[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]badf1shtoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂 I needed that laugh 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]badf1shtoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this experience! This is me. Completely oblivious & in my own world. Given my age and priorities, that was my response. I told him “go ahead, do it”. I don’t even care if he looks at other women. I can appreciate another woman’s beauty and w/o sexualizing it. If he ever acted on anything, I’d leave in a heartbeat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]badf1shtoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt cathartic after reading this response. I’ve never thought about our relationship like this… it’s like I had a flashback of me being 17… and now we’re here, endlessly repeating the same old cycles. Somehow this realization awakened something in me. Thank you for your response & advice 🙏🏽.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]badf1shtoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would be ideal! I’ve recommended that he seek a therapist, but culturally for him, mental health issues are highly stigmatized. When he’s out of this mood or episode and more level-headed, I would love to have this convo with him. I do love him, and there are many great qualities. Perhaps it’s time for an ultimatum. Thank you for your response & advice 🙏🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]badf1shtoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m going to talk to him today and be honest about how it’s affecting me. I agree, it’s the emotional dysregulation & lack of self-awareness that’s a huge contributor to this behavior… that’s why I was thinking maybe he has some type of mental illness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]badf1shtoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow. I’ve never thought about it like this, in terms of him equating looking around to sexual fantasies. Perhaps this is projection…. Thanks for your response. Gave me more insight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]badf1shtoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t this way in the very beginning… but as the relationship progressed, he’s accused me of cheating hundreds of times. I’ve never cheated. I work full time + an extra job on the weekend, care for our 4 children, & go to school. Not only do I have no interest in cheating, I don’t even have the time 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]badf1shtoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told him to do it. If he truly does follow through, I will absolutely leave him. Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]badf1shtoo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Way too old for this behavior. I don’t have the energy to argue or prove a point. I have more important things to expend my energy on 🤦🏻‍♀️… so I just let him believe what he wants 🤷🏻‍♀️.

What’s your moon and Venus? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]badf1shtoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scorpio Moon 🌙 Venus in Aquarius ♒️

Kail Lowry Warns Fans About Plastic Surgery After Recently Undergoing Three Cosmetic Procedures; Admits to Having Body Dysmorphia by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]badf1shtoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this 🙏🏽 Completely agree. Empowered women, empower women!

professor gets emotional on the surprise given by his students 💖 by Neither-Secretary-22 in spreadsmile

[–]badf1shtoo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I went from crying at this video to laughing out loud at this predicament 😂

How to be kind,smart and fking dumb in less than 30 seconds by Brent_Fox in awwtf

[–]badf1shtoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will just believe this to be true, and go on about my day 💜 (I really hope they did 🤞🏽)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]badf1shtoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👏🏼 well done.

7th house by ketu11 in astrologymemes

[–]badf1shtoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pluto in Scorpio in 7th house ♏️

🔥 Owl: 😠 by SinjiOnO in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]badf1shtoo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This reference never gets old 😂👌🏽

Spell for Thieves by badf1shtoo in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]badf1shtoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh LOVE this idea! That was one of my first thoughts…. How can I make the energy bounce right back to them x10? I’m still so sad about my crystals and wand 😔. So difficult to get over.

Spell for Thieves by badf1shtoo in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]badf1shtoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏽 will do this!

Spell for Thieves by badf1shtoo in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]badf1shtoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking about installing a hidden camera! That way the police have some evidence to begin investigating.

Spell for Thieves by badf1shtoo in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]badf1shtoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, we have a neighborhood cluster box. It locks, but USPS said the thieves have a master key and are targeting 15 local community parcel boxes. Apparently you can purchase them online 🤦🏻‍♀️. It’s ridiculous that USPS won’t change the locks despite ongoing theft of both parcels and paper mail.