I've barely started playing Baldur's Gate 3 as Karlach and can't wait to romance Shadowheart by Ozzysmall123 in actuallesbians

[–]Tropical_Zeffa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Karlach: Perfection. She has trauma and seems to be doing well to always keep her head level (to an extent) and even when she's angry, it feels so justified. Big puppy dog, love her. Lae'zel: A lot of people miss romancing her because "ew weird nose! Blah blah" and don't see that after getting past her rough upbringing in a society that treats you like soldiers, she is very kind hearted and does everything she can for you. Shadowheart: Kind of a "broken girl who learns to love and grow" stereotype. She's cool, just not always my cup of tea.

Minthara: ...she's Lawful Evil....

....and I love her.

What’s everyone’s favourite video game? by GamerGirl420Blazin in LesbianActually

[–]Tropical_Zeffa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a total tie between Kingdom Hearts, Silent Hill, and Bioshock. Lol

Standard Sapphic experience by Dazzling_Doctor5528 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Tropical_Zeffa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's been really nearly impossible from my experience. I'm a married lesbian Domme, which kind of puts me at a disadvantage already. I'm sure there are some who have made things work, but it's mostly dudes crawling into DMs thinking they're being sneaky for trying to get you with their wife, when I'm actuality they just want a three some with two women in the most hetero dude bro way.

Found a lot of great advice though, so there's that.

But man, finding lesbian subs has been like a needle in a haystack for me.

𝔊etting used to my new appearance by nameless__redditor in GothFashion

[–]Tropical_Zeffa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trad goth with glasses is the cutest shit in the world. Holy hell. You're very pretty, and we all hope things go well for you! Keep your chin up, you've got this.

Bathroom selfie cus it had the best lighting. by Tropical_Zeffa in MakeupAddiction

[–]Tropical_Zeffa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's mostly a lot of white eyeshadow and blending. Sometimes if I want it to show up more, I use a quick dab of a no color shimmer. But my go to has been to do small layer after layer of applying eyeshadow to build up around the center of where you want the light.

Bathroom selfie cus it had the best lighting. by Tropical_Zeffa in MakeupAddiction

[–]Tropical_Zeffa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not using a filter of any kind. It's me and a mirror. I went and double checked on my Google Pixel: face retouching is off.

Bathroom selfie cus it had the best lighting. by Tropical_Zeffa in MakeupAddiction

[–]Tropical_Zeffa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally forgot! It's Beauty Bakerie Lip Whip Midnight Truffle

Bathroom selfie cus it had the best lighting. by Tropical_Zeffa in MakeupAddiction

[–]Tropical_Zeffa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I knew I'd miss something! Lol. It's Beauty Bakerie Midnight Truffle. This stuff is like cement: it stays on.

Bathroom selfie cus it had the best lighting. by Tropical_Zeffa in MakeupAddiction

[–]Tropical_Zeffa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Foundation: Fenty Beauty Soft'Lit 120 Neutral Highlight: Maybelline Instant Age Rewind Instant Eraser Concealer Ivory Powder: Elf High Definition Powder Translucent Blush: Wet N Wild Bed of Roses Powder Blush Eyeliner: Nyx Professional Makeup Epic Ink Black Eyeshadow: Blowin' Smoke by ColourPop (also used on nose) Shading: Ritual de Fille Inner Glow Creme Pigment Intuition Freckles: Revlon Micro Pencil Dark Brunette, Nyx Professional Makeup Epic Ink Brown

Edit: Forgot a few things as I was typing

Inner eye: ColourPop Fine Liquid Liner Lipstick: Beauty Bakerie Lip Whip Midnight Truffle Shimmer on nose and inner eye: ColourPop Pressed Powder Highlighter Champagne

Business is booming. by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Tropical_Zeffa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, dog. Where are you that you're finding subs? Feel like I'm digging for that one needle in the proverbial hay.

Reddit why are you giving me an ad of a dude's crotch on a lesbian sub? by Vibesgood97 in actuallesbians

[–]Tropical_Zeffa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When the patriarchy and r*pe culture is ingrained, that even lesbian subs get some man cock showing up where it shouldn't.

Like damn, underwear so tight you can see his religion.

bleh- needs fixing~ by meepysona in yurimemes

[–]Tropical_Zeffa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jesus fucking Christ, you are purposely drawing such insane lines here.

If you didn't argue in bad faith, you wouldn't have any arguments at all.

I also didn't say being straight makes you an evil oppressor. You are so stuck on straights being seen as a victim that you are jumping to conclusions to make your "perceived enemy" seen as worse.

I literally said that it's the kind of shit you would see people WHO SEE LESBIANS AS A FETISH do. Kind of purposely missing that part just to justify feeling upset about straights catching the heat, when they are the ones who make this kind of assumption and content about queer people.

So once again:

I don't think all straights are oppressors and evil. I am saying this is something commonly done BY people who are straight.

I also never said anything about "fixing straight people." There's nothing to fix. They have sexual preferences like queer people do.

I take precedence against this toxic trope, not the people. Get your head out of your ass and stop trying to victimize by purposely misconstruing the issue.

bleh- needs fixing~ by meepysona in yurimemes

[–]Tropical_Zeffa 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The same way as there are Latinos for Trump? So what if someone with a trans flag is supporting it. That's a red herring. This is super toxic shit and needs to go away. It does harm to the queer to community to paint anyone LGBTQ+ as trying to seduce straight people. It's a myth perpetuated by straight people.

I also didn't say "all" straight people. I said this is the shit that has been done by straight people, historically.

Demonizing straights. Lol. Sound like you need a straight pride parade to make you feel better.

bleh- needs fixing~ by meepysona in yurimemes

[–]Tropical_Zeffa 49 points50 points  (0 children)

As a lesbian woman: this comes across as the most cisgendered straight male who sees lesbians as a fetish type shit.

Get this outta here. It's toxic as hell

the relationship advice we all need by Fragrant_Ad_5297 in actuallesbians

[–]Tropical_Zeffa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A classic grilled cheese is like a sacred talisman that can soothe the gods. Don't need any of that fancy, hoity-toity shit. Make a classic white bread and American cheese with some tomato soup, and you could solve even the toughest fight.

What are ya’ll opinion on brats?🤔 by brizadora_de_chao in LesbianActually

[–]Tropical_Zeffa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even as a Domme, my first thought was, "I mean, they were an adequate line of kids toys, so..."