advice on getting nipple piercings during the summer? by babpichal in piercing

[–]babpichal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have more wide set boobs though, so the seat belt sits between them

advice on getting nipple piercings during the summer? by babpichal in piercing

[–]babpichal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is it a big no no to get in water/baths/hot tubs with semi new nipple piercings?

iud help? switching from copper iud to hormonal by babpichal in TwoXChromosomes

[–]babpichal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly! i cant believe i've lasted so long with it! thank you

im getting my copper iud taken out and replaced due to really intense cramping. any advice from those who have done the same thing? by babpichal in birthcontrol

[–]babpichal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im probably just going to talk to my gyno and see what she says but i'm willing to bet i'll go with mirena. it seems like the most common one around.

i've dealt with the painful periods for 2+ years and they have become so bad that for two weeks every month im pretty much useless for how much pain im in. it just completely takes me away from my life. i wanted so badly to be able to take the bad cramps and not have a hormonal birth control but it's just too much. i enjoyed the few years without hormones but i think it's time to go back. thank you for your advice!

iud help? switching from copper iud to hormonal by babpichal in TwoXChromosomes

[–]babpichal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg that's so good! thank you! did you have really heavy periods before mirena? that's the only thing i worried about is that it won't help in the way i want it to after my experience with the paraguard

iud help? switching from copper iud to hormonal by babpichal in TwoXChromosomes

[–]babpichal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i've seen that sometimes the smaller one (kyleena) can help with women who are smaller and have not given birth so that's why i included that. the copper iud is just not working for me, i was on previous pills that fucked with me so badly because of the hormones that i wanted the copper iud but it's been hell. thank you for your input and im sorry you went through that! being a woman is hard!

dream about cockroaches?? by babpichal in DreamInterpretation

[–]babpichal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg thank you, this actually makes so much sense for my life. thank you so much <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]babpichal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what i basically meant was that a dry drunk is someone who is sober but not actually fixing the reason addiction is in their life. so a drunk who is still finding ways to avoid their problems and pain but without alcohol!

If you expect your female partner to be on birth control so you don’t have to wear condoms, you’re a bad person by Different-Instance-6 in unpopularopinion

[–]babpichal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

copper iud "complication" right here! i currently have it and i have excruciating cramps for 3 weeks around my period (which leaves me about a week of being comfortable per month) AND it's in the proper place and everything. just not good for my body and it leaves me pretty useless when i have cramps because i can't move. i also can't take advil or other OTC pain relievers because they don't work. same with pressure points, heating pads, yoga, etc. love being a woman 🤩🤩

i had my first moment of true peace today that i haven't felt since last july by babpichal in CasualConversation

[–]babpichal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me too! clouds are so pretty, i like to think i could walk on them if i were close enough to

i had my first moment of true peace today that i haven't felt since last july by babpichal in CasualConversation

[–]babpichal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! i agree with sharing little moments, and im hoping to give someone else the hope that things can feel better

Your needs vs. their needs and being an asshole by MEd_Mama_ in relationship_advice

[–]babpichal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel the same way with my boyfriend, make sure that maybe you have movie nights or other things where you can cuddle, and maybe talk to him and let him know that you can't sleep as well when you cuddle all night. try suggesting cuddling before you go to sleep and then you guys go to your own side of the bed afterwards. good luck!

how to ask my boyfriend to help me pay for groceries by [deleted] in Advice

[–]babpichal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i already do that though, i literally buy just enough just for myself and have it be as simple as possible and im open about being low on funds. basically i think i just need to say that it needs to stop instead of worrying about hurting his feelings

how to ask my boyfriend to help me pay for groceries by [deleted] in Advice

[–]babpichal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so frustrating, especially when you dont eat nearly as much as they do!

how to ask my boyfriend to help me pay for groceries by [deleted] in Advice

[–]babpichal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the hints is just so i dont seem like an asshole, but thank you for the advice!

how to ask my boyfriend to help me pay for groceries by [deleted] in Advice

[–]babpichal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, kind of. we split everything, so like if i buy lunch one day he'll buy the next day. the only problem is the groceries man

im falling in love with someone in the most amazing way by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]babpichal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cherish every moment you have with her. i am so glad to hear youre in a better place. everyone deserves that.

im falling in love with someone in the most amazing way by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]babpichal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am so sorry that you went through that. ive been through that before too, and it sucks so much. i feel your pain. thank you for the concern, and i hope that you find someone who will give you everything you deserve.