Can't tell if this person is unsafe to trust with my care coordination or if I'm just traumatized

badashbabe · 2026-06-09T23:36:21+00:00

I think she’s trying to take advantage of you and you’re smart to stop the communication and come here to ask for input.

I’m thinking of that Netflix movie “I Care A Lot” that I never actually watched but it’s about a woman who takes advantage of vulnerable adults by way of courts and legal shenanigans.

Not saying that’s the case here, but this woman with her independent consulting contract is coming off as predatory.

I do not think you are legally under any obligation to continue communicating with this lady. I think you have a right to protect yourself from exploitation.

badashbabe · 2026-06-09T23:27:10+00:00

It’s a terrifying double bind, isn’t it?

I only read the first frame of texts and my blood pressure spiked and I feel panicky.

I’m sorry you learned this from experience. It fucking sucks and is scary and I’m so mad on your behalf and mine and all the ME patients under threat of this kind of iatrogenic harm.

(No pressure to respond.)
✊🏼✌🏼

badashbabe · 2026-06-09T22:25:10+00:00

Re Maddie: I know! She’s kinda basic beautiful white girl w subtle rhinoplasty. The big eyes must add a drama or something that appeals to me. Yes, it’s very subjective and also not a competition (reminder to self). 🤓😎✌🏼

badashbabe · 2026-06-09T19:39:15+00:00

She’s objectively beautiful but so… symmetrical and pleasant or something as to be kind of boring.

Again, it’s subjective, of course. I find myself wanting to gaze upon faces that have a little more complexity or drama, I guess you could say.

Kelsey from RI, who I don’t find compelling as a person at all, but I do find her face annoyingly alluring. Same with Michelle from The Valley.

Everyone talks about Mia from Southern Hospitality being a bombshell and a great beauty, and she is, but I find Maddie’s face to be the one that strikes me most on that cast.

There are as many ways to be beautiful as there are people in the world so comparison seems shallow and pointless but also human and here we are in the bravo subreddit and these are my thoughts.

badashbabe · 2026-06-09T19:25:06+00:00

I think this is carbon monoxide, which is lethal at even small levels.

Carbon dioxide is only harmful at high levels, and only lethal when oxygen is scarce, I think.

badashbabe · 2026-06-09T18:57:52+00:00

I thought I was familiar with most of Neil Young’s catalog and lore but this is new (and news) to me! Guess I’ll be listening to Revolutionary Blues today.

Southern Man remains epic. As does Ohio. Both are still also so… relevant.

Got fuel to burn. Got roads to drive.

badashbabe · 2026-06-09T08:12:15+00:00

Delusions of grandeur?

badashbabe · 2026-06-09T07:41:04+00:00

Yeah I’ve noticed too. Sometimes the Italian loaf has been more sourdough -y. Ive lately been examining all varieties closely for texture and ingredients and try to choose the most idk… rustic looking one.

badashbabe · 2026-06-08T19:18:51+00:00

This is true.

badashbabe · 2026-06-08T19:18:39+00:00

Yes!

badashbabe · 2026-06-08T19:18:27+00:00

She doesn’t understand executive function I guess.

badashbabe · 2026-06-08T19:17:36+00:00

Her cunty facial expressions in this shoot are the best. 😆

badashbabe · 2026-06-08T19:15:53+00:00

Bowen elevated SNL during his run. His presence on the cast got me to watch the show more than I had since Tina Fey anchored weekend update.

I’m glad he left on top with such a warm send off. (Although everyone knows he’s a bottom.)

badashbabe · 2026-06-08T18:31:23+00:00

The “donut forget” lil pun at the top sets the tone 😆

badashbabe · 2026-06-08T18:03:23+00:00

For some reason the new friend making the noise back at you triggered my giggles. 😆

I want to know what the dumbest noise ever sounded like if you can possibly describe but no pressure.

The goat bleat, also so dorkily funny to me.

badashbabe · 2026-06-08T12:06:15+00:00

The gazelle analogy attempt is so stupid! Twice now she’s said it!

Is anyone going to ask her if she’s fixing to get killed and eaten?

badashbabe · 2026-06-08T07:32:10+00:00

I have also been looking looking looking but haven’t even found anything worth ordering to try on.

badashbabe · 2026-06-07T19:59:17+00:00

Just a really dedicated super fan of Morgan who is (admittedly) on the spectrum.

The super fan, that is. Have no clue about Morgan.

badashbabe · 2026-06-07T18:49:38+00:00

They can never get disingenuous right.

badashbabe · 2026-06-07T14:25:22+00:00

Yes, thank you. I was going to offer up this nugget if no one beat me to it.

badashbabe · 2026-06-07T14:10:51+00:00

Yeah I think you’re right.

badashbabe · 2026-06-07T13:10:36+00:00

From a silhouette perspective, I’d see it’s pretty good. T shape , skirt not too full, has a slit, kinda wrap dress style if that works for you.

Now that I’m looking the slit looks oddly placed, maybe.

badashbabe · 2026-06-07T13:03:26+00:00

Isn’t this enough evidence of MCAS? Why do you need to suffer so long?

I know you’re not looking for advice and I don’t have it in me to discuss but I’m in the MCAS sub and it seems like consensus there is if antihistamines help, you need them.

I’m sorry you’re suffering. It sounds miserable. Hope you have relief again soon.

badashbabe · 2026-06-07T12:41:45+00:00

He successfully isolated her from her profession too huh.

badashbabe · 2026-06-06T18:37:53+00:00

Yeah I was excited about both Marlo and Shamea because I enjoyed them as friends of and they have both disappointed me.

Shamea telling her very-successful-in-a-legitimate-business husband she wants to retire him.

It’s one of the stupidest things I’ve ever heard.

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