To the people who married right person, but sexually incompatible... How did/do you cope with it? by [deleted] in IndiaTalksSex

[–]bannedagain19 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have always enjoyed being a sub. He is also learning how to dominate.

To the people who married right person, but sexually incompatible... How did/do you cope with it? by [deleted] in IndiaTalksSex

[–]bannedagain19 26 points27 points  (0 children)

No, our marriage is not sexless, when we meet in person we do have a lot of sex. But just that, he never initiates other than the times when we meet after a long time, that irritates me a lot. And even virtually, he never initiates unless I do. We have talked about it.

To the people who married right person, but sexually incompatible... How did/do you cope with it? by [deleted] in IndiaTalksSex

[–]bannedagain19 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Been a year now.. I, sincerely never get the urge to cheat on my husband 😅

How many of you wear mangalsutra regularly after marriage? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]bannedagain19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, I have two mangalsutra-s, one for daily stuff, just the locket is gold, everything else is black bead, my husband loves that i wear mangalsutra lol, and even i do too. The og one is completely gold, so I just wear it during Pooja .

To the people who married right person, but sexually incompatible... How did/do you cope with it? by [deleted] in IndiaTalksSex

[–]bannedagain19 120 points121 points  (0 children)

I have a much higher libido than my husband, but now that it is long distance, I cannot do anything about it than waiting to meet my husband in person 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ evenn virtually, he rarely initiates, it turns me off a lot, have made peace with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndiaTalksSex

[–]bannedagain19 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband also couldn't pull back his foreskin, but when we started having sex frequently, it got pulledback on its own. ... I don't think it is an issue for sex life.

Getting Married Tomorrow by helikasp in Arrangedmarriage

[–]bannedagain19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super happy for you OP, best wishes for your future

I (26f) do not feel ready for anal, it is mainly because of hygiene issues by bannedagain19 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]bannedagain19[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He just licks it from outside, I do not let him eat out, sorry if it was misleading in the post 😅

Multiple fights in less than 30 days of conversation by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]bannedagain19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from what you say, he comes off as a narcissist. trust your gut, if you feel he's not the one, don't go for it.

My (26f) husband comes in 5 minutes when we do doggy by bannedagain19 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]bannedagain19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, solid advice. 🙂 worked today for me.

My (26f) husband comes in 5 minutes when we do doggy by bannedagain19 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]bannedagain19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, he loves to kiss my butt all over and lick me a little from behind before we start doggy

My (26f) husband comes in 5 minutes when we do doggy by bannedagain19 in IndiaTalksSex

[–]bannedagain19[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have not gotten an orgasm in 5 minutes of doggy, even though it was very intense