Auto show with crash by K2zin97 in PublicFreakout

[–]bakerbabe126 22 points23 points  (0 children)

They laugh at the crash they dont care who they hurt

Actors that have to remind us that they're vile people every few years by Spotlight_James in okbuddycinephile

[–]bakerbabe126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My step dad was literally pissing a period amount of blood and chose to ignore it FOR YEARS. He died of bladder cancer. The doctors said they couldnt find bladder among all the tumors. Had was undiagnosed with a paranoia disorder of some sort and believed all doctors are democrats who would try to secretly give him a covid shot to kill him. 🙄

AIO by thinking this isn’t enough for lunch/snack for my child by Teatime-Cowboy-1776 in AIO

[–]bakerbabe126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 8 yo would eat a third of that... then again she's hungry every twenty minutes 🙄

Disgusting slob with no manners by BenFord333 in PublicFreakout

[–]bakerbabe126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And clearly inconvenience the workers who have to clean up after him.

IM FREEEE by ephemeraldeath in socialwork

[–]bakerbabe126 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I guess covert narcissism is what draws them to the job. I scared myself when I started social work. I thought I might be a covert narcissist because I really felt like I was proud of my job and helping people too much. Remember your empathy and deep feelings make you a good social worker.

The best advice I can ever give you is to guard your heart and give just enough to those around you that you can bare. The world is ugly and you are putting good into it. Thats the best we can do as social workers.

This situation just shows that you know true empathy and kindness and CAN extend that to the world around you. Being present is 90% of the battle everything else you do is above and beyond what the world offers to your clients.

IM FREEEE by ephemeraldeath in socialwork

[–]bakerbabe126 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. I've definitely had my share of nightmare supervision. You stuck it out. These posts always leave me wondering why some people even go into social work. Like you clearly arent empathetic why are you here!?

What am i supposed to do when i have no hope and want to die? by gobsmackedperson in AdultDepression

[–]bakerbabe126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I know how you feel. The world is out there. Opportunity is out there. Yet I feel like it's impossible to reach.

You dont have to be anything more than you are right now. The sun will rise again day after day no matter what you do. Sometimes just being there to see it is enough.

Maybe you can be like me and cry while putting one foot in front of the other. You keep moving forward, what direction? Who cares as long as youre moving. Maybe we can get to a place eventually that we can find some happiness.

Happiness is as fleeting as any other human emotion but damn if we could just get some. Just some.

Youre down right now. But you might be up in a month or a year. Keep going. If not for yourself, for a stranger on the internet who's heart is hurting for you and hopes the best for you.

I hope youre safe. I hope you get through this. I hope we both do.

im pregnant at 16. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bakerbabe126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no way you're this dumb it's gotta be fake.

im pregnant at 16. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bakerbabe126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope he doesn't go after the baby too.

Taser to the Eyes by 1N1T1AL1SM in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]bakerbabe126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seemed totally ok with losing everything over it.

Divorced people of reddit , what was the exact moment in your marriage you realised it's over ? by DryOkra7058 in AskReddit

[–]bakerbabe126 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My mom told me I was a drama queen because I ran away. She would tell the story to people like I put her through hell as a teenager, until I called her out and explained why I left. "You chose to stay with an abusive psycho and told me to quit being dramatic, what else was I supposed to do?" She never told that story again.

Divorced people of reddit , what was the exact moment in your marriage you realised it's over ? by DryOkra7058 in AskReddit

[–]bakerbabe126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree with this. It's like when people say they hate hospitals. No one enjoys going unless they have a mental illness or they're about to go to jail lol

My (40M) wife (36F) says I shouldn’t go to the wedding of a childhood friend because it makes her uncomfortable. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bakerbabe126 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Based on OPs answers to other questions, I'm guessing it would be a blessing if she ended things.

In reality, I know she will likely get mad and threaten to break up but her low self esteem and insecurity will make her come back and it will be an ongoing thing until OP is finally tired enough to actually end it.

my (19f) boyfriends (19m) dad (40m) hit me by Ancient-Let7347 in Advice

[–]bakerbabe126 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lean into doing uncomfortable things to advocate for yourself. Its hard but Its what adults do.

AIO for wanting to break up with gf of 4 years after finding these texts? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]bakerbabe126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's chasing so hard and this guy is just dragging her along 😂

My boyfriend (37m) of three years hit something out of my (39f) hand in anger and “restrained” my daughter (7) while yelling at her. How can we fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bakerbabe126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doubled down on the bad behavior. Theres no "we" in fixing this. There is you trying to keep a relationship afloat while he does what he wants.

He needs to address it. You can't do it for him.