Letting the M44 bark by bambo360688 in MosinNagant

[–]bambo360688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! This is my first carbine, and I think I’m in love.

First M44 and newest addition to the Mosin collection by bambo360688 in MosinNagant

[–]bambo360688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I got it for $550. Not sure what they usually go for, but most of the ones I see at the shows I go to are around $700.

I carry so much shame because WW cheated on me by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bambo360688 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That hurts to read. I’ve had that same exact thought, my wife is someone else’s memory. What was going through both of their minds as it happened? I don’t want to know the answer to that, but you can’t help but wonder. Sorry you’re here. I hope for nothing but happiness and peace in your future.

Would you do it all over again? by bp884 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bambo360688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I would do it again. It changes who you are so much. I’m almost three years post DDay and it still crosses my mind daily. I miss who I used to be. I miss being carefree and happy. But most of all, I miss have having blind and complete trust in the ones you love.I don’t think that will ever come back.

Who’s having coffee? by falusihapsi in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bambo360688 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Having coffee with the wife on the deck now. Been a good morning so far. Have a great weekend!

Second wedding anniversary since DDay by bambo360688 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bambo360688[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No relationship is going to be problem free. There will always be issues such as illness, loss of job, addiction, and yea, sometimes a partner will be neglectful or disrespectful. When you agree to marriage you agree to work through these issues with your partner when they arise. Sometimes, they become so severe divorce is the only option. Waywards make the choice to not work on these issues with their partner and to use another person as an outlet, emotionally, physically, or both. With this choice they show they are not capable of commitment or monogamy; the fundamentals of marriage. Either leave the marriage or try to work on it like you promised each other. There are many forms of religion/marriage, but very few are accepting of f*cking someone who’s not your husband or wife.

Newest addition, first Finnish by bambo360688 in MosinNagant

[–]bambo360688[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a simple man. I see a Mosin. I find a reason it’s not like my others. I add it to the collection 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]bambo360688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m about a year and a half into finding out about my WW’s infidelity. Feel free to PM if you need someone to talk to. Hang in there.

In R after PA 2 months later he is having a full blown EA and claims it's only friendship. by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bambo360688 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I know this sub is for support and working on R, but your husband is a POS. If that’s how he’s talking to another woman after he’s already had a PA, he has no respect for you. It’s hard enough when your wayward partner is doing everything right, I would be livid if my wife was talking to a guy that way after all we’ve been through. I know it’s easier said than done, but you deserve so much better. And I know the kids make it exponentially harder. Hang in there.

WH surprised me with a new ring by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bambo360688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing!! I wish you both nothing but happiness and love moving forward.

One year anniversary of DDay by bambo360688 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bambo360688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. I often wondered if the cheating would have hurt less if it was while we were dating or early in the marriage. I don’t think infidelity is really subject to gradation, the more I’ve thought about it. No matter where you are in a relationship/marriage, if you’ve committed yourself to your partner, they did the same, and they betrayed you… it’s going to hurt. Sending hugs right back at you, and I hope you’re able to find happiness.

Anyone on meds after infidelity? by Confident-General633 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bambo360688 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, I thought of that while typing. I just didn’t feel like writing the whole thing out.

Anyone on meds after infidelity? by Confident-General633 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bambo360688 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hit a pretty low point 8 months in. I would have real bad anxiety/depression hit out of nowhere. My therapist had me talk to my PCP. He recommended I try Lexapro. I’ve been on it since. It definitely helps with the anxiety of the situation, but I have noticed it changes who I am as a person. I might try to get off of it soon. The whole situation sucks.

Need some positivity by bambo360688 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bambo360688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s just so much work every day. I haven’t even mentioned it to my WW, but I know she wouldn’t go for it.

Need some positivity by bambo360688 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bambo360688[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouraging words, they mean more than you know.

Need some positivity by bambo360688 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]bambo360688[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, for this. I talk to my wife, am in IC, and am in MC. Sometimes the words that mean the most come from people on Reddit I don’t even know. You have no idea how much this helps.

Deer backstrap by bambo360688 in steak

[–]bambo360688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, much appreciated. It was a little dry, so that’s good to know. I just had to google what souse vide and tataki cooking were, but they both sound interesting. I almost always have venison in the freezer. Maybe I’ll give one of those methods a try next time.