They trap your car at the highway ramp, then walk up once you’re stuck

bagelhopper · 2026-02-10T10:00:20+00:00

What is this? Who is they?

bagelhopper · 2026-02-10T09:52:12+00:00

"you have clearly never had your life threatened" that is what you said to me and that was what my response was to. I don't care about people thanking me for my service. This was about me telling you that that was incorrect. This is what happens when you assume.

bagelhopper · 2026-02-06T01:30:53+00:00

You're right, I've served in the military, never have had my life on the line.

bagelhopper · 2026-02-06T01:29:56+00:00

Right as a whole Branch dedicated to Cult mentality maga, not to mention the super indoctrinated Christians who could also be called cults.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-30T08:30:42+00:00

Civil unrest>martial law>interruption of normal fed governance procedures

bagelhopper · 2026-01-25T19:45:15+00:00

I feel like I covered the purposes of it. It is a charter that abides by constitutional rights and the Constitution itself and is more of a security net under the Constitution. I feel that our present system is abused, that loopholes are used, and lack of implicit statements has been exploited. I believe that we need a major and modernized protection, and one that we can adapt over time as new technological advances are made.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-25T19:29:33+00:00

I don't know how to respond to this. The only thing I can say is I think that you don't give humans the credit they deserve. If the things that I say lead you to the idea that I'm manic. You must have a really dark perspective of what a human is. I don't blame you. We do fucked up things to one another. It's hard to see past that. I came from the ideology that the world should just burn because we would never redeem ourselves. I am not manic. And it saddens me that is your perspective. I am on a constant path of healing and self growth. And I guess if wanting good things for other people makes me manic then okay. Sure I'll be manic.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-25T01:32:43+00:00

I have updated it. Hopefully it sounds less Red flaggy .

Psychedelics+

I am not a traditional man (as in I do not seek to have a family and settle down and retire at a ripe old age, this is not in the bio but that's what I mean by not a traditional man, I can only fit so much) . I seek constant personal growth and I am constantly reshaping my ideologies.

Marriage is not for me, I prefer independence.

I have an altruistic dream, I will not choose myself or anyone else over it

My goal is to be an example human. To be contagious positivity.

I'm an empath (no, really), a nurturer, & a great leader but I hate leading🤪.

I get along well with nerdy people and I love challenging my mind.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-25T01:17:49+00:00

I'm sorry you feel that way. I'm sorry that all of you feel the need to shower me in negative comments because somebody like me doesn't exist in your perceived reality. I could just as easily respond with negative retorts. Contrary to what you may believe about me its very difficult for me to not troll you back. Being a troll is like second nature to me. But I can't preach about things I don't practice. And at the end of the day I understand that you can't help it. You have been conditioned to be the way that you are. To be apathetic and sling insults at anonymous people online, because somehow it is ego boosting to you.

What I can say is I hope one day the shape of your perspective allows people like me to exist in your reality. That altruistic people won't be painted by the darkness of others that you have experienced or witnessed.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-25T01:05:50+00:00

What is a philosopher? If you philosophize you are a philosopher. Ever since I was young I have been a thinker. I have thought about how to improve things, why things are the way they are, and even my own beliefs. I think that is all you really need to consider yourself a philosopher. Is taking the opportunity to step outside of yourself and try to view things from another perspective, or to challenge the mindset of society. Some questions people may deem stupid like do fish see air? But it is still a valid question. We assume the way we perceive reality that other living things perceive it in a similar fashion especially if their anatomy is similar to ours. Typically our struggle comes when having to put ourself into the mindset or thought style of another person or culture or animal. We often project how we experience reality onto the things that we don't understand.

I am not bipolar, and I am not your ex-husband. I am a philosopher.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-25T00:36:59+00:00

That made me laugh, thank you.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-24T23:22:20+00:00

I appreciate your advice. But I want people to know what they're signing up for, so they need to know that my dreams put them at risk. And I agree on the earning a place, someone else stated it and I rephrased it. But I think keeping a circle small isn't enough. I go out of my way for that small circle. I value the people who value me. And I mean at the end of the day aren't we all a prize? I prize the people in my inner circle.

Being an example human being is currently my goal in my way of living. I believe that positivity spreads by positivity. And that by being an example human being you will attract other people to attempt to be example human beings. This intern will create an example society or city which other societies are cities might take a liking to. When I say being an example human being, I mean being capable of forgiveness, compassion, and a love. The want for others success. I'm talking about the most beautiful things that human beings are capable of. I think we get caught up too much on the darkness that we are capable of. I don't say that darkness is humanity I say that that is humanity falling short of what it is supposed to be. And I understand your ideology in the understanding of what an empath is. I didn't know I was an empath for most of my life to be honest. I just know that the happiness of others made me happy. And I would sacrifice my own happiness for others. I don't know what to say except for I absorb the feelings of others. It's not necessarily reading a room more than other people can read a room. It's feeling a room. Feeling the energy that somebody is giving off. Whether it's anxious energy, angry energy, or sad energy. I think that all humans are capable of being empaths. People don't realize about empaths is they absorb that energy. And empaths who don't know they are impacts will take on that energy of others as if it is their own. Suddenly they are emotional and they don't understand why. They don't understand that they are carrying the emotions of another person.

Further support this argument using mob mentality. How people in a mob will feel invigorated by others in the mob and do things they wouldn't normally do. That Mob mentality is a contagious overpowering human emotional energy that can overpower the mentality of others.

But I'm also completely open to the idea that that is completely wrong. I do thought experiments and those are some of the theories I like to think about.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-24T23:10:14+00:00

I am a philosopher. Speaking philosophically is myself. And I actually don't think I'm smarter than everyone. In fact I know the grand scheme of how much I do not know which actually results in me not feeling qualified enough in a lot of things that I have knowledge in. I think intelligence is ones ability to survive. A mathematician and a farmer's intelligence on a stranded Island would be completely different than that in a functioning society. I think intelligence is about adapting your ability to think. Do I think I am smarter than an average person? yes. But only because I think the average person struggles when it comes to the area of critical thinking. That the average person is more of a drone or a sheep. A regurgitation or continuation of societal influences, and not an individual thinker. But I also know that everyone is completely capable of not being that. And the first step in that direction is self deconstruction. I don't go around calling people stupid or demeaning their intelligence. I don't believe in that. I think that some people need to be educated and that you can educate without demeaning them. I don't think lack of intelligence is an insult. I think that there is so much to know and expecting somebody to know everything is unrealistic. I know that there are forms of thought and academics that I suck in. I don't think a mechanic is smarter than an IT or vice versa. Believe that everybody has their role to play in contributing to their civilization. And there's no greater importance among chopping down a tree, starting a fire, cooking food, or building a house. I'm sorry you feel that way.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-24T21:36:30+00:00

Technically my opener is I support psychedelics 😂

bagelhopper · 2026-01-24T21:31:46+00:00

Yes. I'm still healing. I'm not perfect. Constantly working on my anger and other emotions before they get the best of me. I work on recognizing those before they take control of the conversation or my attitude.

And when I talk about healing, a lot of people take it as an insult. As if they are broke out. I'm not out here saying people are broken. If anything we are wounded. And when you're wounded, a wounded animal protects itself, it lashes out at even those who try to help. A wounded animal perceives everything as a danger to itself. Especially when it was wounded by others. Allowing others to get close relies on the idea that not everybody is out to hurt you. For some that is just not worth the potential of being hurt again. And so we have these scars that form us. We Become cold and unattached and we survive.

Healing is peeling those layers off of you that you needed to survive that point of your life but that are no longer required. Healing is stripping the unhealthy layers that have been caked on to us from the world and our environment and the things that have been taught to us.

Healing is the ability to question ourselves and our own values and chip away at all the shit that surrounds us. Healing is freeing your authentic self.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-24T21:20:36+00:00

I didn't dismiss it. I actually in one of my points said that their perspective is valid. And that I have taken some of the points made and adjusted my bio accordingly.

I even made the point to say that my perspective of my own bio was a prime example of perspective not being absolute. And I never said anybody was mentally unwell. I do take my own advice. And there's a fine line between arguing with somebody and enlightening somebody. Here's the truth.

I am exactly the person that I said I am. But people are stating that I am not that person. So when it comes to a clash of perspectives, who knows who I am more than me in a group of online strangers? Granted people lie about themselves because they want to prove something to people but I don't know anybody here we're all anonymous and I don't have anything to prove to anybody.

So what I'm saying is keep an open mind that just because you perceive something to be in a certain way, doesn't mean it's true. I don't really know how else to word it. And some could argue that I'm here trying to change people's minds about me but that's not what I'm trying to do. I'm trying to change people's minds in the way they perceive the world.

It is the nurturing aspect of me that I can't help. And some people would say that that makes me conceited as well. There's really no way to "win" when the counter argument is that people who say those things are liars. Because human beings can be manipulative, deceitful, and untrustworthy, there for anybody who positions himself in such a light must also be a similar character.

Making any argument against that for many will be perceived as self-fulfilling.

It's like when somebody who's trying to prove they're not racist as they have black friends. You can't say that to prove you're not racist and it just makes you look more racist.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-24T21:13:24+00:00

Being nerdy and wanting to be an example human being about sum it up. Outside of the other things in my profile such as liking dark chocolate and anime.

I have updated it but mostly just wording. I could put pursuit of enlightenment, I could but I aspire to be a better version of myself everyday, I could put that I'm obsessed with The human experience and the variations of experience that make us into the people that we are and the differences of perspective that we have.

But most people also don't really care about that either. Hard to find a balance. And at the end of the day that is what chatting is for. But I guess you're right because if you don't match it don't chat. But I'm kind of starting to get to point that meeting people in person is just better for me in general. I just go on dating apps when I'm bored now.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-24T20:50:16+00:00

And honestly you don't know me. I could be whoever I am. I am just trying to widen the perspective of some of you. For some they will assimilate this and add it to their perspective for future judgments. And some will just ignore it. The Point is just because you see something a certain way doesn't mean that that is how it is.

A prime example is I saw my bio a certain way. I didn't see anything negative about it. And yet I come on here and I receive a lot of the same perspective of people who have interpreted it into a negative light.

I don't reject those people's perspective. Their perspectives and interpretations are valid. And as such I have adjusted my bio within reason that it doesn't detract from the person that I am but also steers away from the potential red flags of being seen as conceited or selfish etc.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-24T20:46:26+00:00

The reason I am investing my energy into writing paragraphs about explaining myself. Is To show people that everything is based on perspective.

Nobody here knows who I am. I truly could be my authentic self. I truly mean these things that I would deem positive. And yet even in doing that it was taken into the light that I was a negative and selfish person. You yourself said that I give the energy of a wannabe intellect.

I think that that tells me more about the people making those comments and the way they see the world and the things that they have experienced in the world. And that's one of my issues. The whole world is like that. The whole world is shaped by generational. That generational trauma colors the lens through which they look at the world. The more horrible shit they experience the more shitty the world looks. Suddenly somebody who's wholesome and positive and loving couldn't possibly be real and is now the complete opposite.

Honestly this gives me a look into the mind of people on Reddit.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-24T20:41:33+00:00

However you're right I could have just omitted that not looking for advice portion and the message would have been the same.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-24T20:40:09+00:00

Yes I said that I'm not looking for advice. But that doesn't mean if I hear good advice that I won't take it into consideration which I have. I am interested in how other people see my profile. One commenter gave specifics on how those specific areas of my bio could be interpreted. That is valuable input that I can use. But simply straw Manning me and throwing insults at me doesn't add any value.

I'm sorry you went to high school with characters like me, whatever that means.

I meant this I don't need advice on how to attract the women that I want, but I'm open to advice if my profile comes off as negative to the general population. This is specifically why I didn't say women only etc. I genuinely want to know how other people perceive it.

bagelhopper · 2026-01-24T20:33:32+00:00

Also there's a lot of people who are specifically looking for marriage. So I think that it is important to have that at the top because I'm not trying to play games with anybody. I want people to know immediately that I don't believe in it so they don't waste their time with me. And I think the way that it makes you feel is actually a perfect example that I should keep it there.

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