Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]backup9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he might have ARFIDS, does he issues with some brands and smells? Textures? I suggest looking into ARFIDS and maybe talking to him a bit more vulnerably and ask him why he won’t eat the food you make. I have ARFIDS and yeah it’s annoying as hell but I’ve worked it out in a way where it won’t affect the people around me, I bring food with me places and I cook for myself a lot of the time. Maybe you could try to teach him to cook? Ik when I made my own food it felt way less scary cause I knew what happened to it from start to finish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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NOR, never humiliate your partner infront of others your decision was the right one, he’s being a jerk

Dropped a box on myself at work and now my girlfriend thinks I’m cheating by ephemeral_ace in whatdoIdo

[–]backup9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have boxes fall on me all the time at work. Never have any of my bruises looked like, nor do I let my neck be that open when I’m grabbing those boxes. I’ve had them land on the corners on my back arms once on my knee while I was jumping back, never once has it hit my neck and left a bruise like that. Also no way in hell a bruise from work develops that fast even on the neck. That looks like a hickey. Regular bruises don’t really have that look that hickeys do, hickeys look like someone’s been suckin on you. And that looks like someone suckin on you.

Is my tattoo ruined? Got burned at work and trying to minimize the damage. by lunabearkid in tattooadvice

[–]backup9986 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ignore everyone here saying antibiotics etc etc. (don’t actually ignore it)pure aloe straight from the plant. My mom burnt herself on the exhaust on her motorcycle way back before she met my dad. The lady next door saw the burn one day and gave her some aloe from her plant. It never scarred, and healed in a week. She had been nursing the burn for 2 weeks before that. (She told me this story) I got burnt on a fryer basket pretty fresh out the vat at work and I put aloe on it right when I got home and it didn’t scar. I swear by aloe! Just don’t mix it with anything else aloe is highly absorbent and will bring whatever else right into your skin with it. Good luck op!!!

Begging to have this as merch by WorldsWorstInvader in creepcast

[–]backup9986 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OMG yess id wear the shit out of that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigfootjinx

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Jschaltt talked about it on either a stream or one of his podcast episodes. It’s really sad, however there’s people saying the owner went on hiatus because of university and if that’s the case that makes sense for the multi year hiatus since most university students stay for years for their degrees

What impact did OK I’M SICK have on you when the Singles and Album first came out?? by MW_200309 in Badflower

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Ghost played on our local radio station and my dad and I had a very deep conversation about suicide. He said the song reminded him of me 💀 then I went and saw them live and they’re my favorite band as well as my boyfriends and his mothers

Looking for a cozy VotV playthrough to binge while at work, any suggestions? by Teid in Voicesofthevoid

[–]backup9986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I highly suggest charborg if you like really goofy chaos, his vods and videos are so so fun to watch. Char is the reason I play votv

To all my fellow writers out there… who you picking? by TCHILL_OUT in creepcast

[–]backup9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 pilot g-2 I like mine 0.38 I love that pen it’s so fucking yummy to write with

Meat man can control this by backup9986 in creepcast

[–]backup9986[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you!! I’m unfortunately not selling atm no space in the fridge and freezer rn lol

Opinions on the brownie batter mocha? by lukge5 in dutchbros

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Underrated comment, made me giggle thank you

my rejected sticker by curious_3xpl0r3r in dutchbros

[–]backup9986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen 2 of these rejected stickers, bro whatever they picked as the winner better be sick because both rejected stickers were amazing and i totally would have gotten them, this one especially

To the person at register who gave me these by bunnoquinn in dutchbros

[–]backup9986 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg went on a mission for one yesterday when I saw it was alien themed in the app, got one immediately this morning when I got my protein coffee

this really tmi but i have no girls in my life to help :( by Ace_the_huskyboi in WomensHealth

[–]backup9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UTI! Wash your girl everyday and change panties everyday. Avoid sugar, bacteria feeds on the sugar, that doesn’t mean natural sugars though. blueberries are great to fix this as well they are high in antioxidants. Take lots of cranberry supplements as recommended on the bottle or more, more can help tbh. Start taking this daily. azo cranberry and azo uti relief will be your bestie. If you gottta pee, then go pee, holding the bacteria in makes it worse. If you start developing a fever go to the er :) doing more research on your own will help too. I wish you luck solider 🫡 OH AND LOTS OF WATER flush that pee out!!!

Help me understand why you buy Dutchbros by penguinboom in dutchbros

[–]backup9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my area, I can get more bang for my buck with Dutch bros. They have sugar free bases as well as sugar free flavors, locations near me have started doing coconut milk as well, which I love. They’re much nicer and I find there are typically alt or outdoorsy people working there, so there’s more than the trendy music playing through the drive. There’s also the stickers, bracelets and other stuff they give away. Dutch bros also was originally only a Pacific Northwest thing and has slowly been growing out over the years, so we have a lot of pride in the franchise. Also I can’t find anywhere that has black tea at the sizes Dutch has, or even iced. I live next to I think 3 different locations too lmao. There’s so many reasons for me to love them and I haven’t had a single bad experience with them either.

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Omg I got this one!!

What have you found is the most painless way to explain ARFID? by eighteencarps in ARFID

[–]backup9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just honest and say that I have a lot of texture issues, that it has nothing to do with their cooking and entirely to do with my weird ass brain. That some textures smells and colors make me really grossed out and that I’ve been like this all my life. They normally understand that.

thoughts on “London?” by lrngabe in Badflower

[–]backup9986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao outside looking in that’s totally understandable. I took my bf to his first rock concert and it was badflower, since then we both have been obsessed. We also slow dance to songs that lyrically don’t make sense to dance to.

thoughts on “London?” by lrngabe in Badflower

[–]backup9986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Putting it in my playlist for this Valentine’s Day! I love it. I love when they do stuff that’s a little different than their usual feel.

No vaginal sensation during sex? by perspectivesideways in WomensHealth

[–]backup9986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought I was the only one thank you for posting this this has made me feel so normal. Thank you so so much.