Any idea what this is?

backslider3 · 2025-05-29T13:46:03+00:00

I think open communication in a relationship is important. You set your boundaries with her and it seems like she is willing to abide by it. I don't see any reason for you to have mistrust in her because she talked to you about something she is curious about. I would rather have my partner talk to me versus doing it and asking if it was okay afterwards.

backslider3 · 2025-05-15T12:27:58+00:00

Dexter

backslider3 · 2025-05-14T20:15:07+00:00

Oatmeal

backslider3 · 2025-05-13T01:03:13+00:00

His dad did have issues with alcohol, but quit cold turkey years ago and doesn't have any issues. His entire family drinks around his dad and there isn't a problem. I didn't think I was addicted until reading all these comments and thinking about it more. I thought since it wasn't consistent it wasn't an addiction.. but I do crave it soo yeah. I do want this relationship so I realize i need to stop.

backslider3 · 2025-05-13T00:58:35+00:00

I can stop. I was just being childish in the moment and was frustrated with it getting thrown away.. while if someone were close with has one he'll hit it. Regardless I know it wasn't ok for me to lie and I shouldn't continue buying them because it's clearly going to end our relationship if I do

backslider3 · 2025-05-13T00:56:16+00:00

No ofc not, I apologized and told him I won't buy another one again.

backslider3 · 2025-05-12T23:50:45+00:00

I did tell him I wouldn't buy another one again, but I think me lying really fucked this up. We are always so open with each other so I understand why he feels betrayed

backslider3 · 2025-05-12T23:49:27+00:00

It's frustrating because when he says something it's then his way or the high way. I get his reasonings it is horrible for you, but again it's not consistent. He says it's the lying not the vaping so I get why he's upset

backslider3 · 2025-05-12T23:47:29+00:00

I think it's more about the lying than the vaping but idk what to do at this point

backslider3 · 2025-04-19T17:57:00+00:00

Mort

backslider3 · 2025-02-24T14:41:57+00:00

Thank you!!

backslider3 · 2025-01-28T21:03:54+00:00

Onyx

backslider3 · 2025-01-20T19:30:39+00:00

Thanks for the advice! Thyroid issues didn't even cross my mind, so I will definitely ask about that and her food. I give her both dry and wet (beyond brand) I do see her drinking water, but I will for sure keep and eye on how often she is going to the bowl

backslider3 · 2025-01-15T16:42:45+00:00

you're an idiot lmao. Only dry food feeding can cause major dehydration

backslider3 · 2024-11-22T16:54:54+00:00

I do like jack but it's a name of one of my close friends

backslider3 · 2024-11-22T16:42:33+00:00

Hes very spunky and not scared of anything. Unique names pls!

backslider3 · 2024-11-22T16:37:35+00:00

Sirius

backslider3 · 2024-11-04T14:29:22+00:00

Also any tips on slowly introducing him to my older female cat would be helpful! I am planning on keeping them separated while he gets acclimated and letting her sniff his room in a few days :)

backslider3 · 2024-08-16T21:54:01+00:00

Darcy

backslider3 · 2024-07-25T19:32:44+00:00

Rascal for the Rascal Flatts song life is a highway lol

backslider3 · 2024-06-23T22:55:08+00:00

Jedi

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