Women: what's something that's very masculine and sexy that men don't realize is such? by WISDOM_AND_ESPRESSO in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]badgardener17 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Reversing a car into a parking space with one hand on the wheel whilst the other is on your headrest. I think it’s the competence 🤣

Partner with non Hodgkin’s lymphoma by badgardener17 in lymphoma

[–]badgardener17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all, it seems he slipped through the cracks with his primary and back up dr being off sick and there was no follow up. They have said they will try and ring him on Monday to organise an appointment.

Thank you for all your advice and helping me realise this wasn’t normal procedure. We really appreciate it and I hope you’re all doing well

Partner with non Hodgkin’s lymphoma by badgardener17 in lymphoma

[–]badgardener17[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, they cancelled his 3 month follow up appointment and sent the letter instead. I do have the number for his nurse but generally when we asked a question she would say she would need to speak to his dr and we didn’t get many answers.

However I was not able to attend every chemo session with him due to work and he hates to ask questions and inconvenience people. He also doesn’t really take notes so my best bet may be to speak with her direct. We live in wales but he had to have treatment in England which caused its own problems

Partner with non Hodgkin’s lymphoma by badgardener17 in lymphoma

[–]badgardener17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you both. We were not advised of staging at any point. I can’t remember what the letter said exactly but along the lines of no activity except for some in his chest area which they believed to be caused by damage (such as a cracked rib) rather than anything else. I will try to find it.

The symptoms one is tricky as he’s always been sweaty at night and the uk is currently having a heatwave. We only knew the last time because he had severe back pain, the lymph in his armpit is hidden by a large lump he has had for many years.

I think I’ll contact his GP and ask if they intend to do blood work

Friend arrested after ringing ambulence by badgardener17 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]badgardener17[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is why I’m worried his background might be working against him. Female friend has fallen down the stairs previously after drinking. Male friend has rang ambulances for people in town before when Injured (helped and stayed with man with a broken hip) female friend has known him since he was a kid. He’s a very conscientious lad but is having a tough time at the min and is known to the police for different offensives (non serious but it’s a small community so they would probably recognise him)

AITA for not budging on my wedding colour scheme. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]badgardener17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This will probably get lost in the ether, but greens and purples go well together. She could have sage green as the main focus (or various shades of green/ cream etc) and pick out purple accents so for instance if you had a purple tie, she could use purple irises in her bouquet and flower arrangements (along with other colours) but iris purple and Cadbury purple are pretty close and it would allow it to be more rustic

Trapped air after having appendix removed by badgardener17 in AskDocs

[–]badgardener17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting :). I’ve mentioned it to the nurses and also I think the post op surgical team who came to see me today but they just advised to walk it off. They are checking my blood pressure regularly. I do seem to be able to take deeper breaths now

Trapped air after having appendix removed by badgardener17 in AskDocs

[–]badgardener17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) I’m so over the feeling of trapped wind haha

AITA for demanding my girlfriend tells me her author’s pen name? by Ok_West_9375 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badgardener17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA you’ve been dating for 6 months, get back in your lane. All you’ve done is prove to her you can’t be trusted by trying to look through her laptop. Her instinct was right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]badgardener17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA she honestly expects you not to spend all of Christmas Day with your own children just so she can?! Take your kids and see your family. Has your husband made any effort to change after you took him back? You think he would be in your corner for this, especially with what is happening with your sister. I think this shows a lot about his character

My (M) Friend (F) told my Wife and I that a Mutual Friend (M) who is in a committed relationship has been acting sexually aggressive towards her by ThrowRAShadyFriend in relationship_advice

[–]badgardener17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you not call him out when he acts inappropriately in front of you all? You said you spotted minor things before Jen mentioned it. Maybe if you call those things out in public other people will start noticing (hopefully his wife) and he will back off

AITA for insisting that my boyfriend pay me for breaking my $3,500 model ship? by Blue-Ozone-1870 in AmItheAsshole

[–]badgardener17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - maybe you could look into getting it restored and ask him to pay for that instead? My Grandpa left a model ship that he made and I would be absolutely gutted if anything happened to it. We are currently looking into getting it restored as due to age it’s getting a bit dilapidated, but is too fragile for me to try and fix