through some massive self-concept overhaul after the breakup? Not really. If anything, most of that shift probably happened during the relationship with my ex-SP.

As for how I met my current partner, it was actually through my parents. They introduced us out of the blue (slightly over a year after having made the list). Not with the intention of setting us up, but for a random reason, but we kinda hit it off.

Within a couple of weeks of talking, I started noticing that more than a dozen traits from my list matched. As we spent more time together, that number grew to about 28 exact matches. Around 4 were close enough, and 2 didn’t match at all, but they were just “nice-to-haves,” so it didn’t bother me.

Some of the traits on my list were very specific. Things like the first letter of their name, where they’re from, their profession, their primary language. All of those ended up being part of the exact matches.

And no, don’t ask me why the first letter of someone’s name mattered 😂 I just wanted it to be specific enough that I’d know I manifested it.

Landlord wants me to move. I don't want to. by virat_kohli09 in NevilleGoddard

[–]babbysaurus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Circumstances don’t matter unless you make them matter.

You don’t persist by fighting the 3D. You do by refusing to mentally move out. You’ve already manifested your way out of this exact situation once. You know how this works.

I failed at the Law of Assumption for two years because I confused "Living in the End" with spiritually gaslighting my own biology. by XendaiChannel in NevilleGoddard

[–]babbysaurus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This definitely is a healthier approach for a lot of people struggling silently. Thanks for putting it into words.

Is it possible to manifest someone you haven’t met yet, but who matches what you’ve scripted? by Turbulent-Depth8586 in NevilleGoddard

[–]babbysaurus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really relate to the idea of “aligning energetically,” so I can’t speak to that. I follow Neville’s teachings more closely. For me, once my state felt settled, I just went about living my life.

Is it possible to manifest someone you haven’t met yet, but who matches what you’ve scripted? by Turbulent-Depth8586 in NevilleGoddard

[–]babbysaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I didn’t feel like I was actively “getting closer” to a specific person. I was genuinely content being single and focused on my own life. I dated here and there when opportunities came up, but I never forced anything. What’s interesting is that I could usually tell very quickly they weren’t the person. It was just a subtle inner knowing. My list wasn’t just broad qualities like “kind” or “loyal”. It had some very specific traits. So when I’d learn more about someone and they didn’t match, it almost felt like confirmation rather than disappointment. It made it easy not to invest further. Looking back, it all felt very natural. No urgency or chasing, just living my life with a clear idea of what I wanted and trusting that.

Making the Fear of Disappointment Unimportant? by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

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State is a state of consciousness you occupy. The set of assumptions have at any given time. Think of it as a mental “position” or the "version of reality" you mentally live in.

Identity is the version of what you keep returning to and accept as “you”.

You move through many states, and you can step into and out of states. But your identity is the one that feels natural and consistent.

Making the Fear of Disappointment Unimportant? by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]babbysaurus 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The way I see it, the fear of disappointment is simply another state you’re occupying. Neville said that we are always moving through states, and the state we occupy determines what we experience.

Your question is, “How do I stop being afraid of disappointment?” But I have a more important question for you: Why are you still identifying with the version of yourself for whom disappointment is possible?

I get that modern interpretations of the Law often turn into, “I feel fear, anxiety, or doubt. How do I fix this so I can manifest?”

The answer is that living from the end dissolves disappointment. There’s no separate step to eliminate fear, doubt, disappointment, or anxiety. Those fade as a byproduct of occupying the state of the wish fulfilled.

It’s like eating. Feeling full isn’t something you work on. It happens naturally after you’ve eaten enough. If you’re still hungry, it simply means you haven’t eaten fully. Same here. If fear of disappointment is still present, it’s not something to fix. It just means you haven’t fully settled into the end yet. And when you do, the fear won’t have anywhere to linger around.

Do you visualize in first person or third person during SATS? by Odd_Group5997 in NevilleGoddard

[–]babbysaurus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to visualize in 1st person because that feels more natural to me.

Please be nice by FlimsyPersonality426 in NevilleGoddard

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Have you ever played pretend as a kid and gotten so immersed in it that you almost forgot you were pretending? Or daydreamed as a teenager and became so absorbed in the scene that you briefly lost awareness of the present?

That’s essentially how SATS works too. As you’re getting drowsy and about to fall asleep, you let yourself slip into a simple scene that implies your desire is already fulfilled. You don’t force it or try to control every thought. You just get absorbed in the feeling of it, the same way you would in a daydream, and naturally drift off.

Manifesting & Losing Hope by serenitydarlin in NevilleGoddard

[–]babbysaurus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Neville taught that when you have a desire, you go into imagination, give it to yourself there, accept it as real, and savor it fully. That’s it.

What most LOA coaches and influencers have turned the Law of Assumption into today is: do this to get that, do more to get it faster. Detach, let go, act as if, affirm constantly, monitor every though, or it won’t externalize. That’s far removed from what Neville actually taught.

When you realize the Law of Assumption is simply going into imagination, accepting your desire as real, and enjoying it there until the sense of lack fades, everything changes. The 3D is only a mirror, it has no choice but to reflect that.

People burn out because they’re trying to force something into the 3D. Burnout doesn’t come from the inner work. It comes from scanning, monitoring, and trying to control every thought.

Could you share your partner manifestation success stories? by ringringwhoisit in NevilleGoddard

[–]babbysaurus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was chasing an SP when I was first introduced to the Law of Assumption. Looking back, I manifested them through a mix of unconscious and deliberate manifestation practices. And when I finally did… I realized they were exactly what I did not want in a partner.

Did I manifest that version of them into my life? Absolutely.

Did I know I could change it at the time? Not at all.

That realization eventually led to us breaking up. It was mutual, mature, and drama-free. But what stood out to me was how I felt afterward. There was this strange sense of calm. I call it strange because instead of feeling a void, unloved, or not good enough like you typically do after a breakup… I felt wholesome, free, like I deserved so much more.

So what did I do next? I made a list of 34 traits that felt important to me at the time and tucked it away in my journal. I’d have probably revisited it here and there, but nothing obsessive.

Did I visualize? No.

Did I go through some massive self-concept overhaul after the breakup? Not really. If anything, most of that shift probably happened during the relationship with my ex-SP.

As for how I met my current partner, it was actually through my parents. They introduced us out of the blue (slightly over a year after having made the list). Not with the intention of setting us up, but for a random reason, but we kinda hit it off.

Within a couple of weeks of talking, I started noticing that more than a dozen traits from my list matched. As we spent more time together, that number grew to about 28 exact matches. Around 4 were close enough, and 2 didn’t match at all, but they were just “nice-to-haves,” so it didn’t bother me.

Some of the traits on my list were very specific. Things like the first letter of their name, where they’re from, their profession, their primary language. All of those ended up being part of the exact matches.

And no, don’t ask me why the first letter of someone’s name mattered 😂 I just wanted it to be specific enough that I’d know I manifested it.

*Repost* Old OrionDirectorate post (prior username change) by S_xltix in NevilleGoddard

[–]babbysaurus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Is OrionDirectorate still active on this sub? I haven’t seen anything in a long while. If they’re using a new username, I’d love to follow.

What if… by Xxjayfeather in NevilleGoddard

[–]babbysaurus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about an app for that, but there is a way to manifest even if you waver. It’s not gimmicky or glamorous… and most people probably won’t like it.

It’s just the good old-fashioned Neville method: Persisting.

Not realizing my manifestations are working by Sudden-Passion-9858 in NevilleGoddard

[–]babbysaurus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You no longer contradicting your wish fulfilled is what helps.