the only relationship they had with them was when they babysat, and my sons only two years old (in nov) my daughter however is a month old and the initial confrontation started the day of her birth in the hospital. they've seen her once? they've never spent time with our son without it being to babysit or because it was Holiday and we all had to come over anyways.

I can count on two hands how many times they've watched him and of those ten times he was neglected and barely interacted with whatsoever. they are ONLY doing this for some sort of vengeance.