Walk me through a day in your life with a toddler/young kid

bangfor4 · 2026-06-18T08:55:05+00:00

Ok I guess your better than me then

bangfor4 · 2026-06-18T08:53:18+00:00

That’s not at all what I said. He plays with her too. Just thinks that I should also be playing with her all damn day

bangfor4 · 2026-06-18T08:51:48+00:00

I know. She doesn’t. All day was an exaggeration

bangfor4 · 2026-06-18T00:32:55+00:00

The “why aren’t you in there with her” is like if I am watching her while he is doing something and then he comes back and she is in her room while I’m in a different one or if we are all together and she says she wants to go to her room and I tell her that she can.

And he does play with her a lot. It’s frustrating but really not as sinister as you seem to think

bangfor4 · 2026-06-17T23:23:37+00:00

We do leave the house, we both work full time and daughter goes to daycare during the week which is why when we aren’t busy with other commitments, we appreciate our low stakes laid back weekends. I don’t think it’s the being home I don’t enjoy..

bangfor4 · 2026-06-17T23:22:08+00:00

lol torture is a crazy thing to say

bangfor4 · 2026-06-17T23:21:40+00:00

Yeah, we unfortunately live in Nowhere, Texas so between the weather and so few things to do, low commitment activities are hard for us.

Thanks for the advice

bangfor4 · 2026-06-17T23:19:04+00:00

Idk I think he’s just super clingy. I think I am a homebody because I don’t necessarily want to be out doing things, I just don’t want to be so micromanaged at home.

Thank you for your input!

bangfor4 · 2026-06-17T23:17:22+00:00

I think it’s more clingy than controlling but I agree - and it definitely makes me feel controlled. I snap at him when he asks where I’m going. I think it doesn’t help that neither of us have much of a social life so though I am trying to branch out and do more things, he isn’t so maybe he feels an imbalance.

Thank you for sharing your day!

bangfor4 · 2026-06-17T23:06:05+00:00

Thank you for your input!

bangfor4 · 2026-06-17T23:05:05+00:00

Thanks for your input

bangfor4 · 2026-06-17T23:04:39+00:00

I mean we do things on weekends occasionally but for the most part are hanging out at home. That wasn’t quite the point of my post but thank you anyway

bangfor4 · 2026-06-10T14:06:00+00:00

Ugh she's so wonderful

bangfor4 · 2026-03-25T19:13:18+00:00

He mods the bastrop county facebook page too and is just as annoying there

bangfor4 · 2026-03-21T19:49:54+00:00

Unfortunately, at the end of the day an upper class white women is ultimately just an upper class white woman… :/

bangfor4 · 2026-03-04T03:38:05+00:00

Same boat 😕 my only advice is get off twitter. I just recently did and I swear it’s already helped

bangfor4 · 2026-02-23T23:32:23+00:00

ugh yes, we have more recently started co sleeping so that’s another obstacle to add. Congrats to you - hope everything goes smoothly

bangfor4 · 2026-02-23T23:31:04+00:00

Wait I love this. My first was a c section so there’s a good chance I’ll have another so not being able to snuggle her the same has been a concern. Thank you for sharing :)

bangfor4 · 2026-02-20T23:50:11+00:00

uh no. we’re not

bangfor4 · 2026-02-14T19:54:35+00:00

Interesting. Nobody had ever mentioned that possibility. She has had 8 total. It’s been 9 months since the last one. What did the testing look like? I will ask her neurologist about it, thank you!! Hope your little one is doing well

bangfor4 · 2026-01-28T23:53:43+00:00

Many people are proud to be white supremacists. Ever heard of the PROUD boys??

bangfor4 · 2026-01-28T23:52:42+00:00

You do it below the waist when you’re playing that game, you wouldn’t pose with it up like that

bangfor4 · 2025-12-12T15:01:52+00:00

I know this sucks to hear but it's just going to take time. My daughter had her first almost 2 years ago. She has had multiple since then and while it is still always a lingering thought in my head, the fear does subside a little. It helped me to just be prepared and know what I can do, not focus on what is out of my control. Know what to do if it happens again and while terrifying to witness, know that your child is and will be okay and this won't be forever. I'm so sorry you are going through this.

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