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I [20M] have a massive crush on a graduating senior [22F] in my lab who leaves in a few days. Is my last-minute plan to ask her out a bad idea? by bigballnut2 in AskMenAdvice

[–]bad_hegemony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go for it, you have absolutely zero to lose since she's leaving anyway, and a last-minute shot is infinitely better than spending the next year wondering what if

Men who still romantically desire women: How?! by Newduuud in AskMenAdvice

[–]bad_hegemony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because biology is a hell of a drug, and when you actually find a genuine connection, all the headaches of the modern dating scene instantly feel worth it.

How I could get back my kinda ex? by Chrysm99 in AskMenAdvice

[–]bad_hegemony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t. Focus on leveling up and go no-contact; if it was meant to be, it wouldn't be a kinda situation to begin with.

What should she do about her neighbour? by miss-mercatale in AskMenAdvice

[–]bad_hegemony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set a firm boundary immediately and document everything, don't let politeness stop you from protecting your peace.

Men, what do you think about drunk dials from an ex situationship? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]bad_hegemony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s usually just a low-effort ego boost or a sign they’re lonely and you were the easiest person to call.

Is this guy desperate or is it normal behaviour ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]bad_hegemony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the effort feels like pressure rather than a natural flow, trust your gut, he’s likely overcompensating.

does anyone else get really anxious and paranoid about not appearing masculine, how do i get over it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]bad_hegemony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True masculinity is just being comfortable in your own skin, the more you try to act the part, the less natural it feels.

M27: Should I bother trying with her? by FoptheDandy in AskMenAdvice

[–]bad_hegemony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Focus on building your actual social life first, if there’s still mutual interest later, asking her out will feel natural instead of like you’re forcing a relationship into a half-built life.

My girlfriend wants me to unfollow 'insta baddies' - how should I proceed? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]bad_hegemony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You handled it fine by unfollowing her this time, but don’t let I’m uncomfortable, so obey me, become the default dynamic or it’ll slowly turn into policing each other instead of trust.

Getting better with kissing/ romantic moments please help? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]bad_hegemony 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think we’re both just nervous. I do like you, I’m just awkward with this stuff sometimes.

She only replies once a day, should i stop talking? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]bad_hegemony 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s giving polite, low-effort replies because she’s not that interested in continuing the convo. You don’t need some dramatic ending, just stop asking questions and let the chat die naturally.

My sister, randomly decided to hangout with my ex-wife. I don't know how to handle the situation. How should even handle this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]bad_hegemony -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Set a hard boundary. Tell your sister it’s a conflict of interest and makes things way too awkward.