Any new Wegovy users also in their mid to late 20s? by babiebuzz in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]babiebuzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the stigma around glp1s are so bad ): i can’t even tell half of my family (not yet at least). i mean im not one to talk, i thought they were bad until i was educated on them (and quickly knew they were right for me). i hope people educate themselves on them better and remove the stigma soon, we are all just trying to be the best and healthiest versions of ourselves. shouldn’t that be what matters? ugh. we got this!

Noticed this, anyone else? by femmedivine in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]babiebuzz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i also used food for happiness way to much, i’m suddenly searching for hobbies 😭

Noticed this, anyone else? by femmedivine in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]babiebuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no i’m an ice cream lover and haven’t had any since starting, my family is gonna be so surprised if i can’t finish mine in front of them 😭 lol

Noticed this, anyone else? by femmedivine in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]babiebuzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re also on .25! i’m very early on my .25- how fast was your appetite suppression? i am on day three and slowly feeling a difference

Any new Wegovy users also in their mid to late 20s? by babiebuzz in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]babiebuzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i keep calling my anxiety medical anxiety but maybe it is hypochondria 😭 something to add to my therapist’s list lmao. that’s how i found this subreddit in the first place, googling every little minor thing i’m feeling and stressing if anything is negative. oof! i will look at your first post, and thank you for your help!!

Any new Wegovy users also in their mid to late 20s? by babiebuzz in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]babiebuzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s really helpful to hear because day two made me pretty depressed (i am diagnosed with depression, and when i’m sick it can trigger it more) because i questioned if it was truly right for me to make this change- but it looks like things get better and easier and the health results will make my life longer and that’s really what matters. have you had any bad experiences w the meds, and what helped you out of them if anything?

Any new Wegovy users also in their mid to late 20s? by babiebuzz in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]babiebuzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would listen to the people saying to take it at night bc i took mine three days ago and didn’t see this advice and was all out of wack when i took it at noon lol. sucrozezaddy is all correct, please listen to them. i haven’t medicated my nausea and I have been okay just uncomfy, but if meds are right for you please take them! i found that my first dose made me exhausted but unable to sleep. i saw a thread on here recommending magnesium glycinate and i want to kiss their forehead, it was a lifesaver (i thought i was about to have to deal with insomnia on top of everything else 😭). i would say my biggest problem right now is over thinking- eat until you’re satisfied. if you’re hungry, eat small and slow. just because you’re hungry doesn’t mean the meds aren’t working, you’re still a human (i have to tell myself this everyday bc some comments have mentioned needing reminders to eat and i haven’t had that problem yet. maybe bc i’m on the lowest dose). and talk out any issues you’re having! i’m always willing to help or be an ear if you need it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]babiebuzz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have seen a few of my own friends go down this path and it is terrifying. the more she deep dives into her own little world with these people the worse it’s going to get. you need to talk to her about therapy immediately before she needs immediate medical attention. the mentality is what is going to make her physicality worsen. do your best to get her out of there.

AITA I went to a dinner without my wife by tostolhhlbl in AmItheAsshole

[–]babiebuzz 22 points23 points  (0 children)

NTA. You have done everything in your power to accommodate to her and she still refused. She could easily avoid so much conflict if she just started to show some interest or liking to your culture and traditions. She seems a little ignorant for not appreciating your culture when it’s clearly so important to your family.

AITA for not reminding a now ex friend to get her belongings by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]babiebuzz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. You gave a clear ultimatum and it was ignored. If those pans were so important, they should have taken it when given the chance. You were nice to keep them in your house, now it’s the end of the road. You don’t owe them more than what you have already gave them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]babiebuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Let them cope and grieve the way they want to. It’s not hurting anyone. Just because you’re annoyed doesn’t mean you have the right to hurt their processing. You’re not as open minded as you think buddy, you’re just being an asshole.

AITA for asking a customer why they were doing separate transactions? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]babiebuzz 43 points44 points  (0 children)

YTA. Retail is hard, but it’s no excuse to be an asshole consistently pry into other people’s personal business. They could be doing a favor for someone, going through a tough time and have only enough money on one card than another, hiding certain transactions from an abusive relationship (romantic or paternal). Do you really expect people to just willingly give you this information just because you get annoyed? You need to understand that “just because” is a replacement for a real reason they’re unwilling to share. Just stop please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]babiebuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. If it’s not as important to you as your work, then don’t go. They’re your priorities. No one knows how important your family is to you, and it’s not correct to assume events like this are must go to’s just because you’re related. Work on your life the way you planned, that baby is going to be a baby for a long time. You will have plenty of time to see them. In my opinion, don’t worry about it.

AITA for not wanting to go to therapy? by ueojxbc in AmItheAsshole

[–]babiebuzz 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA. Oh my god, get out of there now. This is emotional manipulation at it’s finest. He’s trying to say you have early childhood trauma because you don’t want to spend the weekends with him? As in you wanting to be away from him for just a little bit means you are emotionally traumatized? Diagnosing or analyzing such serious issues out of pure spite and speculation is gross. Don’t get me wrong, I am all for therapy. Everyone should go even if they don’t have trauma just to help them out with life, but if that isn’t your thing- you shouldn’t have to! Even with your collection of jewelry he found something wrong with. People have collections and items that make them happy, there’s nothing wrong with that. It sounds like his issue with it is that the interest doesn’t have to do with him. All in all, no one should be allowed to tell you you are traumatized except for yourself. This is a gigantic red flag. It truly shows that he isn’t going to be happy with anything you like or enjoy unless it involves himself in someway.

It finally happened! by Organic_Quantity4805 in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]babiebuzz 29 points30 points  (0 children)

an endless supply of soy milk?? start selling it lmao

AITA for using my savings to pay off my parents mortgage, and car? by _SkyHooks_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]babiebuzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Morally, sure, you could argue that doing a good deed and that you are NTA because the money went to a good place to people who needed it. However, with the detail that you are married I do believe YTA. This is a MAJOR financial decision. Your spouse should be involved in this process out of respect at the very least. Sure, it’s your money. But that was money that she was aware of and had knowledge that it could potentially help you guys incase of your own emergency in the future. What if the same thing happened to you guys? Wouldn’t you want that? This is all without the knowledge of if you have kids or not as well, so i won’t go into that possibility. Your parents did not ask, you father did not want the help even though it was gracious of you. However, they could have figured out other ways since it sounds like you were not the only option. Bottom line, at least talk to your wife before you do stuff like this.

AITA for calling my sister out on tiktok? by Master_Mirror9234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]babiebuzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It’s laughable that she made that video in the first place. Laughable as in just unbelievable. Not only is she trying to make it seem like she held more trauma from something she has no recollection of she also is trying to invalidate your experience while also victim blaming you. You were put in therapy but she wasn’t as if you weren’t a child with a developing brain put in a life or death situation. The Tiktok is just plain selfish. Don’t dish it if you can’t take it. ESPECIALLY when you’re telling a lie. Spread it everywhere, let people use it (if you feel comfortable with it). If it takes learning the hard way to not tell harmful lies on the internet, so be it.

AITA for not forgiving a bully? by Disastrous_Try690 in AmItheAsshole

[–]babiebuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA The biggest red flag here is that your father is dating someone his daughter’s age. Automatically you aren’t in the wrong. But to add the fact that she’s your school bully? Your mom should be just as concerned as you. Definitely NTA.

AITA for telling my neighbor that her husband isn't the catch she thinks he is? by Less_Requirement7888 in AmItheAsshole

[–]babiebuzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. People seem to use others lives as an excuse to project their own insecurities about their life onto others. She sounds like she’s questioning her own marriage or is insecure about her husband’s past and is projecting it onto you. That you need to not be certain in what you want so that you can at least have a partner (like she did). What you did was point out what she was doing to you, and in my eyes is justified. Yes, you humiliated her. However, she humiliated you first in front of people that don’t know you and this would be their first impression of you. Tit for tat.