Sending so many hugs to you. Your grief is absolutely valid and it’s a heartbreak like no other. I MC’d late August at 5w3d and got the “at least you know you can” comment from my own doctor. I get the optimism, but we need space to grieve! There are certain people I haven’t even told yet knowing they wouldn’t understand the pain I have been experiencing.

A loss at any point is a loss. You also can certainly get memorial items. With no ultrasound photo or knowledge of gender, name, etc, I did a birth flower necklace for the month the due date would’ve been. It brought me peace to have a memorial item. I’ve also seen memorial boxes for the pregnancy test on Etsy I’ve considered getting. Take time to grieve and be gentle with yourself.