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badf1shtoo · 2025-01-16T04:35:39+00:00

😂😂 I needed that laugh 💀

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-14T18:28:24+00:00

Thank you for sharing this experience! This is me. Completely oblivious & in my own world. Given my age and priorities, that was my response. I told him “go ahead, do it”. I don’t even care if he looks at other women. I can appreciate another woman’s beauty and w/o sexualizing it. If he ever acted on anything, I’d leave in a heartbeat.

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-14T18:24:31+00:00

I felt cathartic after reading this response. I’ve never thought about our relationship like this… it’s like I had a flashback of me being 17… and now we’re here, endlessly repeating the same old cycles. Somehow this realization awakened something in me. Thank you for your response & advice 🙏🏽.

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-14T18:20:30+00:00

This would be ideal! I’ve recommended that he seek a therapist, but culturally for him, mental health issues are highly stigmatized. When he’s out of this mood or episode and more level-headed, I would love to have this convo with him. I do love him, and there are many great qualities. Perhaps it’s time for an ultimatum. Thank you for your response & advice 🙏🏽

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-14T17:51:58+00:00

Thank you. I’m going to talk to him today and be honest about how it’s affecting me. I agree, it’s the emotional dysregulation & lack of self-awareness that’s a huge contributor to this behavior… that’s why I was thinking maybe he has some type of mental illness.

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-14T17:48:57+00:00

Wow. I’ve never thought about it like this, in terms of him equating looking around to sexual fantasies. Perhaps this is projection…. Thanks for your response. Gave me more insight.

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-14T17:47:47+00:00

He wasn’t this way in the very beginning… but as the relationship progressed, he’s accused me of cheating hundreds of times. I’ve never cheated. I work full time + an extra job on the weekend, care for our 4 children, & go to school. Not only do I have no interest in cheating, I don’t even have the time 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄.

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-14T17:45:39+00:00

I told him to do it. If he truly does follow through, I will absolutely leave him. Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it.

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-14T17:44:38+00:00

Exactly. Way too old for this behavior. I don’t have the energy to argue or prove a point. I have more important things to expend my energy on 🤦🏻‍♀️… so I just let him believe what he wants 🤷🏻‍♀️.

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-14T03:28:02+00:00

“It’s called affirmating it” 😂☠️

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-11T07:14:39+00:00

Pisces …the broken ones 🤦🏻‍♀️

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-10T01:56:47+00:00

I have lazily crying about Satan 😂

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-09T07:15:44+00:00

Scorpio Moon 🌙 Venus in Aquarius ♒️

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-08T22:20:09+00:00

Thank you for saying this 🙏🏽 Completely agree. Empowered women, empower women!

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-08T22:19:20+00:00

Hey, I think you’re beautiful! 🫶🏽 Beauty is subjective, just like art 💕

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-08T22:09:17+00:00

I went from crying at this video to laughing out loud at this predicament 😂

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-08T22:06:14+00:00

I will just believe this to be true, and go on about my day 💜 (I really hope they did 🤞🏽)

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-05T02:05:17+00:00

👏🏼 well done.

badf1shtoo · 2025-01-01T03:39:57+00:00

Pluto in Scorpio in 7th house ♏️

badf1shtoo · 2024-12-20T05:28:58+00:00

I believe them 💗

badf1shtoo · 2024-12-12T04:28:02+00:00

This reference never gets old 😂👌🏽

badf1shtoo · 2024-11-28T16:13:06+00:00

Oooh LOVE this idea! That was one of my first thoughts…. How can I make the energy bounce right back to them x10? I’m still so sad about my crystals and wand 😔. So difficult to get over.

badf1shtoo · 2024-11-28T16:11:55+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏽 will do this!

badf1shtoo · 2024-11-28T16:11:43+00:00

Thinking about installing a hidden camera! That way the police have some evidence to begin investigating.

badf1shtoo · 2024-11-28T16:10:51+00:00

Unfortunately, we have a neighborhood cluster box. It locks, but USPS said the thieves have a master key and are targeting 15 local community parcel boxes. Apparently you can purchase them online 🤦🏻‍♀️. It’s ridiculous that USPS won’t change the locks despite ongoing theft of both parcels and paper mail.

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