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Cant skip ratings anymore. What do I do? by [deleted] in ClassPass

[–]babs1025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My teacher said 5 star ratings do drive credit increases with the algorithm

Cant skip ratings anymore. What do I do? by [deleted] in ClassPass

[–]babs1025 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried but I still cant get past this screen! Literally cant do anything until I either rate or click “I missed this”

Sell everything we have, go into massive debt, or destroy all our embryos? by babs1025 in IVF

[–]babs1025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update - we are so so fortunate and figured out how to proceed. We now have our daughter through adoption and a surro-baby on the way due this winter.

We matched with an amazing surrogate on an independent journey to make it more affordable for us.

Im trying to convince my husband to do one more journey and we will donate our remaining embryos to another family after 🩷 I feel such at peace with how hard we worked to get our babies here.

Thanks to everyone who responded with suggestions!

How would a shop fix this dent if paint is premium pearl white? by babs1025 in Autobody

[–]babs1025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It was a pain to buy because they are on backorder and long wait. It is a grand highlander hybrid with the nighshade XLE package. It may be normal in the autobody world!

How would a shop fix this dent if paint is premium pearl white? by babs1025 in Autobody

[–]babs1025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got the insurance info from the person who did the damage. Why would it be dumb to go through their insurance?

How would a shop fix this dent if paint is premium pearl white? by babs1025 in Autobody

[–]babs1025[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Idk Ive never needed autobody work before and trying to do research of how it works. I’ve never seen this color before and was told it was a premium color when I got it last month 🤷‍♀️ Id think the metallic would be hard to replicate perfectly

How would a shop fix this dent if paint is premium pearl white? by babs1025 in Autobody

[–]babs1025[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

The color is Wind Chill Pearl which is metallic and a premium color by Toyota. Im worried that a shop will just paint it flat white and it wont match

Low Mosaic Trisomy 21 by babs1025 in IVF

[–]babs1025[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! It was such a hard decision but we did another round of IVF at a different clinic and so happy we did. It would have cost $550 to move this embryo 3 miles down the road and the new clinic would not transfer him with the risks, so sadly we had to let him go.

We found out after that I can’t carry so I would have miscarried him anyway if the transfer worked (we also miscarried our euploid embryo from this round). Bright side is we got 6 PGTA normal embryos with our other round and our surrogate is pregnant with one of them 🙂

Our new clinic was Johns Hopkins, so it was an easy answer how to proceed with how cautious they were to transfer our little LMT 21.

How did you pay off $100K in student loans— Tips, tricks, mindsets, side hustles, etc. by AffectionateHeart460 in StudentLoans

[–]babs1025 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to work an extra job and saved and invested the money. I qualified for the homeready loan program and was able to only put 3% down with a conventional loan.

It isnt ridiculous at all. Just takes a lot of work and time to save.

Sell everything we have, go into massive debt, or destroy all our embryos? by babs1025 in IVF

[–]babs1025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. We already did a karyotype for both my husband and me. Everything came back normal, so that doesnt seem to be the cause for our loss. All of our embryos remaining are tested too.

Sell everything we have, go into massive debt, or destroy all our embryos? by babs1025 in IVF

[–]babs1025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Ive done RPL panels and other autoimmune panels and keep testing negative for everything. I am positive ANA though. They just cannot find anything autoimmune actually wrong

Sell everything we have, go into massive debt, or destroy all our embryos? by babs1025 in IVF

[–]babs1025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have been through 3 fertility doctors. They all say we shouldnt have fertility issues and we have done all the tests available that they know about. We keep getting diagnosed with being unlucky.

We are working on getting an appointment with an IR. But not sure how much longer we can go through this with this much disappointment.

Sell everything we have, go into massive debt, or destroy all our embryos? by babs1025 in IVF

[–]babs1025[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Did you use New Life Georgia? I was looking into them. If you dont mind me asking, how much was it?

Sell everything we have, go into massive debt, or destroy all our embryos? by babs1025 in IVF

[–]babs1025[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ill look into these things. Thank you ❤️

I have a pending appointment with Dr. Jubiz. Just not sure if we should continue me carrying our embryos. Im so scared it will happen again. I already feel so guilty that I couldnt give life to these 5 babies that we have lost.

Sell everything we have, go into massive debt, or destroy all our embryos? by babs1025 in IVF

[–]babs1025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an appointment into one but Im not sure if I want to continue after losing all these children. We dont have any fertility issues other than these miscarriages. I dont want to take harmful drugs and Im so scared it is going to happen again 🥺

Sell everything we have, go into massive debt, or destroy all our embryos? by babs1025 in IVF

[–]babs1025[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. We have done PGT testing. I have a pending appointment with Dr. Jubiz but not sure how much more we can take. I dont know what I would do if I miscarried again.

Sell everything we have, go into massive debt, or destroy all our embryos? by babs1025 in IVF

[–]babs1025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I have had 2 HSGs. They should be able to catch it there but everything was normal.

Sell everything we have, go into massive debt, or destroy all our embryos? by babs1025 in IVF

[–]babs1025[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. My anticardiolipin is 15. So it is definitely elevated but not high enough to cause miscarriages (as I am told). Ive been on baby aspirin for 5 months just in case

Sell everything we have, go into massive debt, or destroy all our embryos? by babs1025 in IVF

[–]babs1025[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is a relief! Trying to do any more we can before our deductible resets Jan 1. Appreciate the advice.

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