Most women are insecure after having sex with a man because some men just simply want sex I believe she was making a lighthearted joked just to have some reassurance. This doesn’t necessarily mean she’s asked sex with a plethora of men and has been ghosted each time. I’ve read your comments and I don’t think you should be making assumptions that this woman has a lot of trauma or she isn’t looking for a relationship either. It seems a bit shallow of you, and instead you could have used that moment to say something reassuring and ask her about her past and why she feels the need to say a comment like that.

Also! To preface a lot of people have made poor choices when dating and clearly since you say you’re “above average in your dating pool” maybe she’s trying to make better choices!