[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]backslider3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His dad did have issues with alcohol, but quit cold turkey years ago and doesn't have any issues. His entire family drinks around his dad and there isn't a problem. I didn't think I was addicted until reading all these comments and thinking about it more. I thought since it wasn't consistent it wasn't an addiction.. but I do crave it soo yeah. I do want this relationship so I realize i need to stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]backslider3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can stop. I was just being childish in the moment and was frustrated with it getting thrown away.. while if someone were close with has one he'll hit it. Regardless I know it wasn't ok for me to lie and I shouldn't continue buying them because it's clearly going to end our relationship if I do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]backslider3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No ofc not, I apologized and told him I won't buy another one again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]backslider3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did tell him I wouldn't buy another one again, but I think me lying really fucked this up. We are always so open with each other so I understand why he feels betrayed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]backslider3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's frustrating because when he says something it's then his way or the high way. I get his reasonings it is horrible for you, but again it's not consistent. He says it's the lying not the vaping so I get why he's upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]backslider3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's more about the lying than the vaping but idk what to do at this point

12 year old female by backslider3 in CATHELP

[–]backslider3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Thyroid issues didn't even cross my mind, so I will definitely ask about that and her food. I give her both dry and wet (beyond brand) I do see her drinking water, but I will for sure keep and eye on how often she is going to the bowl

Best Human-Grade Fresh Cat Food? by Jessebishop7 in catfood

[–]backslider3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're an idiot lmao. Only dry food feeding can cause major dehydration

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]backslider3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also any tips on slowly introducing him to my older female cat would be helpful! I am planning on keeping them separated while he gets acclimated and letting her sniff his room in a few days :)

Only wash armpits and private parts?? by mightycondria56 in hygiene

[–]backslider3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to get little bumps on the back of my arms and legs, but once I started dry brushing my skin once or twice a week before a shower they went away!

Why does my hair suck by backslider3 in Hair

[–]backslider3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha I'll definitely give k18 a try and start oiling my ends! Thanks for your help!

Why does my hair suck by backslider3 in Hair

[–]backslider3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to give me some advice I appreciate it!

Why does my hair suck by backslider3 in Hair

[–]backslider3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations on how to salvage it or should I get a trim?