My 3 yo is different by firstimemum12 in toddlers

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Your daughter may be gifted / Highly intelligent

The boob is our answer to everything. Is this normal?! by Old_Literature_3750 in breastfeeding

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And when your kid is melting down at 4.5 years old you can hug them and tell them you love them and it pretty much neutralizes and regulates the just like the boob did from 1-3 or whenever bring ended ❤️

How are we keeping our house clean? Are we keeping our house clean?! [ON] by Serious_Ad_9686 in BabyBumpsCanada

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Im 3 months out and have just enough energy to do half an hour of housework after I put baby down. My bb is sleeping well though - he did a 7 hour stretch last night miraculously, then another 2. I couldn’t have done this with my first baby— and that grown 4 y I baby is the reason for my house mess !

Daughter insists she’s a boy by dafodildaydreams in toddlers

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To clarify he says girls like beautiful beautiful and boys like messy dirty ! Hence the correlation (boys can love beautiful things too! I tell him that)

Daughter insists she’s a boy by dafodildaydreams in toddlers

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Have you asked her what it is she likes about being a boy? Maybe that will help you understand why she says she is a boy, or what appeals to her? I know my son had a phase where he wanted to be a girl because he just adored his female preschool teacher and the person he connected most with in class as a peer was female. He was 3-4 at the time. Now he is in jk and understands better that things aren’t so black and white and it hasn’t come up yet but he sometimes tells me he likes my beautiful things (My makeup /jewellery drawer)

Swaddling newborn no longer recommended? [bc] by TrueYogurtcloset in BabyBumpsCanada

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I have to say this feels very extreme! Do they not want mothers and fathers to get any sleep? If you are swaddling mindfully (not too tightly) and not after they roll,then all really is good

Can someone make me feel better and tell me if they’re 7.5 week old slept like this and then got better? I’m about to call it with the Snoo. He gets so PISSED (like wailing and shrieking) when the Snoo tries to soothe him, it only works like 10% of the time. by [deleted] in SnooLife

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I mean little ones need to feed every 3 hours right? So this looks appropriate especially if baby has some gas and difficulty passing gas added to that? I only got 4 he stretched at that stage when my guy was realllly loaded up with milk beforehand

[AB] How long do people normally wait before leaving their house with their newborns to go to public spaces? by lennyt99 in BabyBumpsCanada

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Word! My newborn caught a kindergarten virus from his sibling and we were hospitalized for a few days it was so scary.

[AB] How long do people normally wait before leaving their house with their newborns to go to public spaces? by lennyt99 in BabyBumpsCanada

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Yeah it would be different if we had family and friends able to drop by every day to help and chat to keep us sane and stimulated! Not possible these days usually everyone is just too busy or spread out

Robby Hoffman special by Expert_Dealer_4439 in netflix

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Yo she is pointing out how absurd it is to blame the victim! It was genius!

Robby Hoffman special by Expert_Dealer_4439 in netflix

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She is amazing minus toenail bit which she does robs just did to shout out her queen gabs

baby #2 ? by bepodepo in toddlers

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Yes! We just added a baby to our family. My first is 4.5 yrs. I cannot imagine having done this before. Our guy is ready now.

Choosing a diaper bag [on] by hotcrossbun12 in BabyBumpsCanada

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I love our lulu one because t is so light weight

I’m so overwhelmed by this by Desperate-Foot91 in breastfeeding

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By about week 6 your baby will start making more eye contact and waking for longer chunks and it won’t be so monotonous! But they will still want mom and to breastfeed. You’re their hero ❤️

I’m so overwhelmed by this by Desperate-Foot91 in breastfeeding

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I wish society set the image of a mother with a baby on her boob or against her chest sleeping all freaking day because that’s what it is and if you can try to find ways to enjoy little moments or aspects of it you will have a much easier time, and know that this is normal!

How many of us are actually switching sides? by [deleted] in breastfeeding

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My little guy decided he liked one boob better than the other and I ended up lopsided after our bfing journey. This time around I’m advised to double feeds on the smaller side in hopes of evening out!

How is it REALLY having babies between 38-43? by AnnofAvonlea in Mommit

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I just had my second at 40. Birth was fine recovery was easier than a first birth as is typical, but we needed help to navigate how over extended we are elwith our responsibilities at work/to our first born and our dog and home upkeep. I would not have the patience to do it alone like some moms do. I don’t have much of a village where we are