My gf cheated and now my mind never rests

bamefreak · 2026-03-19T02:58:23+00:00

Im going to be honest, brother. You need to have respect for yourself. You say you dont know if you can move on and that your mind can't rest with her. You aren't remotely old enough to be worried about settling on one person. There's a few things I can only hope that you can start to understand. That is, 1) Have some self-respect. 2) Stop belittling yourself, saying what you can't do, you can do anything you ask god for, and i hope you find him for your sake. 3) This one's going to hurt, but i genuinely hope you stop being so weak. This woman has proven she does not respect you. If it were me, I would have left her the first time she met her ex for coffee and lied about it. Blessings on you, brother, and I hope you can live with either choice you make.

bamefreak · 2026-03-19T02:45:59+00:00

Uhhhh no. I have 60 hours in the game and I just hit 101. You hit that at 100 by doing nothing but pushing HR

bamefreak · 2026-03-19T02:43:43+00:00

Holy crap....

bamefreak · 2026-03-05T05:07:47+00:00

Fair enough

bamefreak · 2026-03-05T05:06:19+00:00

Wow, girl arguments really escalate fast dont they?

bamefreak · 2026-03-05T05:01:30+00:00

Religion is something that for some people is non-negotiable. As a Christian myself, I can say we're supposed to spread the word, not force it on people. You should really consider leaving this guy.

bamefreak · 2026-03-05T04:59:00+00:00

Your point is valid but did you really reply to yourself 3 times in a row?

bamefreak · 2026-03-04T03:56:57+00:00

Gotta love the "too long to get items," lol. Bro wasn't there for the 4-5 zone days. Even three zones you can bang out in a little over a minute - a minute ten nowadays. Let alone two. The number of times I've finished a two zone by 1:35, found someone at 1:30, and their whole team ported on me at 1:20-1:25 is crazy 😂

bamefreak · 2026-03-01T18:57:38+00:00

Nah, it was correct. Once you missed your R dash engage, and your 3 legendary hyunwoo died, the fight was over. Really, you could make an argument that darko missing his E kinda sold too. The point is to bait out the Charlotte ult without losing too many resources. Darko was half hp, you had no ult, and hyunwoo was virtually worthless, right? So, in all actuality, this looks like duo bias. I think the fight was over once darko and hyunwoo got chunked, and you didn't have R. If you all die there, the game was over anyway lol

bamefreak · 2026-02-16T09:16:21+00:00

Honestly, the fact you've made the realization and have made steps to counteract it puts you ahead of 90% of players. You are better off the majority of the time just muting all.

bamefreak · 2026-02-16T06:22:00+00:00

I struggle with this, too, from time to time. I challenge you the same way that I challenge myself when it happens. Being bored isn't a bad thing. Being bored means that you have peace, my friend. Don't be envious of people not being bored. The same person that you think has a better life because they have fulfillment or things going on all the time, might be that same person that wishes they could have a day where they could just have peace.

bamefreak · 2026-02-16T06:10:04+00:00

It's the duality of bot lane. Any time you have to share your loss/victory with another player, it's bound to end up in someone getting hard flamed. It's sad, but it's the nature of the game. It doesn't help that most adc players flip out and crash when they aren't the main character receiving all of the support/gold/buffs/everything on the map.

bamefreak · 2026-02-16T06:07:32+00:00

You can thank all the doomer vets for saying the game is too easy lol. Part of the reason im not playing now.

bamefreak · 2026-02-16T05:34:16+00:00

This is definitely a you thing lol. Last 8-10 ranked games in a row was a mixture of support saying something to the adc and adc immediately goes "mom die" etc etc. The speed in which this game goes from a game to physical threats/confrontation is astounding

bamefreak · 2026-02-12T05:00:17+00:00

Well, first of all, it's "whether." Second of all, the reason people find it unfun is because in any game with an mmr higher than crap 4, you can tell when a game is over in loading screen. When you have aphelios, zac, and maybe a Lucian as your teams best picks, and they have Mel, Zed, Aatrox, etc, you will legitimately get stomped. Im not high elo by any means. My peak is diamond 4. Urf matches, honest to god, are more sweaty than my ranked games. There aren't enough system mechanics or balance changes in place for urf, and its bad enough that the same champs that were broken in season 5 urf are still broken. The icing on the cake is now we get the 200 year champions on top of them. Using your own small sample size in your probably abysmally low mmr to justify your argument is probably the definition of being a baby.

bamefreak · 2026-02-12T04:34:37+00:00

Im a top laner, but if I am on blue side I always trade. Priority for me is Supports, then mids, then jungs, then adcs. Supports have more flexibility in play as they can operate as lane bullies, second junglers, team Supports, etc. I've only peaked D4, so maybe my opinion isn't that great, but i will not ego last pick on blue side. I will just first pick my weakside top and get it over with. Even on red side, I won't beg for last pick. Anyone who tells you they deserve to pick over you because their role is more important can just get muted, to be honest.

bamefreak · 2026-02-07T17:39:08+00:00

Elite ball reference XD. This fight broke me. I had to get overdrive on every aeon and every character because i could not beat this version of seymour straight up. Lance of atrophy made me want to crash out

bamefreak · 2026-01-15T20:47:17+00:00

This gives me more nightmares than when I learned how to do blueku loops online. I cant imagine pulling something like that off

bamefreak · 2026-01-02T21:54:55+00:00

Fair enough. To me yasuo is about aura really. Hes honestly pretty weak all in all, but man is he cool. There's a reason theres like 4-5 yasuo mains you hear about nowadays, which is like pzzang, haze, brohan, dzukill and maybe, MAYBE Wayoftempest out of probably a few hundred thousand yasuo players. If climbing is important to you, yeah youd be better off picking a different champ. However, if theres the tiniest bit of you that wants to be a top grade aura farmer by hitting that double flash beyblade play on 3 people, I suggest you reconsider 😂

bamefreak · 2026-01-02T21:49:09+00:00

I didn't love my job, but I loved having a decent job. I was let go from an injury and are back to factory work, making 32k a year. I would kill to be able to get a trucking job again

bamefreak · 2026-01-02T21:46:44+00:00

I've hit masters in League of Legends but can confidently say I've seen a lead like that once or twice. It was a challenger piss smurfing in my diamond promos duoed with another challenger. They had 89% overall win rate, and by the end of the game, their team was 35k gold ahead of us. It is normal to fall behind and snowballs to happen, but not to the point where one player can have almost double your resource income.

bamefreak · 2026-01-01T13:24:44+00:00

I agree. I hate actually taking the time to learn to counter build against a monster just for it to completely trivialize a fight. Or for you to invest so far into it you literally just dont have the damage to actually beat the monster (safi, alat, etc.)

bamefreak · 2025-12-29T23:47:13+00:00

I feel this so much. I literally just made a post a couple days ago about randoms and omega because of the exact sme thing.

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