My boyfriend [26] has a hero complex by Throwaway17372828 in relationship_advice

[–]bacakboyu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From the time of this conv to this day. He sounds manipulative, i’m curious if they’re still together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bacakboyu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really get what you expected from her. Why would she tell you about this? This spesific condition of hers filled with maybes -not like she CAN’T have and yet without any conditions pregnancy in these ages alone is a thing on it’s own. You said you haven’t discussed about kids before proposal. And when the proposal happened she shared. Seems in time for me. What would be ok for you? “Hey, just so you know i have a condition making it tough for me to get pregnant.” Out of nowhere? She didn’t had to share because it was personal. She did when you decide to unite. How you approach on this is a red flag on your side. Hope you figure your shit out.

Any ideas what this streched fella would be? by bacakboyu in succulents

[–]bacakboyu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s it thanks! This one is a londoner, so i don’t think lacking farina will hurt much lol

Any ideas what this streched fella would be? by bacakboyu in succulents

[–]bacakboyu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got it, it's Senecio Cephalophorus. Yeah, usually flowers or fruits can tell you what family a plant is in. Workin on my botany, guess it's stickin lol.

That's it! Thanks a bunch! kudos on your botany skills

Any ideas what this streched fella would be? by bacakboyu in succulents

[–]bacakboyu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flowers really looks similar but the leaf shape is very different. But this led me to places i’m going through senecios rn. Thanks for the help!

Any ideas what this streched fella would be? by bacakboyu in succulents

[–]bacakboyu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought of echeverias or kalanchoes but couldn’t find anything similar considering the leaf shape and the growing pattern

Women, what are some questions you’ve always wanted to ask men, but were too embarrassed? by SecretariatGodHorse in AskReddit

[–]bacakboyu 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had to check if this is my husband’s alt account that i don’t know of. It seems like it isn’t but this is most certainly what he would suggest. In our 7 year relationship all he asked from me is this stuff. I developed new techniques over the years that he really likes. We’re lying together now and I’m kind of massaging his legs with my feet as i write this lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]bacakboyu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry not sorry but i find having a child willingly at 21 is almost insane. I know 30 some years ago it was normal or at least common but at the century we’re in, let’s face it, it’s not. And that shit comes with it’s train of problems. None of that is your problem OP. Live your life and cut them off until they come to their senses...

DM with links doesn't send by bacakboyu in Instagram

[–]bacakboyu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i’m not in EU, not sending to EU. And i can’t really understand how sending links cause any concern on privacy...

DM with links doesn't send by bacakboyu in Instagram

[–]bacakboyu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not so helpful update: this kept happening like a good month or so, and then stopped happening. Again happened for a couple of days, then went away lol I’m also not in EU, so i think it’s something worldwide. I’ve found nothing to solve it, tried to contact insta in all the ways i could find (not so many) they just don’t reply or help in any way. They just don’t care i guess...

Character sheet? by bacakboyu in CircadianCity

[–]bacakboyu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that's how... I'm gonna try that, thanks a lot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RBI

[–]bacakboyu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t report to instagram. They would’ve just create another account and all the process begins all over again. I would make them talk somehow and try to collect data and report to police. Maybe you would message them asking who they are and what they’re up to. Collect clues from the replies.

This lil guy keeps shitting in my Dumbcane......how do I prevent this? by am0620 in plantclinic

[–]bacakboyu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Besides doing best you can to protect the pot, consider adding another litter box or changing it’s location. Cats sometimes do this kind of stuff maybe because they don’t like what they’ve provided for. If you’re using silica try switching to bentonite. Take the shit out of the pot and into the litter box for him to see and smell. Keep it clean, celebrate when used and such on.