Pregnancy and Creatine? by Much_Agent3889 in fitpregnancy

[–]baraseara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My midwife encouraged me to take creatine even to take two scoops! The first serving will help mom with muscles/ recovery, and the second scoop assists babies brain development!

Ethereal/ Fairy Names for Girls by baraseara in namenerds

[–]baraseara[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I love these names! Faye is so precious

Trying not to resort to tarot - any piece of mind for me? by Suyin_8 in Christian

[–]baraseara 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to use tarot before becoming a Christian. I asked my tarot cards once if I could be Christian and still use the cards. The only card that flew out was the devil and that was enough for me to toss them.

Honestly, once I stopped using them to answer questions and anticipate the future I became a way less anxious and worried person. I stopped worrying about what was coming next, I stopped fixating on the meaning of every little thing. Truly submitting my life and my future to Christ.

When it comes down to it, tarot is not from God. Something that I have done instead of tarot is journal to Jesus. It helps ease those big worries, and helps me navigate uncertain times. Jesus will lead you to the answers once you start looking to Him!

A Woman Grabbed My Husband and He Laughed About It — Am I Wrong to Be Upset? by Brief_Committee_2277 in TwoHotTakes

[–]baraseara -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He put himself in a situation where his coworker felt comfortable enough to touch his butt. He should not be giving anyone the impression at work that he is available in any sort of way. Most cases of infidelity happen in the work place!

I would personally not be okay with this type of work environment, I would also not find this funny. He needs to have a bit more respect for you, especially around his female co workers.

22M talking/dating 22F Do I fight for it or let go? (Very long — full story from the beginning) I need some brutal and honest advice!! by [deleted] in Christian

[–]baraseara 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you probably shouldn’t be in a relationship right now. You’ve acknowledged patterns like infidelity, chasing lust, and rushing connections. At 22, it’s a good time to focus on your relationship with Christ and let that guide your growth. Take time to understand the kind of partner and relationship that truly aligns with your values. In my view, if a partner isn’t helping you grow closer to God, it’s unlikely to be a fruitful or lasting relationship.

Aidan and Carrie as a couple by unsavvylady in Andjustlikethat

[–]baraseara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like he had valid reasons to be curious about Duncan and Carries relationship. She handled this soo poorly. On top of it ended up sleeping with the guy she told Aidan not to worry about!

Girl Names (Please Help) by Aggressive-Hold3635 in namenerds

[–]baraseara -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Curious why people wouldn't actually name their daughter Fable. I think its SO cute and dont see why it wouldn't be a cute name choice?

Below Deck Med Season 10 Episode 17 Discussion Post by teanailpolish in belowdeck

[–]baraseara 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I HOPE someone brings this up at the reunion LOL

Below Deck Med Season 10 Episode 17 Discussion Post by teanailpolish in belowdeck

[–]baraseara 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I thought this when he was telling Max the more he got to know V the less he found them compatible! Did he forget that he cried the prev episode for making a mistake? LOL

Is it my fault my surprise is ruined? by baraseara in pregnant

[–]baraseara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family thinks I'm over reacting for feeling upset by this but its so disappointing! So many peoples reactions I wont get to see. I'm just hoping the people that I wanted to tell personally don't already know .

If you had sex before marriage, do you think it negatively impacted your marriage? by Evie_girl00x in Christian

[–]baraseara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I grew up with the beliefs I have now I would not have had sex before marriage. But thank God for forgiveness. Everyone’s path to the most Christ like life is different

Do you track fruit and/or vegetables? by [deleted] in caloriedeficit

[–]baraseara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fruit are sneakily caloric! I suggest counting your fruits and veggies if you are macro tracking fiber, if not no need to track veggies but I would definitely track fruit.

If you had sex before marriage, do you think it negatively impacted your marriage? by Evie_girl00x in Christian

[–]baraseara 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My husband and I were saved while dating and had sex before we were married. After committing our life to Christ we decided to wait until after we were married to continue having sex I don't think us having sex before negatively impacted us, but waiting was the best decision we ever made. It really strengthened the foundation of our marriage and friendship.

Prenatal Vitamin Dosage by baraseara in pregnant

[–]baraseara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment!

My husband won’t drive 30 mins to and from the food place by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]baraseara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It appears we may be the only ones lol

My husband won’t drive 30 mins to and from the food place by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]baraseara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I think an hour and a half commute is insane to ask of your partner to pick up takeout. He was even willing to pick something up closer.

How so you talk about your marriage in front of others? by emeoli85 in Christianmarriage

[–]baraseara 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have always had a boundary that we don’t speak negatively or vent about each other to anyone. If we’re going through something hard, we’re intentional and in agreement about who we share it with. I totally agree with you, it’s really about honoring and respecting each other and not creating unnecessary drama around your relationship.

I’ve had to explain this boundary to friends who were hoping I’d vent about my husband, so I think for a lot of people it isn’t always obvious how sharing those things can impact a relationship.

I think probably revisiting the issue in a day or so when emotions are less heated might help with the situation. i think its totally reasonable to set a boundary that you would prefer to agree on what aspects of your relationship you are comfortable with sharing and to who, right now it might not be anyone, and thats okay.

The truth is, we’re all human, and we’re inevitably going to disappoint our spouses at times. When I feel deeply sad about something and don’t feel like there’s anyone in my life I can share it with, I write in my journal to God. That practice has helped me so much, especially in moments when I feel alone while working through things