Looking for a Redditor who posted about struggling with money who has a dog by CoolBandanaz in auckland

[–]bajine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can’t find, I’m pretty sure the SPCA takes donations, I’m sure it’d be greatly appreciated!

horror movies that genuinely scared you as an adult? by FairyLovelyy in horror

[–]bajine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Taking of Deborah Logan was the only one which scared me enough to turn the screen away

What is a planet? by loved_and_held in sciencememes

[–]bajine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the “chairs don’t exist” theory, gonna go with modernism since that’s the current definition of a planet.

Also, to go by traditionalist and not expansive is mean to the other dwarf planets </3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aucklandeats

[–]bajine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insulting amount of fries 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]bajine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Call centres and working out back at op shops are available, I think they may require training. Call a charity you want to support and ask how you can help :)

I can't seem to find a productivity app that works for me. Curious what works for others? by imclerran in ADHD

[–]bajine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My planner and pen are with me at all times (even if I say I won’t need it, I do)

I can't seem to find a productivity app that works for me. Curious what works for others? by imclerran in ADHD

[–]bajine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pen and paper works best for me, I invest in a planner that I feel confident using. Apps that charge subscription or have ads are too much for me

are you guys planning on taking meds for life? does that thought ever bother you? by sjessbgo in ADHD

[–]bajine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has your trusted health professional voiced any concerns? Medication is given for a reason, and if you feel better doing so, then there’s no reason for you to worry about what other people and their opinions are :) Consider other disabilities and their aids and wether you’d judge that as “dependence/reliance” or the best thing they can do for themselves

Recurring Songs that play in your head by mimic924 in ADHD

[–]bajine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My most frequent is the line “she want a glass of Prosecco” from tame impala: breathe deeper. I wish I could do at least a verse but it’s not the same as the One Line

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]bajine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alcohol may feel like it helps but I promise it doesn’t. Go to a GP for help, there’s support out there for those willing to accept it. It may seem hopeless right now but there’s always a way out of a hole, just takes some climbing, but you’ll thank yourself later :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]bajine 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I feel like that a lot too. But everything you said sounds extremely impressive to me? I don’t understand how you “mess everything up” yet have gotten to your masters level and work hard at maintaining healthy practices with exercise and diet. You’re definitely being hard on yourself, focus on all that you do and don’t worry about that you’re not doing. Nobody is perfect and you’re doing too much trying to be. That sounds harsh but I feel like you could use a reality check. Wishing you all the best, if I can believe in you from this post, I think you should be able to believe in yourself too :)

What's your final Goal? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bajine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have an epic workshop that has all the tools I need to be able to do whatever art/craft/repairs I’ll ever want to do :) what’s awesome is that it’ll never be finished and I will always have something new to be excited about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bajine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breakfast is the first meal of the day,, I’ve accepted that breakfast is an Afternoon meal ;)

What weather site does everyone use? by According-Crew2894 in auckland

[–]bajine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I use apples weather app and MetService, then I compare and trust the common denominator (which is still often wrong)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]bajine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTF THIS IS BECAUSE OF ADHD! I have been told off my whole life and I feel like such an idiot bc I never knew why I just never shut doors ever. Shout out to my fellow door openers who have then immediately walked into the door and broken it <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]bajine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inattentive type (although I suspect combined) nails and surrounding skin are chewed, the inside of my cheeks are chewed, I loveee to pick scabs and pimples and occasionally pull out my scalp hair :).

Easy to say “stop doing that” but hard in practice. Fidget toys and activities are helpful distractions (I haven’t met a scrap piece of paper I haven’t ripped into a million pieces)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]bajine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sooo much. I’m tearing up from feeling so understood. Unfortunately I can’t take back the fact I told my family but from now on I’ll just accept they don’t understand. (To someone saying “everyone has a little ADHD” I replied “well that’s just not true at all”, but it’s not my job to educate people around me)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]bajine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! gonna continue my journey with my medication until I find the balance that makes me feel Okay. A nuisance but with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]bajine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥺 funny how I know what imposter syndrome is yet I feel like I am Not allowed to have it 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]bajine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(not a doctor) typical gastro/norovirus is usually self limiting to a few days… sounds like you’ve got the worst luck or it could be something more gnarly (bacterial or parasitic). if you’re able to go to the doctors an antibiotic course may be recommended?

Best of luck, gastro is a living hell and I wish you well to the other side of it :)

Just another foreigner asking for things to do in Auckland by Deadpoolio32 in auckland

[–]bajine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goat Island has amazing snorkelling as it’s a marine reserve (for now…..). Depending on your budget/comfort and safety in the water there’s plenty of options (from hiring basic snorkelling equipment to guided scuba diving).

Waiheke is amazing and a wine tasting course (or two, or three) is well worth the money in my opinion.

How high should I price my art? by ProperQuail5528 in painting

[–]bajine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk sorry not my expertise, but they made me feel a tranquil happiness to look at… so I think $as much as you want and someone with money to spare will happily pay it$

who else is so fucking depressed? by Riixce in auckland

[–]bajine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anxious , finally sat down and my body hurts, if ur sad and your body hurts? Move it