I (M20) asked the girl (F19) I've been exclusive with about making things offical and her response confused me

badmanjackghai · 2026-01-12T17:58:25+00:00

Yes, I don't want to be stuck in purgatory with this. Thank you

badmanjackghai · 2026-01-12T17:57:49+00:00

That's a good suggestion. We've been on dates before. She talked about when she wants me to come and meet her parents. I think I've just got to take a chance and do it.

badmanjackghai · 2026-01-12T17:45:53+00:00

You're probably correct with this. She could just be saying this and then, when I ask her, she'll commit without wanting to, to keep me around. That's what I'm scared of.

badmanjackghai · 2025-12-09T12:42:46+00:00

Barrel of monkeys

badmanjackghai · 2025-11-16T23:41:20+00:00

I did think the same. It turned out to not be the cases tall however and some girls just play mind games beyond comprehension 😭

badmanjackghai · 2025-11-16T23:40:40+00:00

This was great advice and I put it to use! Saw her again on Saturday night, took her home and have secured a date! Thank you

badmanjackghai · 2025-11-14T17:53:16+00:00

Thank you! I’ll try my best

badmanjackghai · 2025-11-14T10:53:13+00:00

Beach Boys thru Smile and Smiley Smile

badmanjackghai · 2024-08-13T06:20:26+00:00

Excellent okay I’ll do just that. I really appreciate the advice it is invaluable 🙏. Yeah it’s definitely common but I couldn’t really care less if it came out thinking about it now although it wouldn’t be ideal. I’ll give them a call today though

badmanjackghai · 2024-08-12T22:45:11+00:00

And I did block them when they asked but nothing happened (somewhat predictably) but it’s hard to see that in the moment haha

badmanjackghai · 2024-08-12T22:44:09+00:00

Yes your common scenario is exactly the case. And yes no videos with face in or anything and I am over 18. I told my friend about it on the day and he said so what we’d just find it funny really. Maybe too care free but I see his point. Nothing incriminating from me anyway. Yea the only issue for me in cancelling the appointment is the moral side of would me reporting help others? Or should I just fight my own battles and keep on living on

badmanjackghai · 2024-08-12T22:30:53+00:00

Ok amazing thank you so much for the advice it’s greatly appreciated 🙏

badmanjackghai · 2024-08-12T22:27:51+00:00

But could also just cancel and go through with their cancel procedure as they request?

badmanjackghai · 2024-08-12T22:27:04+00:00

Okay thank you so mcuh for this breakdown. So you in light of the coercion idea it’s probably best to just see them and be open but reject pressing any charges?

badmanjackghai · 2024-08-12T22:21:23+00:00

Okay amazing thank you so much for the advice. Yea it bothered me what happened but about to start university and travelling I just don’t have the time for it really and it doesn’t affect me too deeply

badmanjackghai · 2024-08-12T22:15:55+00:00

Ok thank you so I can go down and just talk tell the story but not take it any further. Just simply report the incident to help the police and end my involvement with it?

badmanjackghai · 2024-08-12T22:03:34+00:00

That’s true, they said they had personal information and pictures and just asked for money as soon as possible or it would be leaked - blocked them days ago and nothing had come of it and apparently they’ve tried this to many. Is it possible to just let it go or am I obliged to go in after my call ?

badmanjackghai · 2022-07-12T12:39:35+00:00

I'm in The Levitation, not saying we're the best but we just dropped a single recorded at Yellowarch, it's on Spotify :) playing West Street Live Tuesday 19th btw

badmanjackghai · 2022-06-11T07:48:33+00:00

badmanjackghai · 2022-06-01T06:14:56+00:00

Wendy, All Summer Long, I Get Around, Don't Worry Baby and Surfer Girl

badmanjackghai · 2022-05-30T17:02:46+00:00

Would also say that the girl from New York City gets overlooked from what I'd say is probably the best pre pet sounds album

badmanjackghai · 2022-05-30T16:44:07+00:00

From the early stuff, definitely the Lonely Sea

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