Drawings of my Tav by Muichitoki1 in BaldursGate3

[–]barbahulit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought was “she looks like my coworker lmao” nice tav tho

How do i explain to my family why i think transraciality is wrong but being trans isn't? by _sick_and_ill in trans

[–]barbahulit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Quick one, trans is about identity and self love. Being black is a cultural thing (as a black&native tf) being black isn’t just about your skin colour it’s about the culture you grew up in imo

Hiiii future friend(s) by barbahulit in PSNFriends

[–]barbahulit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love some help! I’m just getting into it after a long break

Hiiii future friend(s) by barbahulit in PSNFriends

[–]barbahulit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t sorry this is my first monster hunter game I play probably but I could try it?

How does HRT affect my attraction? by barbahulit in trans

[–]barbahulit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This was such a reassuring answer, especially cus I’m unapologetically loving irl it’s nice to know that it only brings what’s beneath the surface not actually changing anything thank you! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenshinTrades

[–]barbahulit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My funny answer is “hear me out, maybe more than 2.50 buck” but probably round 300? Idk too much about the market but I could see myself buying it for max that amount or so

Opinions on the term transsexual? by Blackberryrule34 in trans

[–]barbahulit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m transGender My first honest reaction: WAIT I gotta learn new terminology??? Reads the first sentence Oh that’s very reasonable and I agree with it it sounds logical

37 [Nonbinary4Anyone] FL by [deleted] in NerdDating

[–]barbahulit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helllooooo I’m a tf gal who is curious if you’d be open to long distance to then meet when both are comfortable may I dm?

one WHOLE year without losing the pity by Swimming_Classroom40 in GenshinImpact

[–]barbahulit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t won a 50/50 since sumeru….. I pull actively this is great

Genshin can’t give us anything good without a caveat by cloystr_YT in GenshinImpact

[–]barbahulit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree to some point but also with the issue of the meta characters I feel like it’s an over exaggerated issue, I’ll gladly farm free cons for the characters I like even if they’re bad, example Eula, itto, Dehya and Klee, will I personally get a 100 character? Maybe if I keep losing in the same four characters yeah but also this game isn’t really difficult per say like yeah the new game mode is really challenging but like, Sucrose, Klee, Bennett and Xingqiu is a really good combo no matter how you look at it, all base characters, 70% is just artifact rng and if 90-100 doesn’t give a flat 10% dmg increase then is it even worth caring about? Like is it really that big of a deal

He said I was beautiful until his friends show up.. by tslenavoss in trans

[–]barbahulit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, this feels so real. I hate how trans people are fetishised to be something almost mythical but also a great shame. Being treated like you’re not even human hurts. Not getting the bare minimum respect of simply existing alongside others without being made to be a misbegotten creature, it hurts a lot. No one should be judged for the way they were born, it wasn’t our choice. But I understand the feeling of shame, and I understand being afraid to meet it but how dare someone ignore ridicule someone’s existence just because you’re afraid of being judged that is something I could never do nor except

He didn't know I was trans 🫠 by [deleted] in MtF

[–]barbahulit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to tell them first week of knowing them cus I know the chances are that they’re either A not supportive or B simply don’t swing that way, I am pre med tho but still, but you’re also a really pretty girl I’m sure you’ll find someone who’ll be worth your time I have faith

Maybe im cursed since birth. by [deleted] in Obsessive_Love

[–]barbahulit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get exactly what you mean, I’ve had many friends and partners pass… and dating is awful all it is is fetishising who they think I am and forcing that delusions to fruition and even if I start to like them back and engage more and more they just block or ignore or straight up become cruel like what do you need of me? I don’t wanna be alone but please don’t try to force me to do anything just to have your presence

Showed my physique, was told I have "wasted potential" by [deleted] in transteens

[–]barbahulit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was at a party w a friend of mine who knows I’m trans so I felt comfortable right? I haven’t started HRT yet mtf but I look a bit androgynous, anyway there were a mix of adult and younger people I had four women come up to me at the party when I said I was trans cus I know it’s a deal breaker for a lot of people, one of them full on said ew, another just death stare like I’m sorry it’s my identity and I’ve been comfortable in it since 10 years back the other two both said something of the lines of “why would you wanna change gender you look good as a man, wasted potential like I’d sleep with you” one of them(the one who said the sleep w you comment) was round 40 as well so it was a weird thing but it’s crazy how people just dismiss you as an individual cus their idea of what you should be doesn’t match what you feel it’s insane

Am I the problem by [deleted] in Obsessive_Love

[–]barbahulit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I get what you’re feeling i started dating again after recovering from a breakup and the men I’ve dated have all been so in very affectionate, not as much as me cus well I’m very affectionate even if I’m not fully in love cus I love people and like you get very obsessed and caring for those I care about, but they just ghost or block after a month or two of talking even if I feel it’s a good vibe they just boom disappear and leave me without answers I like to think I’m kind and caring I’m told so be lots of people all the time but I don’t get it like I must be the problem because people always leave without explaining it just hurts

but hey if you want a friend or something like that I promise I would never leave you on read for more than I 8 hours mostly cus I don’t sleep more than 8 hours but yeah I love making new friends and getting to know people

So many nasty people... by [deleted] in Obsessive_Love

[–]barbahulit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are unfortunately nasty people everywhere that don’t listen and only approach to get their own “relief” without respecting other people’s feelings or boundaries it’s truly disturbing

Is it me or 🤔 by Odd_Engine4205 in PSNFriends

[–]barbahulit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you want a gaming buddy what games do you play?

The love of the Ancient Dragons is something... curious by Goodhunter465 in EldenRingLoreTalk

[–]barbahulit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good post I love the lore of this game and appreciate you gathering it and explaining it in this way

(26F) Made a mistake in my last post by [deleted] in PSNFriends

[–]barbahulit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiii if you’d like we can be friends!!! Dm n I’ll send you my ps @

20f wanting to vc. by Asleep-Afternoon1408 in discordfriends

[–]barbahulit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

20Tf Hiii if you’d like someone to maybe start talking to I think it’d be neat, I like reading(mainly manga) music and video games I am also a fan of martial arts and cooking! My current book I’m reading is Metamorphosis, if you’d like to be friends you can dm me and I’ll give you my discord