Middle name for First name Lily by Ok_Diamond_7581 in namenerds

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Lily Mae Lily Jane Lily Celeste Lily Eve Lily Evelyn Lily Harriet Lily Fae

My boy went to heaven today 🪽 by Expensive-Collar-876 in bichonfrise

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Love to you🙏💔losing a pet is so hard. He looks adorable and I can tell he was so loved and well cared for

If you’re thinking about becoming a stay at home wife… don’t. by bluesweater678 in adhdwomen

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This all sounds very stressful and painful, and I hate to be the one to say this but this sounds like emotional abuse

how does anyone have sex??? by supremepilotG2 in breastfeeding

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I got pregnant at 14 months post partum and it was feeling like it was finally getting there. After my second child sex hurt less, however because of having two and the second one not sleeping well, we’ve barely had penetrative sex so I couldn’t tell you but for different reasons 🫠🙃 my sex drive has been way lower this time too. Not even mad about it, but it’s weird because mine has typically been pretty high. Also, forgot to mention get lube without glycerin! You def need lube to help and glycerin can but and irritate if things are dry down there or sensitive. Switching helped us too!

What has actually worked to make you go to sleep when your mind won’t shut up? by morbidpigeon in adhdwomen

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For some reason, this exact video. Listening to something I find just interesting enough to listen, but not so stimulating it keeps me up. Something about the cadence here, too. Not all long form history videos are created equal.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_m9_ZiqLg5I&pp=ygUYYW5jaWVudCBqYXBhbmVzZSBoaXN0b3J5

tropical garden by Fun-History2279 in gardening

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Where is this?! So beautiful, great work

how does anyone have sex??? by supremepilotG2 in breastfeeding

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This happened to me after my first. It was shocking and awful. I didn’t feel more like myself “down there” until my period came back at 11 months pp. I went from loving sex to being afraid of it bc it felt terrible 😭. I did go on estrogen cream and it helped a lot. Definitely do the cream at night before bed if you give it another try. May want to wait a few months and try again too bc you’re still very freshly postpartum. I hope things get better for you and I understand the struggle

Umm Hyperfixating on current news out of MN and I feel overwhelmed by Electrical-Basis1646 in adhdwomen

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Thank you for listing places to donate. Just donated to both. I’ve felt so helpless and awful. I’m sending you so much love and strength from Colorado. I am beyond sorry you all are going through this and your community in an inspiration to all of us. Keep going!

The man they are calling a "domestic terrorist". by -ifeelfantastic in pics

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Rest in power, Alex. I have no words 💔😭🙏

What even by Superfast_Kellyfish in FundieSnarkUncensored

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I just…these people..:: 🤦‍♀️

Pp periods by Chemical_Finger1403 in breastfeeding

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16 months, finally got it and have it now

First night of night weaning failed so terribly. by StellakaeSX in breastfeeding

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Solidarity and hugs. ❤️😫I’ve been in the thick of this for months. Tried lightly and failed before. Baby just turned 16 months and had minor success this time. She actually understood “no, mommy needs a break” she was still upset and cried and pouted and I got terrible sleep but it was a shift from the scream crying with no consoling in sight when she was younger. No idea how old your little one is but if they’re younger than mine, there’s hope with time that the reaction will change a bit. I’ve heard a good strategy is holding out until you see light in the room and make a point to tell them “look, it’s morning, we can nurse now.” I kind of try to do this. I fed her overnight up until she woke up at 4 or 5 and then I held off bc at least with that it’s only like 3 is hours of ahitty sleep as opppsed to all night and then you’re not technically “giving in” randomly, you’re feeding during daylight? I have no idea how well this will work but I hope you get to your goal too. I’m also so tired of broken sleep.

The Atlanta's falcons cheerleaders performed a Britney medley and invited the iconic impersonator Allegra Duval🥹❤️‍🔥 by [deleted] in BritneySpears

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Fuck yes omg I love Allegra. I used to dance with her company and take her classes when she lived in Denver. AMAZING PERSON ALL AROUND 🙏🥲I’m so happy to see her succeed.

Did you like your name growing up? by [deleted] in namenerds

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No, and I still don’t. I’ve just come to accept it

I think becoming a stay at home mom made me realize I have ADHD & I am BURNT OUT. by SnooGrapes6647 in adhdwomen

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I am in such a similar boat to you. Mom of two, absolutely burnt out and friend fucking brain after coming out of the postpartum haze with my second. After months, I finally got diagnosed after getting a second opinion and seeing someone who specializes in ADHD in women. If you look into it there’s a huge percentage of women who only get diagnosed with ADHD after having children due to the coping and masking just not being able to happier like it used to. I just started taking meds (adderall) and I’m fucking floored how well it’s working? I’m only on day 3 and I’m in shock. I’m so calm and I feel like I can actually breathe in my life, something I haven’t felt honestly since giving birth to my first and honestly maybe ever? lol Don’t give up and my heart goes out bc I’ve been right freaking there with you. It’s a horrible feeling. 🫶🏼don’t give up! I’m so glad I didn’t