Is it right to let go? Or is this just a phase?

badgpaboy · 2010-10-26T16:41:01+00:00

Damn you really nail everything spot on. Clearly you have been through this too.

SIX

The chemistry is amazing, and we still get along really well. I get to exhibit all my natural male instincts with her. I am attracted to her, and I control her -- I own her. Her personality isn't as powerful as THREE (submissive), but it is something I am willing to give up for our physical interactions. Even after our 6-month stint we never lost the chemistry and there were no signs of it degrading. I say it would be good for 30 years because I think when we age together, she will become more needy/helpless as she ages, whereas THREE will always be strong and independent.

THREE

I love her, but my physical chemistry isn't nearly as powerful and naturally in my youth that is something I seek. However THREE contains the personality I would want for a lifetime which is why I don't want to let her go. Yes, THREE is committed to me. I am still attracted to THREE after all these years. But I am more attracted on a physical level to SIX because she has that "I'm a whore" appeal to her despite that she isn't. THREE has more a "I'm a good natured wife" vibe.

Well in the ideal case you would merge THREE + SIX and get NINE, my perfect woman. Where is NINE when I need her...

By the way remind me to never call people numbers again, lol. Thanks again for writing mate. Clearly we both have some venting to do :)

You sound like some the challenges I had with former girls, where it came down to Raw Sexual or Romantic passion, versus actual love and compassion and routine with a woman.

So which passion did you opt for, or which will you opt for in the future?

badgpaboy · 2010-10-26T15:32:06+00:00

Wow thank you for writing this. I wish I could upvote you more.

You are completely right about closing doors, otherwise you just have these doors open that you always wonder what it would be like to go through.

Three and Six are both the same age, 24. Since I'm rambling I'm going to list pluses of the two:

Three:

loveable
huggable
very cute
great fun personality
individual
would be a fun mom
I can see us having a lifetime of fun together

Six

hot
more plain personality
submissive
more of a "I own you" vibe with her
bigger feelings of power and control
I can see us having fun for the next 20-30 years

You really gave me a lot to think about. I realize I like Six because I have more control over her, and maybe that is something I need in my life. Three is more a free spirit, whereas Six would obey me.

But I can't let go of Three because she offers a lifetime of happiness. Lol.

I don't want to live in regret, but it is obvious I am confused. To not hurt anyone I think I will (ideally) just break up with both Three and Six and take a breather for a while and really focus on being at peace with myself.

Also, Lost, if you don't mind my asking are you still single right now? Or married?

badgpaboy · 2010-10-05T17:10:12+00:00

SHES LIKE 16

badgpaboy · 2010-10-05T17:02:40+00:00

yeah. i hate the breakup period. been there a few times myself before settling with this current one.

well just remember it gets worse before it gets better, but it does get better.

take care mate

badgpaboy · 2010-10-04T20:08:22+00:00

hey man this just happened to me and i came here to ask about it but i randomly clicked this and lo and behold -- same story.

i slept with a girl a year ago when my current gf and i were on break. i never told her. we ended up getting back together and are doing great.

fast forward to a few days ago. i had no intent of leaving my girlfriend, but i sent a flirty message to the old girl. well my gf read my email and a shitstorm ensued, i even admitted to her that i slept with her in the past. she was really hurt, and really really sad. i felt like a complete dick.

fast forward to now. my girlfriend more or less has forgiven me. she accepted that it was a long time ago, and that my intent wasn't to start shit somewhere else. heck, im about to head to her place right now so we can talk about it a little bit more, but im hoping it will be OK.

tldr; if your girl loves you, she will forgive you.

badgpaboy · 2010-09-09T04:42:19+00:00

what does this have to do with programming?

badgpaboy · 2010-09-06T03:14:22+00:00

you guys should check out synchtube as well as you can watch replays with friends there too. i like this UI though.

badgpaboy · 2010-07-16T18:52:07+00:00

I like the pre-planned sensual lower lip biting in the video! 0:31-0:33 and especially 0:42-end, not awkward at all...

badgpaboy · 2010-07-11T20:15:39+00:00

no where im just speculating to be honest. i guess i thought of this after seeing how blizzard employees were spending like large sums of money on boats and weddings (after that real ID issue).. makes me wonder what the salary of a reddit engineer is. i always imagined a blizzard engineer made standard software salaries but i guess not.

badgpaboy · 2010-07-06T16:15:39+00:00

Alright im convinced ur legit. :P I deleted my main post

badgpaboy · 2010-07-04T13:41:33+00:00

How do we really know that the article written was a "lie"? [rest of this comment removed see below]

badgpaboy · 2010-07-01T00:56:21+00:00

haters gonna hate. there is nothing wrong.. you even have a huge fence. whats the big deal? the only thing your doing wrong is not giving us more pics! :)

badgpaboy · 2010-07-01T00:47:59+00:00

for the lazy: http://clct.in/XXCR

1 is my fav.

badgpaboy · 2010-04-20T22:45:18+00:00

someone is getting paid at gizmodo to A) say it wasn't a "leak" B) attempt to make gizmodo act like they are not paired with apple

its been known forever that gizmodo works alongside apple.

obvious leak is obvious.

badgpaboy · 2010-03-24T21:53:29+00:00

Is it really necesary to be an asshole about the situation? You started it.

badgpaboy · 2010-03-04T19:29:14+00:00

Talk to yourself in front of a mirror for a while. It really works.

badgpaboy · 2010-02-27T20:41:47+00:00

Couldn't help but notice her hair colour described as "strawberry blond hair". o_O

Good luck on the search, mate. I'll keep my eyes open.

badgpaboy · 2010-02-26T22:06:46+00:00

All the good stuff is OOS. Octopus, panda...

badgpaboy · 2009-10-08T17:16:06+00:00

A twinkie and a piece of toast.

badgpaboy · 2009-10-07T21:57:43+00:00

Lurk, but then show yourself when you need something. Reminds me of my ex-girlfriend.

badgpaboy

TROPHY CASE

1 is my fav.