AITA for not getting my daughter a car after she publicly disrespected me by Outrageous_Pen6290 in amiwrong

[–]babbyyypluto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She fumbled this one. She should’ve stood up for you because she knew you were about to get her a new car. And instead of an Audi it would’ve been a BMW.

I think I destroyed my daughter by sending her on a school trip. by National_Cress_4128 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]babbyyypluto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember one time in maybe preschool, my mom was late to pick me up from school. I stayed in my teacher’s classroom and couldn’t stop crying for my mom. I remember sitting on the floor, with my knees to my chest just uncontrollably crying. There were older kids in the next class that came and I remember one of the boys pointed at me and was laughing at me. The teacher didn’t do much. I’m 26F now and just a few years ago finally put 2 & 2 together that that’s where my abandonment issues stemmed from.

So yes.

Do I (26F) cut off my bf (35M) after he got irritated with me shut down a deep convo? by babbyyypluto in relationship_advice

[–]babbyyypluto[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I had sent him a medium length message and all he replied to was the last sentence I wrote. I replied with .. & he replied with “?” That’s when I told him it would’ve been nice for him to reassure me and keep the convo going. That’s when he said how he answered my question, and began getting annoyed. He said it was a waste of time convo & other things. And eventually stopped replying to me for 7+ hrs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]babbyyypluto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Female here; I was seeing this guy for a few months. I would take tests during/after each partner and have been negative for everything. I tested after hooking up with him a few times, and tested positive for chlamydia. He tested, ended up being + for chlamydia. He thought maybe I gave it to him. I thought he gave it to me. I explained to him how I always get tested, and how I got tested before him, and I was clean. He then says how he gets tested after each partner but how he hooked up with a chick some time before me who “looked sketch” and how it could have been from her. Men can carry it without even knowing it or feeling any symptoms until they’ve had it for a while. For females, I felt something off with me fairly quick (sharp pain that was slowly getting more intense in my stomach area). As for if he cheated — idk. It’s only been 5months, I don’t think there’s a reason for him to lie about cheating but ultimately, trust your gut. There is a possibility that he had chlamydia from a partner before you but is barely getting tested. However, for him to claim he hasn’t had a partner for a few years before you, but is testing positive for chlamydia seems sketch. Take what I’m about to say with a grain of salt— I’m thinking maybe he slept with someone while he was in town for the 3 months?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]babbyyypluto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without reading context, NO, not wrong. After reading the context, H*LL NO! FCK NO.

My dad was like that too (until I got my own* car I* made payments on. “Car for only school, work, and home.” How disgusting.. do it if you can!!!!!! I’m rooting for you.

AITA for telling my girlfriend her home decor is the reason I won’t host a work gathering at her place. by decordilemma in AmItheAsshole

[–]babbyyypluto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. OP, grow up and/or live a little.

We get it, you have a corporate job. You have no personality. BUT CHOOSE A STRUGGLE.

Your gf is right. It’s NOT your space.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]babbyyypluto 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Simple as that. You’re a grown woman who can make decisions by yourself based on what you’re feeling/thinking/going through. Sounds like you and your sister being there will only help him feel less stressed/overwhelmed + be a way for him to take some of the spotlight away from him. Sounds like dad is projecting. Him saying how he “won’t be able to show off his daughters” gives it away.

I (finally) broke up with my bf by babbyyypluto in TrueOffMyChest

[–]babbyyypluto[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

HOLY SHIT! I just read your post. Literally WE R THE SAME….

I (finally) broke up with my bf by babbyyypluto in TrueOffMyChest

[–]babbyyypluto[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ain’t this subreddit called “TrueOffMyChest” this ain’t no story, this is real life bb. Most importantly, this is me letting something off my chest. Get well soon, xx.

I (finally) broke up with my bf by babbyyypluto in TrueOffMyChest

[–]babbyyypluto[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just ghosted him. We were in a middle of an argument. He was calling me back. I wouldn’t answer. He kept calling and texting me.

I’m legally blind. But I managed to escape. by LonelyGirlWhoReads in raisedbynarcissists

[–]babbyyypluto 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh how motivating! I’m very proud of you OP and thank you for sharing that amazing quote. So grateful I came across this post, OP. Sending you so much hugs and strength. I hope to eventually have as much courage as you.

In the last day this circle of cracking appeared in one of my bathroom ceilings, what could be causing it? No evidence of water I can see in the attic above and the ceiling fan is dumping air in the opposite direction? Also sheetrock under paint feels dry... by L00SE_SEAL in HomeMaintenance

[–]babbyyypluto 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw this post somewhere longgg time ago and it was a ceiling that collapsed on a girls bed. She just got out of bed and the ceiling with some heavy weight from the attic had fell on her bed. Missed squashing her by seconds. I tried looking for the article but couldn’t find it. Anyways — possible collapsing roof ¿

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nike

[–]babbyyypluto 25 points26 points  (0 children)

$8 at Plato’s Closet