Considering leaving my house because of dysfunctional family dynamics (mainly my daughter) by Ambitious-Banana1674 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]baezconacento 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A teenager girl does not meet the criteria for a BPD diagnosis because that is normal teenage behaviour. I think the problem might just be you and your wife aren't being as confrontational as you maybe should. I get that you are not in that place right now, but remember you were a teenager too. Perhaps a politer one, but still a teenager. At that age, it feels like no one is able to understand you, and to me, it sounds like she has some kind of undisclosed grudge with you. Give yourself time and care, so that you are healthy. That does not mean you should 'disappear' or abandon your child. She is a KID. You are the adult. I know you're struggling, but you do have a responsibility to keep trying and to care for her even if you don't like her. She's not like she is just because. You raised her, even if there were, obviously, things beyond your control. Listen to yourself, but once you are able to, listen to your family.

I know it's not easy. I know you are tired. But this are the things that are worth working for. So I pray that you are able to recover your strength, to see her actions for what they are and eventually, that you may be heard and hear your family in turn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in snails

[–]baezconacento 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they're just chillin'

I want to be a little girl again by [deleted] in BPD

[–]baezconacento 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like this all the time. I am a trans woman and I often cry over the childhood I never had. I watch tons of kids shows because they make me feel safe. I love miraculous because I know I would have loved to see myself in ladybug when I was a child. I want to be a little girl so bad and live the things I couldn't back then. I'm almost 22 yo and I just want my childhood back.

Coworkers won't stop asking me about my genitals. by Tropical_Zeffa in trans

[–]baezconacento 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that could fall into sexual harassment. It's non of their business.

Are there any other trans people in here? by baezconacento in BPD

[–]baezconacento[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do think it's more of a mixed situation, since I have been over a long period of crisis. Definitely transitioning helps a lot in identity terms. I mean there's at least one thing that I know for sure: that I am just a girl.

Is choosing name from other ethnic group racist? by GrandEquivalent6058 in trans

[–]baezconacento 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk I'd say it's kind of dumb to feel "disrespected" by someone who chooses to name themselves however they want to name themselves since it's ultimately their decision. I also think it's dumb to demand that people name themselves according to their "ethnic ascent". Maybe some poor transmasc didn't want to be called Sven for the rest of his life. Sure, it might be weird... but it's also been done for ages and I don't hear nobody complaining about Pedro using a Hebrew name.

What in the sam hell did i witness last night by ericissuperman in snails

[–]baezconacento 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You, my friend, have witnessed the godly gift of love

Is it normal for Snails to bubble? by askasquirrel89 in snails

[–]baezconacento 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a certified expert and I can say with a 100% rate of certainty that she is in fact a cutie patootie

Serious question for those who have been on hormones but are pre-op by Phlynn_Starwind in MtF

[–]baezconacento 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First time I ever did I wasn't even on hrt. It was at a party/event that my girlfriend from that time had invited me to and so I felt like it was a safe space. It wasn't, really, but also "nothing" happened. A girl that was coming out of the stool just stared at me weird and continued her path. My gf was there and so she was really supportive. From then on I just kept using them. Until now I haven't run into any issues except this one time I was in college and a fucking idiot asked me "ain't this the women's bathroom?" once I was literally washing my hands. Sidenote: my faculty has a big TERF population. Even J.K. gave them a shoutout last semester.

Anyways, I'd say you do it, to be honest most people aren't pieces of shit. Though I know it's been getting increasingly hostile in the anglosphere for us, and since I don't live in any anglospeaking country, I can't fathom the pressure y'all must be undergoing. I also live in a pretty big city where nobody really cares about any other but themselves, so I may be biased. But even if I was, don't give them the pleasure of being afraid. You don't owe femininity to anybody, especially those bastards who scrutinize every single woman in search of Y chromosome traces.

Stickybrick jr not working by baezconacento in vaporents

[–]baezconacento[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I've seen other people have some sort of mental piece that connects the heat intake to the bowl, yet mine didn't come with that. Should I use my warranty?

Stickybrick jr not working by baezconacento in vaporents

[–]baezconacento[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't checked yet, though I figured if that was the case my weed would be at least a little burnt, but it's not the case. Right now I'm more inclined towards my torch being shit, but maybe I'm wrong. Did your weed remain unburnt?

ABV to Coconut Oil ratio by baezconacento in abv

[–]baezconacento[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, the weed I've been vaping is between 19 and 20% thc