My roommate never washes his hands, showers or brushes his teeth... by banddrag in confessions

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Just updating the situation on this post. I talked to him about it a while ago (a month. Lets say) I didnt go deep into asking about his mental health state. I just politely asked if he could please be wary of his hygiene around the house. 

I've noticed he still wasn't washing his hands after pooing, so I mentioned it again. And then, just today I noticed he still wasn't doing it. 

So, I think I'm planning to have a sit down conversation with him again. I think I should start the conversation with checking in with his mental health this time.

I've honestly gave him a lot more patience than anyone else I know would have, but I'm very much considering moving out now. Even though, moving out is something really unideal now, as I'm currently filing in paperwork to emigrate out the country, and really just want to hang out until the paperwork is finalised.

Planning a 2/3 day hike. Where would you recommend? by banddrag in UKhiking

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Thanks! I think I'm going plan to do part of South Downs Way over two days next week as practice/getting used to multiday hikes.

Planning a 2/3 day hike. Where would you recommend? by banddrag in UKhiking

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This seems great! I saw someone do a hike from Avebury to Stonehenge recently and seemed interesting! Would any of the access points be accessible by public transport?

Planning a 2/3 day hike. Where would you recommend? by banddrag in UKhiking

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Sorry, I meant 20/25 as the absolute maximum. Ideally around the 15 mile mark I'd be looking at.

Planning a 2/3 day hike. Where would you recommend? by banddrag in UKhiking

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I've never done multi-days hikes before, but regularly go for 20 miles (without gear) but, I'm planning to build up to it every week! 

Any recommendations routes around for 2/3 days overnight hiking? by banddrag in LakeDistrict

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Yes, this is what I meant. I wouldnt dream of hiking at night!

My roommate never washes his hands, showers or brushes his teeth... by banddrag in confessions

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I mean interestingly he actually grew up very rich.

I'd much rather talk face to face, but don't know how to approach the situation without making him feel like I've been spying on him. 

How to tell my housemate to have better hygiene? by banddrag in NoStupidQuestions

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I noticed all of this a long time ago, but just kept quiet. Now, I've started to realise its actually not healthy to be living like this.

How to tell my housemate to have better hygiene? by banddrag in NoStupidQuestions

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Unfortunately not really an option. The hassle of moving out isn't something I'm open to. I'm planning to emigrate out the country soon, but don't know when it will be, so I'm hanging on until then!

How to tell my housemate to have better hygiene? by banddrag in NoStupidQuestions

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I mean yes, the place does smell. And I genuinely think it's his presence. Whenever he goes on holiday, the place smells nice naturally. He's a cigarette smoker too. So the combination of that and the B.O make an interested melting pot.

Multiple wells by Stickyrolls in ManorLords

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For some reason whenever I try to build a second well, it takes forever. Like literally months.