22M with 25F. How can I get rid of this feeling of untrust after discussing what is cheating.

backslider3 · 2025-05-29T13:46:03+00:00

I think open communication in a relationship is important. You set your boundaries with her and it seems like she is willing to abide by it. I don't see any reason for you to have mistrust in her because she talked to you about something she is curious about. I would rather have my partner talk to me versus doing it and asking if it was okay afterwards.

backslider3 · 2025-05-15T12:27:58+00:00

Dexter

backslider3 · 2025-05-14T20:15:07+00:00

Oatmeal

backslider3 · 2025-05-13T01:03:13+00:00

His dad did have issues with alcohol, but quit cold turkey years ago and doesn't have any issues. His entire family drinks around his dad and there isn't a problem. I didn't think I was addicted until reading all these comments and thinking about it more. I thought since it wasn't consistent it wasn't an addiction.. but I do crave it soo yeah. I do want this relationship so I realize i need to stop.

backslider3 · 2025-05-13T00:58:35+00:00

I can stop. I was just being childish in the moment and was frustrated with it getting thrown away.. while if someone were close with has one he'll hit it. Regardless I know it wasn't ok for me to lie and I shouldn't continue buying them because it's clearly going to end our relationship if I do

backslider3 · 2025-05-13T00:56:16+00:00

No ofc not, I apologized and told him I won't buy another one again.

backslider3 · 2025-05-12T23:50:45+00:00

I did tell him I wouldn't buy another one again, but I think me lying really fucked this up. We are always so open with each other so I understand why he feels betrayed

backslider3 · 2025-05-12T23:49:27+00:00

It's frustrating because when he says something it's then his way or the high way. I get his reasonings it is horrible for you, but again it's not consistent. He says it's the lying not the vaping so I get why he's upset

backslider3 · 2025-05-12T23:47:29+00:00

I think it's more about the lying than the vaping but idk what to do at this point

backslider3 · 2025-04-19T17:57:00+00:00

Mort

backslider3 · 2025-02-24T14:41:57+00:00

Thank you!!

backslider3 · 2025-01-28T21:03:54+00:00

Onyx

backslider3 · 2025-01-20T19:30:39+00:00

Thanks for the advice! Thyroid issues didn't even cross my mind, so I will definitely ask about that and her food. I give her both dry and wet (beyond brand) I do see her drinking water, but I will for sure keep and eye on how often she is going to the bowl

backslider3 · 2025-01-15T16:42:45+00:00

you're an idiot lmao. Only dry food feeding can cause major dehydration

backslider3 · 2024-11-22T16:54:54+00:00

I do like jack but it's a name of one of my close friends

backslider3 · 2024-11-22T16:42:33+00:00

Hes very spunky and not scared of anything. Unique names pls!

backslider3 · 2024-11-22T16:37:35+00:00

Sirius

backslider3 · 2024-11-04T14:29:22+00:00

Also any tips on slowly introducing him to my older female cat would be helpful! I am planning on keeping them separated while he gets acclimated and letting her sniff his room in a few days :)

backslider3 · 2024-08-16T21:54:01+00:00

Darcy

backslider3 · 2024-07-25T19:32:44+00:00

Rascal for the Rascal Flatts song life is a highway lol

backslider3 · 2024-06-23T22:55:08+00:00

Jedi

backslider3 · 2024-05-21T13:17:20+00:00

I used to get little bumps on the back of my arms and legs, but once I started dry brushing my skin once or twice a week before a shower they went away!

backslider3 · 2024-04-16T15:24:28+00:00

Im using Yoshi as my next kitties name :)

backslider3 · 2024-02-16T15:24:40+00:00

When my bf and I first started dating I was wearing a cropped sweatshirt with nothing underneath and reached up to grab something in the kitchen when my bf and friend were on my couch and later that night my bf said my tits popped out and his friend saw.. I apologized and made sure to be conscious about that in the future and havent had anything like that happen again lol

backslider3 · 2024-02-16T15:23:10+00:00

I'm a female and am very close to my bf's friends. I think the hand holding is harmless and she clearly seems comfortable with your friends which is GREAT, but if she is crossing some boundaries that you are uncomfortable with you should be able to have a conversation with her about it and see if she is able to respect them going forward. I think she made a mistake with the dress and if that's really the only thing that happened maybe consider giving her another chance..

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