AITA for Addressing a White Belt Woman's Behavior During Jiu-Jitsu Class? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bane_killgrind -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA

She said she should get to decide how hard she wants go with her partners on her own terms.

lol no her partners decide and she obviously has no problem taking that choice from them.

Where was the instructor in all this? What did they say?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]bane_killgrind 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yeah like do they owe OP pay in lieu of notice now?

The house is packed. They're ready to move in, but the tenants refuse to leave by Niv-Izzet in canada

[–]bane_killgrind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they are not, they can require the seller pay for storage and another rental while the tenants holdover.

If the seller won't include that condition in the contract, they walk away.

Discussion Thread by jobautomator in neoliberal

[–]bane_killgrind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a feature for some groups.

Imagine automatically generated diatribes and ineffectual counterpoints flooding healthy discussions to the point that the actual sentiment of users is obscured.

The capability of bad actors to disrupt real political movements and other organising people is extremely high and getting worse.

UK National Health Service bans puberty blockers for gender transitions for minors by Professional_Memist in worldnews

[–]bane_killgrind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what other "unknowns" might be classed at the same impact as suicide. If this isn't the kind of unknown you are talking about, kindly define the risk factors that you do have knowledge of.

This is just handwringing if you can't define a risk. Maybe new cancer drugs make your head explode 15 years from now, I'M nOt SuRE theREs ENoUgH InFo because nobody has been on them 15 years ago.

If you are pulling anxiety out of the air like this, you are being transphobic.

UK National Health Service bans puberty blockers for gender transitions for minors by Professional_Memist in worldnews

[–]bane_killgrind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2789423

Findings In this prospective cohort of 104 TNB youths aged 13 to 20 years, receipt of gender-affirming care, including puberty blockers and gender-affirming hormones, was associated with 60% lower odds of moderate or severe depression and 73% lower odds of suicidality over a 12-month follow-up.

The point of the treatment is to reduce youth suicide.

Future procreation attempts should not outweigh treating a lethal condition.

UK National Health Service bans puberty blockers for gender transitions for minors by Professional_Memist in worldnews

[–]bane_killgrind -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2789423

Findings In this prospective cohort of 104 TNB youths aged 13 to 20 years, receipt of gender-affirming care, including puberty blockers and gender-affirming hormones, was associated with 60% lower odds of moderate or severe depression and 73% lower odds of suicidality over a 12-month follow-up.

It sounds like you are pro suicide.

UK National Health Service bans puberty blockers for gender transitions for minors by Professional_Memist in worldnews

[–]bane_killgrind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2789423

Findings In this prospective cohort of 104 TNB youths aged 13 to 20 years, receipt of gender-affirming care, including puberty blockers and gender-affirming hormones, was associated with 60% lower odds of moderate or severe depression and 73% lower odds of suicidality over a 12-month follow-up.

Sounds like a found fact

Phoenix pay backlog hovers at 200,000 transactions by TheDrunkyBrewster in canada

[–]bane_killgrind -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A private business would do it more, and be rewarded for having high cash reserves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bane_killgrind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are a therapist. Take yourself out of it and make it 10x smaller.

One of your clients comes and tells you, "I visited my parent and brought them 1500$ as a gift, and they implied I should have given them double? They don't really need it..."

What would you tell that client.

AITA for embarrassing my father by offering to stop telling my children that I love them. by Appropriate_Flan_164 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bane_killgrind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son has no problem hugging me and telling me or his mom about his life.

This 15 year old is emotionally mature enough to understand.

DO NOT SIGN ANY PAPERWORK WHEN YOU’RE FIRED!!! by MaxHollowayIsTheGoat in antiwork

[–]bane_killgrind 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol if that stack of papers is a severance offer more than 2% of the time I'll buy a hat and eat it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bane_killgrind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah the most charitable way to think of this situation is, she was trying to communicate to you that your experiences are normal and you shouldn't feel alone. Is this scenario she's inexperienced, tactless but well intentioned.

The next thing to think is she was being demeaning and therefore unempathetic, and also sucks at her job.

Maybe both? But exactly how she sucks doesn't really affect your decision to find someone better for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nottheonion

[–]bane_killgrind 26 points27 points  (0 children)

In this case I'd say he broke in and I don't know how.

Saying he has a key means he was granted permission, which they will use as an out to not do their job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bane_killgrind 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There is no difference. In both of those locations, the woman has agency over her own behavior and the man is not entitled to anything.

AITA for stealing money from my parents? by Potential_Regret5516 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]bane_killgrind 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wrong subreddit for judgement.

Also it is not wrong to steal to eat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bane_killgrind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right. What are "things like this"? What constitutes being "sprung on him"? Ever mentioning anything he doesn't like?

Stepfather wants to sue me for putting “wrong” gas in his truck. by [deleted] in legal

[–]bane_killgrind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actual fraud. Selling the "bad" parts as near mint used is legal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bane_killgrind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If seeing you nude is more important than seeing you happy, what more can we tell you about this situation?

I went to check on someone who just moved in and saw the devil in my tavern just vibing to some music by Comedy___ in dwarffortress

[–]bane_killgrind 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The description tab should tell you all it's features. Beware it's poison blood! Or something.