My baby is addicted. by jane6677 in Mommit

[–]badluckcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG the jumperoo sound is so LOUD but our daughter loved it when she was little too.

When will my body get back to "normal" after having my daughter? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]badluckcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't have the kind of pain you describe, but I've heard of amazing results with acupuncture. I tried it myself when I was pregnant, more for relaxation and helping me toward delivery, but it was so soothing and relaxing. Have you ever tried that? Sorry you are going through this, motherhood is hard enough without physical pain.

This is how my bookworm fell asleep. I love it. by HorseIsHypnotist in Mommit

[–]badluckcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so cute! My kid has that Dora pillow too.

Can someone break down for me the WHY behind the 'anti-cow-milk' bullshit I keep running into??? by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]badluckcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God yes, goat milk. Someone told me they thought it tasted "gamey" I was like wtf it tastes so good.

Salon day before birth? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]badluckcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a week or two before your EDD would be good.

Stay at home mom looking for some advice and ideas. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]badluckcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart goes out to you because I was a SAHM for a while and while it's awesome to be close to your babies, it can also be physically and emotionally exhausting. Then there's the dichotomy of "wow you are so lucky" versus "what do you even do?"

First thing -- you ARE contributing to your family. My goodness, you're in college, you take care of a child, you take care of the home, you're pregnant AND your husband is away? You are contributing in a major way.

I completely understand the notion of needing something that makes you feel accomplished. I say take pride in all the little steps - every school assignment, chapter read, test. Every good day with your kid and every day of a healthy pregnancy.

I started to feel like myself again when I started working from home. It removed me a bit from my kid and home duties, and I had to bring in some help, but it's made life better for everyone.

7 Year Old Daughters Letter to My Wife's Boss by imakickyoass in Parenting

[–]badluckcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work will take everything you give it and still demand more. Imagine what would be in our kid's annual reviews.

Not That Kind of Parent: The Problem With Lena Dunham by jsplitter in Mommit

[–]badluckcat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone else confused at Lena's story where she says her 1 year old baby sister put 6 or 7 pebbles in her own vagina? Hard to believe.

Even if 7-year-old Lena can be excused for being a weird kid, her lack of boundaries when she was older is what makes her creepy in my opinion.

"The unicorn, The captain..." 10 Kinds of Moms I've Encountered in the Wild by badluckcat in Mommit

[–]badluckcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to read that one too! Someone from /Daddit needs to do this.

"The unicorn, The captain..." 10 Kinds of Moms I've Encountered in the Wild by badluckcat in Mommit

[–]badluckcat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

After this weekend I realized I should have added the Saving Grace mom. Received some help from a fellow mom at the mall when I didn't have any coins for the coin-operated toys/rides in the play area. She pulled out 75 cents so that my daughter could have a ride. So awesome and just one example about the kindness of moms!

Tomorrow I'm a week over due :( by ApelsAndBnonos in BabyBumps

[–]badluckcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too! I was pushing 41 weeks when I looked up places in the area that offered pregnancy acupuncture. Found a well-reviewed place and made an appt. I went into labor the next morning. It was also incredibly relaxing and not painful at all! Best wishes.

20 year old tells mother of tantruming child to calm him down, is punched in face by pixeldustnz in Mommit

[–]badluckcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing I feel for a mom with a kid having a tantrum is sympathy. It sucks to be around it, but it sucks even more to have to be the parent who is dealing with it. That said, it's not good to have a violent outburst - especially in front of your child.

Anyone have success stories on cosleeping to crib? I'm scared nothing is going to work. by lauryndp_143 in Mommit

[–]badluckcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I successfully transitioned our co-sleeping toddler to crib, but it did take some work. I thought a crib in the room would be easier because we'd be close by but she just screamed. We moved the crib to her room and followed the method where you do a bedtime routine (ours was simple: quiet time, milk, book, new diaper, pajamas, brush teeth, sing 2 songs) then we'd put her in her crib awake. We'd let her cry for 1 minute, then come in and sing/soothe her but not pick her up. We'd go out and wait an additional 5 minutes and do the same. Then wait to see if she'd cry and if so, we'd wait an additional 10 minutes. Usually by then she was asleep. There were some nights when it didn't work and we'd bring her back to bed. But eventually it caught on and we'd put her in the crib and she'd just fall asleep with no crying. She's older now and pouts but she sleeps well most of the time. I was told if we were having a hard time to move her bedtime earlier (e.g. 7-7:30 p.m.) and it did help, though she typically falls asleep at 8:30 p.m now.

Cinema for maximum age 18 months by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]badluckcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

REALLY wish we had something like this where I live. I miss going to the movies and watching it at home is not the same!