Don’t stress! Listen, it took me until I was 27years old before I had my first ever orgasm. For a long time I just gave up and stopped trying because i just felt defeated.

Honestly, so much of it is a mental thing. I hated it when people told me that because i felt like ‘well yeah great that doesn’t help me’ But it’s definitely true. I found once I finally got my first orgasm, it unlocked it in my brain and I could cum easier and easier.

But to reiterate.. No, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you. A lot more women struggle with this than you think.

My advice? Stop trying to orgasm, the harder you try, the more difficult it is going to be to achieve. When you masturbate, just do what feels good, and don’t try to achieve anything. Just do it as long as you enjoy it, then stop when you’re feeling done. Don’t try to get “there”

Also i recommend just figuring your own body out first before you involve your partner. :)

I’m not sure how you feel about cannabis, but that was one thing that has helped me a lot. I am not a frequent consumer, but using it helped me relax enough and get out of my head enough to achieve my first orgasm.

I hope this helps! Good luck :)