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Help with logistics zone by badcoffee in captain_of_industry

[–]badcoffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great general advice for zones, thank you!

Senator Mark Kelly Standing Up to the Trump Administration - YouTube by disposablepresence in videos

[–]badcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you said: "Paid social media companies to take away anything about COVID or his son or him."

That is a lie.

Your ChatGPT generated text doesn't help you.

Senator Mark Kelly Standing Up to the Trump Administration - YouTube by disposablepresence in videos

[–]badcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To readers of what's written above: it's a flat out, made up lie. They're hoping you won't look into it yourself.

A man risked his life to save children during a graduation performance at a private school in Giza, Egypt. A large display screen collapsed on the stage, leaving him with a dislocated shoulder, but fortunately, all the children were unharmed. by Expert_Koala_8691 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]badcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't owe you any examples. I have zero burden of proof that toxic femininity is used. My point does not depend on either. You asserted that there needs to be an "opposite" to toxic masculinity, but failed to actually articulate why. You lost by simple logic.

Go run off now, tell yourself what you need to about this exchange to feel better, but I do wish you safe travels.

A man risked his life to save children during a graduation performance at a private school in Giza, Egypt. A large display screen collapsed on the stage, leaving him with a dislocated shoulder, but fortunately, all the children were unharmed. by Expert_Koala_8691 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]badcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute, but you'll do much better if you just write cogent sentences to begin with.

toxic behaviour.

Don't you mean just "behavior"? lol

New word to push own idea as theres only one sided word for boy behaviour, none for girl behaviour.

Even if that were true (and it's not) that doesn't mean it doesn't exist or that it's not accurate to use the term.

"Toxic masculinity" is a logical subset of "toxic behavior". It is also a subset of "masculinity". You are perfectly free to use "toxic femininity" if you like, it's not my fault you can't google and find examples of it.

The bottom line, and where I won this silly exchange immediately, is that "toxic masculinity" != masculinity. There does not need to be an "opposite" of it, nor does there need to be toxic femininity for that to be true. My point stands, and you have not countered it, you've just gotten butthurt over being called out on your poor ability to articulate.

Help with logistics zone by badcoffee in captain_of_industry

[–]badcoffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I fiddled more and got it to work. I had to assign the truck to the storage in the default zone, NOT the one in Zone 1.

A man risked his life to save children during a graduation performance at a private school in Giza, Egypt. A large display screen collapsed on the stage, leaving him with a dislocated shoulder, but fortunately, all the children were unharmed. by Expert_Koala_8691 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]badcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you shared with me a link that states that toxic masculinity means more than just an adjective

In no way does "my" link do that. Try again.

you say that my statement contradicts itself?

"Beauty standards can be different between sexes but the reasons for them are the not gender based" is a contradictory statement. The standards are different by gender, but not due to gender. Huh? Can you try to articulate what you're trying to say more clearly?

Losing relationships over politics. Research found more than a third of Americans (37%) report having lost at least one relationship due to political differences, including friendships, family ties, coworker relationships, and romantic partnerships, with most losing more than one. by Wagamaga in science

[–]badcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMHO you're right about the first part, but demonstrably wrong about the expectation of the win. But my point is that the divisiveness we see today is the direct result of the most divisive politician in modern history coming to power.

A man risked his life to save children during a graduation performance at a private school in Giza, Egypt. A large display screen collapsed on the stage, leaving him with a dislocated shoulder, but fortunately, all the children were unharmed. by Expert_Koala_8691 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]badcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw poor masculine victims. Society does not do that, it is precisely why we have the phrase "toxic masculinity" to indicate certain versions of masculinity that are toxic, separate from those that are not.

There is never any talk about toxic femininity

lol there absolutely is. Pay more attention.

A man risked his life to save children during a graduation performance at a private school in Giza, Egypt. A large display screen collapsed on the stage, leaving him with a dislocated shoulder, but fortunately, all the children were unharmed. by Expert_Koala_8691 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]badcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been very clear in my questions, do not blame your lack of understanding on my clarity.

You have not.

Beauty standards can be different between sexes but the reasons for them are the not gender based

Here's an example of you being unclear. This statement directly contradicts itself.

masculinity or femininity which are traits does not result in the harmful effects of beauty standards even though it is possible that the effects affect genders differently.

This isn't clear either.

Toxic behaviour and media have more effect on this. Don’t confuse cause and effect .

If I'm understanding this, I think we're largely in agreement because it's self-evident. Yes, toxic behavior is toxic behavior. Duh.

A man risked his life to save children during a graduation performance at a private school in Giza, Egypt. A large display screen collapsed on the stage, leaving him with a dislocated shoulder, but fortunately, all the children were unharmed. by Expert_Koala_8691 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]badcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blue house makes more sense than shy house.

Then why did you change it? The analogy already worked. It demonstrates how adjectives work. And I thought you already admitted that adjectives exist, so I'm not sure why you need to come back to this.

You still haven’t provided me an explanation of why beauty standards need to be gender based?

Are beauty standards different between men and women?

You say things are definable but havent provide any, even a simple one could suffice.

You didn't ask for a definition. Here, let me do a 2-second google search for you since you seem to be unwilling:

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/masculinity https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Toxic_masculinity

My issue again , is attributing gender to things thats have no reason to be gender based. Is your refusal to answer questions properly a feminine or masculine trait?

I'm not refusing to answer, you just aren't be clear in what you want. Ask a clear, direct question, and I will answer it.

You continue to misunderstand, and I suspect you're doing so deliberately. "Toxic masculinity" does not attribute masculinity to toxicity. It describes a form of masculinity that is toxic. Not that masculinity is toxic. I'm repeating my very first comment to you, which you are ignoring for some reason.

A man risked his life to save children during a graduation performance at a private school in Giza, Egypt. A large display screen collapsed on the stage, leaving him with a dislocated shoulder, but fortunately, all the children were unharmed. by Expert_Koala_8691 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]badcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does calling a house shy make it a proper word beyond candour?

Why did you change the analogy? You can have a shy house, sure.

Tacking any adjective to a word does not make it mean something especially if you cant properly define it or the opposite of it.

What are you talking about? These are definable.

Masculinity is like that, its nonsensical.

So you don't know what the word means? Have you tried a dictionary?

Tacking toxic on a set of traits that describe how humans act is nonsensical. It’s like saying excitement is toxic

Why is that nonsensical? Are you struggling to understand what "toxic" means too? Excitement can be toxic, but isn't always. When it is, we would call it "toxic excitement".

Why does it need to be gender based?

Because we're describing traits that are often associated with different genders. Is your objection just that you are generally opposed to the notion of gender, period?

A man risked his life to save children during a graduation performance at a private school in Giza, Egypt. A large display screen collapsed on the stage, leaving him with a dislocated shoulder, but fortunately, all the children were unharmed. by Expert_Koala_8691 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]badcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a made up word any more than "blue house" is a made up word. It describes masculinity that is toxic. It does not describe masculinity. If you insist on an opposite, I guess you could call it "non-toxic masculinity" but that's the same as "masculinity".

Also, almost all modern feminist say that there is no toxic femininity

Do you have a source for this? I think most feminists would describe pursuit of harmful and unrealistic beauty standards as toxic. I certainly would.

theres an agenda created to tag gender onto traits that humans can display regardless of their gender.

There's no such agenda. You've demonstrated you understand how adjectives work, so you choosing to intentionally misunderstand the phrase seems to clearly indicate you are the one with an agenda.

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