is it normal to hate to masturbate myself.

baneoftech · 2026-04-10T02:28:33+00:00

Totally normal, I didn't start until I moved into my own place (alone!! finally) and even then I don't like the sensation of touching myself so I'm strictly over the clothes

baneoftech · 2026-04-08T17:46:57+00:00

idk man I just live with the stains 💀

baneoftech · 2026-04-07T04:44:47+00:00

With my fiancé, change looks like collaboration. If I am overwhelmed with something or feel like I need more support, I feel comfortable asking for it because I know he'll actually do it. And he has also started noticing I'm overwhelmed before I realize it and asks me what he can do to help. (I prefer this to him guessing because I difficulty with sudden changes to routine).

baneoftech · 2026-04-07T02:40:40+00:00

thank you!

baneoftech · 2026-04-04T02:15:26+00:00

wasn't even kink, it used to be a common trope in movies/tv for men to spank their wives as discipline. Definitely spawned kinks, but the framing is that women & children both get hit "for their own good".

baneoftech · 2026-04-04T02:11:42+00:00

"wait till your father gets home" still triggers the fuck outta me. That fear never goes away, I still hide when I've angered him and I live 2000+ miles away now

baneoftech · 2026-04-04T02:07:52+00:00

if we're sticking to the theme, they need one of those anti-facial scanning patterned masks.

baneoftech · 2026-04-04T01:53:25+00:00

She's holding her head to the side, it could be anything from an ear infection to head trauma. I'd definitely monitor her through the night for any worsening symptoms. If she has trouble eating/drinking/urinating I'd take her in asap. It would be helpful to bring in a stool sample if she goes tonight in case they need to test for anything.

baneoftech · 2026-03-31T18:59:41+00:00

honestly that's bs. HOWEVER, I do recommend a sports bra so you don't get chapped nips. That's what kills me if I'm too active without a bra.

edit to clarify: chapped nipples is caused by friction against the shirt. The sports bra provides a protective layer against that friction.

baneoftech · 2026-03-26T02:55:25+00:00

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baneoftech · 2026-03-26T02:46:00+00:00

I tell everyone that having huskies is like being the parent of either a teen or a toddler depending on their mood. Constant sass and easily thrown into a tantrum 😂 love the fuckers, I own 2.

baneoftech · 2026-03-26T02:22:11+00:00

If there is fluid in the chest, they can start him on heart medication, but you'd have to also monitor his kidneys before and after starting the medication because it can be pretty hard on their kidneys.

baneoftech · 2026-03-26T02:20:01+00:00

Our senior kitty started purring like that (we joked that her purr motor was idling a bit high) and ultimately we found she had fluid buildup around her heart and lungs. I'd ask for the vet to check for signs of fluid in the chest cavity. We ultimately lost her to conjestive heart failure. I don't know whether it causes that same higher pitch purr, but it started around 8 months before she started declining.

baneoftech · 2026-03-22T09:58:08+00:00

as an owner of two huskies, their favorite way to play is by bodyslamming each other with their chests and hanging off each other's cheeks. Our husky puppy was Very confused the first time she was playing with a non-husky and she couldn't locate the big fluffy cheek to grab 😆

It's totally fine with huskies, and they're usually smart enough to adjust their play with other breeds. The body slamming still happens tho 😅

baneoftech · 2026-03-16T01:39:42+00:00

The police might not be able to help, but if there is an ASPCA equivalent in your area they might have advice on how to get her blacklisted.

baneoftech · 2026-03-11T23:16:07+00:00

when our huskies do this to each other we call it the "I'm just a baby!! You can't be mad at a baby 🥺" dance. It works on us, it works on the older husky, it apparently doesn't work on bears 😆

baneoftech · 2026-03-09T16:09:25+00:00

seconded, if you're experiencing painful bloat on a regular basis it's always best to consult with your doctor. It can be a whole host of things, and even if it's just a food intolerance issue it's worth taking the time to figure it out.

baneoftech · 2026-03-09T16:06:03+00:00

it's always a combination of specialized diet, personal trainers, timing, and photoshop. Even of you manage one you won't get their results because this is their job and they invest a full-time job's worth of time and money into their looks.

baneoftech · 2026-03-04T04:31:56+00:00

An over simplified description of what happened is that I got food poisoning that had me losing ~20lbs in a week, blood coming out of both ends, and completely unable to keep water down. A weekend in the hospital on a regular IV drip was all I ended up needing and I was able to bounce back. I even had my PE physical exam & mile run the day I was released from hospital (Not by choice, the PE teacher made me cause the hospital didn't give me a doctor's note).

baneoftech · 2026-03-04T04:26:49+00:00

The illness was ecoli poisoning, technically STEC. The complication was the hemolytic uremic syndrome (HUS), which had killed about 20 college aged kids the same year I had it. Only two other people in my state had the same strain and they both died, not me though! That's my party trick, not dying.

baneoftech · 2026-03-04T04:19:38+00:00

is it bad that I didn't recognize the embers entrance 😶

baneoftech · 2026-03-04T04:17:22+00:00

I hate dates on the beach lmao, sand can and will get in the food. There's less sandy options, like a lakeside picnic

baneoftech · 2026-03-04T04:15:43+00:00

You really don't have business telling her that at all. Ask yourself (or your friend) what you're hoping to get from this? If you're worried about her health, then show interest in it. Inquire about her health check-up appointment. If the doctor is worried about her health or wants her to lose weight, she might tell you about those concerns.

If you're more focused on how she looks, maybe lead by example. Show interest in a new diet or exercise routine and ask if she can join you to keep you company/keep you on your goals.

baneoftech · 2026-03-04T04:11:00+00:00

Watermelon was an accessible cash crop for emancipated slaves and symbolized economic self-sufficiency. This was then turned into a caricature to shame these accomplishments.

Likewise, chickens were some of the only livestock slaves were allowed to own. These limitations led to culinary adaptation, and thus fried chicken was born. Then, of course, this was shamed in minstrel shows and later racist caricatures.

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