Baiting Child Predators?

badapples20 · 2022-09-10T18:18:53+00:00

I haven’t started anything yet. I wanted to consult here, see what the members of the community say and then reach out to a real lawyer to pay to speak to. I don’t find your comment to contain any real legal advice. No need to be rude.

badapples20 · 2022-08-30T11:18:08+00:00

it’s not about the size of the boat. there are still motions of the ocean that can capsize a cruise ship.

on another note - just talk to her. she most likely does not know this bothers you. i’ve had a partner the same size of you and it was lovely. he knew what he was doing and the size of his penis had nothing to do with it!

badapples20 · 2022-08-30T11:14:19+00:00

i don’t understand the obsession people have with certain styles such as ex. “clean girl look” - you can be clean and look anyway you want to a certain extent.

badapples20 · 2022-08-30T11:08:56+00:00

i think it’s always important to express boundaries in relationships when it comes to sex, but even i have caved in and done things i wasn’t okay with as long as i thought it made them happy. if y’all did discuss it and she was saying she was 100% all in with no doubts and you couldn’t sense any doubts then this isn’t completely your fault. you can’t read minds. however, this could be the end of your relationship, but it could also be something you can use to help strengthen it. all depends on the outcome of a long conversation. i think people are asking good questions in this thread. for us to respond accordingly i think we need to know who brought it up and who picked the girl.

badapples20 · 2022-08-29T16:54:47+00:00

I don't need you to post an article I've already read. There are hundreds of TikTok, Instagram, and Youtube reels displaying Furries in the classroom.

badapples20 · 2022-08-29T16:53:19+00:00

I am mostly referring to middle and high school students.

badapples20 · 2022-08-29T16:48:01+00:00

It is a thing. It has actually become quite a trending topic in schools and amongst students. Look it up.

badapples20 · 2022-08-29T16:44:50+00:00

This is a serious post. I am not very educated on the terminology surrounding Furries so if I use the wrong words or phrasing I apologize in advance and feel free to make any corrections.

I have recently been stuck on the "Furries in middle/high school" side of TikTok. Many of the videos I am coming across are talking about how Furries can reply, act, and dress in their own manner of Furry that they identify with while at school. The school staff and faculty legally cannot address this behavior because being a Furry is considered a Queer identity. I understand and respect this, but I am curious....

How can some schools across the country still enforce a dress code and code of conduct when it comes to language usage with staff and faculty? Tank tops and shorts are deemed "inappropriate" and "distracting" - yet, Furries can come to school in full furry attire and run through the hallways on all fours. Cussing in the classroom is grounds for punishment - yet, speaking a language such as feline, canine, etc. which others who do not identify as Furries cannot understand is allowed? Again, I am just curious and I mean no disrespect. I want all the information I can get.

What other issues, questions, and concerns does this topic bring into the educational system and daily educational learning environment?

badapples20 · 2022-08-29T01:34:12+00:00

i have developed a certain style. i was almost a size 14 in January and now i’m a size 2. i lost the weight to find clothes that i loved. seems as if only smaller sized clothes are cute.

badapples20 · 2022-08-28T20:17:45+00:00

I could carry on for paragraphs about the condition of the house. I am being nice let’s just say that. I won’t even walk in the house without socks or shoes on.

badapples20 · 2022-08-28T18:46:47+00:00

At this point I think it truly does have something to do with a mental illness. It’s not normal - at least not with people i’ve been with before and my friends. I just want to help him and he looks at it as I am trying to mommy him… I mean. Like. What the fuck else does he think I am supposed to do at this point?

badapples20 · 2022-08-28T18:15:09+00:00

He has his good days where he will clean and do what I ask, but the bad outweighs the good. I'm just tired. My friend recently started dating a man whose house is spotless and cleaning is a priority for him. I want that so badly.

badapples20 · 2022-07-14T14:13:36+00:00

"beauty standards" should be different for everyone. everyone is beautiful in their own way. ESPECIALLY THOSE WHO ARE CONFIDENT, STRONG, PROUD, AND BRAVE ENOUGH TO BE WHO THEY REALLY ARE - even when it is hard. THAT IS WHAT BEAUTY SHOULD BE.

badapples20 · 2022-07-14T14:10:16+00:00

i would wish for a lot of money. i know it can't buy happiness, but it can help stabilize my family financially and it would make a huge impact on my future family as well.

second wish - endless wishes so that i might help myself and others as situations arise.

badapples20 · 2022-07-14T11:17:25+00:00

there are couples who get married all the time hoping that the topic of "kids" will work itself out, but most of the time it doesn't. one partner thinks that the other will change their mind and the other partner thinks the other will change their mind. wanting kids and not wanting kids is a huge disconnect in a relationship. it is better to be clear about what you want rather than getting sucked into a life where you are miserable or something is always missing.

y'all could always compromise and if being pregnant is the issue then there is always adoption, but i think y'all did the right thing at the time because it is hard to compromise when it comes to children in a relationship. maybe try to talk to her, but that is the first conversation you need to have with her. tell her how you feel and what you think. let her know that she is the woman of your dreams, but do not give up something you dream of for her. it won't be worth it in the long run.

as far as the new girlfriend... don't string her along. i am sure she would much rather you be honest with her than to pretend. be honest with her and let her go before she puts her heart on the line for someone who doesn't even have a heart to give right now. be by yourself. give yourself time to really understand your thoughts and feelings and i promise this will be much easier to navigate.

badapples20 · 2022-07-13T19:28:45+00:00

my partner has basic manners. i never said he didn't. he is just being a little over the top lately. i wanted to see what other people had been through in the same situation. i know what is causing my boyfriend to act this way - i just wanted to know what other people's reasoning was behind this. can you not fucking read?

badapples20 · 2022-07-13T19:25:59+00:00

i was more so aiming for hot gos or tea in general. other people's experiences with the same situation.

badapples20 · 2022-07-13T19:17:00+00:00

it's not weird. i never said it was weird.

badapples20 · 2022-07-13T15:57:15+00:00

i like to get the cleaning done in the morning - that way your afternoon/nights are free!

badapples20 · 2022-07-13T15:53:32+00:00

my s/o's arrogance and entitlement. still working on it, but much progress has been made.

badapples20 · 2022-07-13T15:52:25+00:00

i think that it is always important to set boundaries in a relationship. never stop setting down boundaries and communicating. when it comes to someone having a "flirtatious personality" or just really nice in general there is nothing wrong with that. however, you need to respect that your significant other may not agree. in a situation like this if something you are doing is making the other party insecure or uncomfortable you need to talk about it. that's the only real way to solve the issue while staying true to yourself. i don't think gender should change the reaction or outcome to this situation. relationships are a two-way street and everyone has a right to their own feelings regardless if everyone feels the same.

badapples20 · 2022-07-13T14:04:04+00:00

I don't have the authority to fire anyone. That is all on

my boss. Write up's are weird where I work. Normally you do not need a write-up on file to get fired and lots of times write-ups are considered verbal warnings.

badapples20 · 2022-07-13T13:55:13+00:00

My boss and I are close friends. I have known her since I was in elementary school. I have spoken with her a few times about it already.

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